Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Had a chick flake on me today...I'm not even disappointed though because I saw it coming...just tired of chicks thinking this shyt is ok.

We made plans like a week & a half ago to chill at her new place. I was gonna bring a bottle & we were gonna just drink, smoke hookah & chill. This was her idea & she even picked the day. It had already been established that we were gonna smash because we got it out there up front (I've smashed before, but it's been awhile).

So she's been doing the usual for the past week, texting me good morning, & responding super quick whenever I hit her. I only texted her a few times this entire week, just to keep a little contact. I texted her wednesday morning & she even responded with a random nude :leon: So I'm like well damn, this shyt is in the bag. But little did I know, fukkery was well on its way.

So today is the day we're supposed to chill. I hit her up earlier to make sure everything was still good. A few hours goes by...radio silence. Spider senses immediately started tingling because this bytch ALWAYS has her phone on her & always responds fast any other time. So I already knew she was gonna flake, but I wanted her to actually say it. Then I get on instagram real quick on my lunch break & see this bytch had recently posted something to her story :beli: So at this point she's bushed no matter what happens because I'm not playing fukking games with any female at this point...especially one who's blatantly ignoring me. I started making other plans for the evening because I already knew how it was gonna go. I didn't even reach out to her again, I was just like aight fukk it. Then she finally texts me back hours later saying we should reschedule :martin:

I did not respond & she has been officially bushed. I will not allow my time to be wasted by anyone & how she gonna flake on plans that SHE made :mindblown:

The entire situation is just mind boggling to me....chicks willing to waste other peoples time, as well as their own. Like I said, I've smashed this chick before so it's whatever, but I'm just tired of the games. I'm bout to just resort back to my scorched earth shyt for the rest of this year.
 

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It is indeed.

Although I will say most of the women I deal with will let me know early if they can't make it or want to do it another day.

I respect that. Instead of the going dark then saying they can't do it after the time has passed. And think that shyts cute.

Once again this is why a roster works in these situations, my care level of any chick who does that will switch, and I'll just focus on others.

Respect my time and I'll respect yours.
 

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It is indeed.

Although I will say most of the women I deal with will let me know early if they can't make it or want to do it another day.

I respect that. Instead of the going dark then saying they can't do it after the time has passed. And think that shyts cute.

Once again this is why a roster works in these situations, my care level of any chick who does that will switch, and I'll just focus on others.

Respect my time and I'll respect yours.
Definitely. If you gonna flake on somebody at least have the common courtesy to tell them/come up with a good lie.
 

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I wasted a lot of money on bytches over the years that I can't even remember what they look like now.

Had I been investing that shyt ain't no telling how much my investment portfolio would be worth:francis:


Man.. don’t even get me started or even think about the doe I’ve wasted :(
 

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Talked to two different people who said they met their SO on social media.

Hate it, but social media is now and has been the wave. Gotta adjust, but my DM game is highkey trash. And I do agree with AMS social media be making dudes come off as fans to some of these chicks.
I'm definitely going to forever "starve" then. Get to know me not my page.
 

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I'm definitely going to forever "starve" then. Get to know me not my page.

what's tricky too is that social media let's people control what sort of image they portray and it enhances their value even though they might be the biggest fraud once you get to know them. shyt's toxic man. half these birds just want a significant other to show off on social media. life comes full circle lol
 

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Been sexless since memorial day weekend. Not really pressed for sex tho:blessed:

African chick I went to happy hour wit earlier this weekend bushed me yesterday. We were supposed to hit happy hr again but I told her to reschdule it to 9 or we can do another day cause I had to hit the gym after work. Shorty didnt reply back:mjlol:. Hit her up on IG cuz she took a IG story selfie but just sent ““ to test the waters. She sent back “thanks” i’ll take my L. I gave her an option bit ahe aint take it:hubie:

Jamacian chick I met up wit to smoke and drink in my whip earlier in the week supposed to meet up wit me tonight. She wasnt tryna let me fukk earlier cuz “its the 2nd time we met”:duck: . She a hoodrat for sure. Ima bang her out in the whip. Shorty was tellin me she was gonna hookup with me and leave me like it was some kinda problem with me:rudy:. She told me her 40 yr old BF blocked her on social media and they done. bytch say she “21” I think she like 19-20. Shorty a sugar baby

Ima friendzone this crazy ass lightskin chick I met off pof. She sent me the longest text ever last night. She attached too much and we havent fukked. Turned me off. Ima try n finesse the situation into me just fukkon while she look for a BF.

She invited me over to watch a movie lastnight at her crib but thank god the finals were on cuz I would have been fukkin:whew:
 
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