Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I got 2 girls i hooked up with, one says she dont want to date, just hook up but just want me to herself & the other one treating me like im her bf, calling me everyday, wanting to go out n shyt, i never been in this position:mjgrin:
how do i handle this shyt bruhs:jbhmm:
 

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I got 2 girls i hooked up with, one says she dont want to date, just hook up but just want me to herself & the other one treating me like im her bf, calling me everyday, wanting to go out n shyt, i never been in this position:mjgrin:
how do i handle this shyt bruhs:jbhmm:
Just go with the flow :myman:
 

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I was at an event today after work. It was a First Thursday thing here where they have drinks, a DJ, a great band. Really cool. I frankly felt a bit awkward being there by myself in my work clothes. I didn't really anticipate going. I ran into a coworker and we started talking which was good. Had a drink. I warmed up a bit and chatted up some women. This Hispanic girl was giving me very small shyt tests which was fun and we had a good interaction.

What I'm really posting about is bumping into a woman I matched with on Bumble LAST YEAR. We never met and I thought she was good looking. I didn't think she would recognize me in person because I had my specs on. She said that I'm more handsome in person. :mjlit:

She told me that she was with a friend but I should take down her number which I did. Find out she's a lawyer. Been bumping into a few high caliber women I just didn't think that would check for me. :ld:

Doctor, Principal, now a Lawyer. Gonna set something up with her early next week :ehh:


I texted a former recruiter I worked with last year. Young attractive girl. She got a bit personal during my job search. She would text me, added me on FB and IG...I thought there was a small level of attraction but I wasn't sure because I was working with her as a professional. Anyway I texted her last week. Over a week later she hits me back. I'm trying to clap cheeks brehs :takedat: . I immediately asked her schedule this week and see if we can do something. We will see.
 

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I got 2 girls i hooked up with, one says she dont want to date, just hook up but just want me to herself & the other one treating me like im her bf, calling me everyday, wanting to go out n shyt, i never been in this position:mjgrin:
how do i handle this shyt bruhs:jbhmm:

Go with the one that likes u the most
 

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My former coworker(and homegirl) religious parents do not realize the fukkery she's been up to outside their home the past 5 years. They still think she's a virgin not realizing she's been hitting me up for sex at her after I switched departments the past year. :lolbron:

Though our recent smashes she's been catching feelings telling me "I should have dinner at her parents place one day". I fear she's been telling em about me behind my back. :francis:

I may have to let her go soon before she gets the wrong idea of where this is going cause I'm not interested beyond that hitting that ass and funny personality. :francis:
 

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What do y’all usually do with girls who don’t drink? I met one on 4th of July and my go-to is usually to invite them somewhere for a drink. FWIW she owns a software company.
 

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sooooo I was smashing this married chick.. all hell went loose the past couple of weeks. Her husband came up to the job (we both work at the same job). Dude bought a gun up there and she quit her job immediately. Luckily, I was off that day. Is it bad I sympathize with her husband?

How did the husband find out? I'm guessing she told him, but was it to make him mad/jealous?
 

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sooooo I was smashing this married chick.. all hell went loose the past couple of weeks. Her husband came up to the job (we both work at the same job). Dude bought a gun up there and she quit her job immediately. Luckily, I was off that day. Is it bad I sympathize with her husband?

wow youre dumb breh :ld: don't get killed over no ass please.
 

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What do y’all usually do with girls who don’t drink? I met one on 4th of July and my go-to is usually to invite them somewhere for a drink. FWIW she owns a software company.
i usually go with a coffee shop in a trendy part of town. dim lighting, soft music, couches. shyt is almost the same vibe as a bar. lol i dont drink coffee, but i'll grab tea or a smoothie. usually the chick will grab a frappachino or a scone whatever. if youre feelin her, you can take her for a little stroll around town afterwards.

sometimes i'll go to a bakery. i dont know any chick who doesnt like sweets.

what used to be my go-to was meeting them at the riverwalk downtown right after dusk. totally free and romantic to walk around and watch the sunset and soak up the fly ass ambiance.

since its summer, theres a bunch of free shyt to do...jazz fests, art fairs, african world festivals
 
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