TheArchitect
All Star
How do you get a female more comfortable you?
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
Don’t overthink it. Ask her questions and sit back and listen. Don’t be goofy.
Silkk
Can't Change My Damn Avi :beli:
Depends, some chicks are emotionally unavailable. I dont even like wasting time on them
Field update report:
Well on the 4th of July had met woman that night and had a good time. Fast forward a week later, she had found out that a girl on IG I followed didn't like. She asked if I fukked her and of course I said yes. Man, she flipped her lid. Long story short, the girl i fukked, was fukking her boy friend before. So she goes up and down and on me call me every name in the book. I say how can you get mad at me for a relations i had before I met you? Still, she was pissed. So she she dumps me tells me not to call her back and all that.
I told her don't ever fukking call me a gain and get lost. So i hang up phone and then i proceed to ignore her. She called me like 10 times that day and sent her to voice mail. Telling me i aint' shyt lol
She calls me a few weeks later and i said, wtf are calling me for? wtf do you want? Don't ever fukking call me, I got other shyt I'm taking care of. Pretty much dismissed her ass stone cold... i said some other things, but bottom line, i didn't pull any punches on her ass. Now she is the type of woman, black woman, who is strong, single parent (like myself) and she isn't with the shyts.
I employed the Corey Wayne / AMS tactics - fell back, didn't put with her shyt, put the broad in her place was not apologetic at all. I was full prepared to not having anything to do with her anymore, i could have cared less if I ever saw her again, i had that abundance mindset. I didn't let her knock me off my center of balance either, i did not get into any shouting matches with her either.
Then weeks later... she starts liking my posts on IG randomly....
Then eventually, she reached out on IG asking how i was. Long story short, we hook back up and become bf and gf.... a few days ago, we talked about the whole situation and it just confirms with Corey Wayne / AMS said... she said yeah, when you told me to fukk off and why the fukk i kept calling you, i was like 'no this nikka didn't' lol
She said, that was the sexist shyt that someone put her in place because no other man has EVER done it before. She said, this nikka actually stood up to me and she said she got instantly wet and attracted to me.
But I tell you this guys, do not be afraid to let these broad have it. DO NOT BE WEAK.
Her and I pretty much inseparable. Sex is great. I totally have her submitting at my beckon call. We had went out to a fish fry cook out this weekend and wherever i went, she was by my side, brought me my plate of food and liquor. I can actually say that i am really feeling this woman. She cooked me dinner yesterday which was on point too.
Well on the 4th of July had met woman that night and had a good time. Fast forward a week later, she had found out that a girl on IG I followed didn't like. She asked if I fukked her and of course I said yes. Man, she flipped her lid. Long story short, the girl i fukked, was fukking her boy friend before. So she goes up and down and on me call me every name in the book. I say how can you get mad at me for a relations i had before I met you? Still, she was pissed. So she she dumps me tells me not to call her back and all that.
I told her don't ever fukking call me a gain and get lost. So i hang up phone and then i proceed to ignore her. She called me like 10 times that day and sent her to voice mail. Telling me i aint' shyt lol
She calls me a few weeks later and i said, wtf are calling me for? wtf do you want? Don't ever fukking call me, I got other shyt I'm taking care of. Pretty much dismissed her ass stone cold... i said some other things, but bottom line, i didn't pull any punches on her ass. Now she is the type of woman, black woman, who is strong, single parent (like myself) and she isn't with the shyts.
I employed the Corey Wayne / AMS tactics - fell back, didn't put with her shyt, put the broad in her place was not apologetic at all. I was full prepared to not having anything to do with her anymore, i could have cared less if I ever saw her again, i had that abundance mindset. I didn't let her knock me off my center of balance either, i did not get into any shouting matches with her either.
Then weeks later... she starts liking my posts on IG randomly....
Then eventually, she reached out on IG asking how i was. Long story short, we hook back up and become bf and gf.... a few days ago, we talked about the whole situation and it just confirms with Corey Wayne / AMS said... she said yeah, when you told me to fukk off and why the fukk i kept calling you, i was like 'no this nikka didn't' lol
She said, that was the sexist shyt that someone put her in place because no other man has EVER done it before. She said, this nikka actually stood up to me and she said she got instantly wet and attracted to me.
But I tell you this guys, do not be afraid to let these broad have it. DO NOT BE WEAK.
Her and I pretty much inseparable. Sex is great. I totally have her submitting at my beckon call. We had went out to a fish fry cook out this weekend and wherever i went, she was by my side, brought me my plate of food and liquor. I can actually say that i am really feeling this woman. She cooked me dinner yesterday which was on point too.
