Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MaxPain]

Bet. You think I should hit her up first or wait?

Nah dont hit her up.

She’ll be back, trust me. For now focus on urself & other broads.

 

[The Mad Titan]

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Damn ain't know she had a wagon like that

 

[Sylar]

whats up with all these endless new threads asking advice about women lately, like this big ass thread doesnt exist

thecoli, y'all

 

[The Mad Titan]

Damn ain't know she had a wagon like that

I put this in the wrong thread lol

But yeahhhhhh

 

[MikelArteta]

Depressing I tell you

 

[Momentum]

I stopped cold approaching as the odds are horrible for regular black guys but I will try this one chick I've been eyeing just to have a followup story for this thread.

Saw her again but it wasn't a good opportunity to talk. Letting it go and moving on. Timing never works out for me

 

[The BasedFather]

Nah I’m done with this bytch. Broke up with her ass this Sunday and I heard she was in the club drunk and some nikka had his hand up her dress and squeezing her t*ts

Lesson learned to be HOH and GMB. Never wifin a broad again.

 

[Nuke Dukem]

WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?


So here’s my issue...

I want to just date a few women and be casual with it...


Everytime I start talking to a female they immediately start going heavy on a relationship ...


I have a for example


Yesterday this female I have on snap commented on a story I had up.. We got to bs’in and I ended up going over to see her last night ...

She got in my car we got to talking, smoked a lil bit, kissed and then she ended up toppin me off in the front seat ..


Now she’s texting me about how She’d always

Keep her man on the right track in life

Cook for them

Massages

Be a freak


All great shyt.. really selling herself ..

But man I just wanna keep it casual but idk what I do but I always get females trying to be cuffed right away



So what’s the advice on keeping casual n not falling into a relationship or leading the girl on

* I always tell them I’m just looking for someone I can vibe with etc....** so I try to make it known

 

[RealAssanova]

women love getting FUKKED not bein made love to. Yea its good to alternate between the 2 at times, but the majority of time most women want to absolutely destroyed.

choked, slapped, talkin dirty to, hair pulled, suckin on, biting, etc.

then they become feminine and submissive afterwards.

 

[Solano707]

WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?


So here’s my issue...

I want to just date a few women and be casual with it...


Everytime I start talking to a female they immediately start going heavy on a relationship ...


I have a for example


Yesterday this female I have on snap commented on a story I had up.. We got to bs’in and I ended up going over to see her last night ...

She got in my car we got to talking, smoked a lil bit, kissed and then she ended up toppin me off in the front seat ..


Now she’s texting me about how She’d always

Keep her man on the right track in life

Cook for them

Massages

Be a freak


All great shyt.. really selling herself ..

But man I just wanna keep it casual but idk what I do but I always get females trying to be cuffed right away



So what’s the advice on keeping casual n not falling into a relationship or leading the girl on

* I always tell them I’m just looking for someone I can vibe with etc....** so I try to make it known

So this is where AMS talks about this... don't bring up any type of relationship. Just keep riding it out. Don't commit yourself and do not bring up the topic of relationship. Just continue to ride it as long as you can. If at a point she traps you in the corner, then tell her you are not looking for a relationship and you are only dating and the reason being is that you are establishing yourself and you do not have the energy for a full fledge relationship

She'll either bite off on that or she'll leave.

 

[Nuke Dukem]

So this is where AMS talks about this... don't bring up any type of relationship. Just keep riding it out. Don't commit yourself and do not bring up the topic of relationship. Just continue to ride it as long as you can. If at a point she traps you in the corner, then tell her you are not looking for a relationship and you are only dating and the reason being is that you are establishing yourself and you do not have the energy for a full fledge relationship

She'll either bite off on that or she'll leave.

What’s AMS...

And what do I do when she keeps bringing up all she has to offer

She seems coo.. when offered to bring me ice cream since I had a long day


What’s a good answer when they ask what you’re looking for

They always put it in one of two

Someone to fukk

A GF



What’s the best answer

 

[Solano707]

What’s AMS...

And what do I do when she keeps bringing up all she has to offer

She seems coo.. when offered to bring me ice cream since I had a long day


What’s a good answer when they ask what you’re looking for

They always put it in one of two

Someone to fukk

A GF



What’s the best answer

AMS = Alpha Male Strategies - a dude on youtube... check him out, really smart and on point

So, if she brings up selling herself again, just ask questions, don't trip off it. Or sublty change the subject that she can relate to. She is dominating the conversation because you are allowing it. You need to change the channel to something. But do it subtle so it doesn't seem like your being an ass about it.

As for as what you are looking for, just say that you are enjoying your life and you are dedicated your time to self improvement and getting yourself established. I would say, that you are just looking into dating and not a serious relationship AT THIS TIME... this will lead her to believe that you are dating for a serious relationship, but it does not commit you to being in a serious relationship. She's gonna take that as a challenge and will hang on for a while.

 

[VertigoKnight]

I was telling chicks I was just dating and not looking for any exclusive relationship at this time. Which they said they respected, but were obviously trying to get me to change my mind.

I'd say that tactic works for a few months.

The danger is if you meet a chick that you could see yourself wifing you can only push it so far keeping her at bay with that talk or letting her walk.

I'd say after 4 months of seeing someone you'll know if there worth seeing exclusively.

 

[semicko82]

Need some advice...

I cut it off with my girl today because I found some shyt out about her. We’ve been dating about a month. It’s a small world so some people I know, know her and said she was a party girl, a huge drinker and slutty.

I outright asked her how many dudes she’s been with and she said 6. 2 of them were relationships and the rest random. She’s 21 so I’m kinda bugging about that. I can understand the 2, but damn.

I also found out she smokes weed for her anxiety, which I don’t fukk with drugs at all.

I found out her last niqqa was some thug and used to beat her. I’m not trying to get caught in crossfire for a broad if he happens to wanna come back around.

When I’m with her I would’ve never knew any of this because she’s the sweetest girl ever.

She grew up without her pops and was abused when she was younger.

When I broke up with her though she did a 180 and came for my ass.

I feel like I made the right decision but I can’t wife that up. Am I tripping?

If you like the lady and the thug come through causing trouble you know what to do