Gonna shoot my shot with this Asian chick this week, I never messed with anything outside of black, but she too bad to not at least give an attempt 
I don't think it's necessarily sexist but Brehs gotta be displaying masculine qualities. Be assertive, dominant etc. Dismiss all the coli talk and feminist stuff straight women are attracted to men and want you to do manly shyt like "putting them in their place "
Give her a"what the fukk are you doing
?" Every once in awhileWear those goddamn pants brehs
Do it bro.Gonna shoot my shot with this Asian chick this week, I never messed with anything outside of black, but she too bad to not at least give an attempt
Stan Winters
Rookie
I needed to hear all of those replies
The crazy this was that she ended up leaving the company, so wasn't overstepping "the don't mess with coworkers" bounds. I think if it wasn't for that I woulda kept it pushing.
The crazy this was that she ended up leaving the company, so wasn't overstepping "the don't mess with coworkers" bounds. I think if it wasn't for that I woulda kept it pushing.
BeeGoinCrazy
#KKworldbrazy #SacBarz
I'm at a point in my life where I'm focused on the important shyt (job, moving out etc) I love women but on some real shyt they not doing anything for me. I stopped talking to 2 females one a single mom ( yeah I know 
) and some young chubby Mexican chick not 
young but 
young. Anyways both these females were really interested in me but I'm like bruh I can't do this anymore
The convo with the young chick is hella dry and boring
and the single mom was telling me last Thursday I think, some bytch called her stupid for having kids. Y'all like what's wrong with having kids
?? Get this I'm ONLY 6 months OLDER than her and she has 2 sons 
sucks because she was coo as hell otherwise, she likes r&b, and she was easy to talk to. But I'm just on some tryna better my life type shyt females always gone be around 
) and some young chubby Mexican chick not young but young. Anyways both these females were really interested in me but I'm like bruh I can't do this anymoreThe convo with the young chick is hella dry and boring
and the single mom was telling me last Thursday I think, some bytch called her stupid for having kids. Y'all like what's wrong with having kids?? Get this I'm ONLY 6 months OLDER than her and she has 2 sons sucks because she was coo as hell otherwise, she likes r&b, and she was easy to talk to. But I'm just on some tryna better my life type shyt females always gone be around
Some crazy shyt happened, and I ended up biting on this.... Seems like it's a wrap though
husband works a job where he's out of town a lot during the week.
We were doing our thing once/twice a week from a few weeks after I posted that till recently.
I think the husband caught on because he started hitting her up out of the blue while we were together.
It came to head she sent me a Pic from a spot were use to sneak away too and he was visible.
My reaction wasdon't send me nothing like this.
On one hand I took it as disrespect since we had to cancel recently because of him on the other maybe she was letting me know she was thinking about me.
We haven't talked since (use to almost everyday)
Do I reinitiate contact brehs
Give her space, it may be hot where she is at right now...
I don't think it's necessarily sexist but Brehs gotta be displaying masculine qualities. Be assertive, dominant etc. Dismiss all the coli talk and feminist stuff straight women are attracted to men and want you to do manly shyt like "putting them in their place "
Give her a"what the fukk are you doing
Wear those goddamn pants brehs
Agreed. Usually I'm not that agressive and more soft spoken. But this time... I just didn't give a fukk anymore. What really tipped me to switch up my style was reading "No More Mr. Nice Guy"...
... read it if you haven't.
Cleansprite
Pro
This chick I met off tinder gave me the sloppiest head ever I be tryna play it cool but I been tryna go over to her house again and get some more she be saying she busy tho smh
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Summers over, the nights are drawing in and chicks have returned to the dating apps. Looking for something to keep them warm. Decided to start up my tinder profile with all new pics on Thursday night. By Friday morning I had 20 good matches.
I had three impromptu drink dates this weekend one ended up sexual and the other kissing and groping. groping chick I'll be seeing again.
The only holdout was this sexy ass Iranian Persian chick we met for drinks on Friday night and chatted she wanted something serious after being divorced for three years (i.e I've done my playing around and now I want to get a long term man). tbh she's a catch. Has her own house and business. Her family are all entrepreneurs.
I told her straight up. I'm not in the space for anything serious. It was a fun evening but decided we would be good as 'friends' so we parted on that note. I sent her a cheeky "thanks for the nice evening" message. And that I peeped what she was working with when she got up to go to the washroom.
She messaged back thanks. Two hours later she must have re-read the message and finally got what I was referring to and messaged me at 2.30 in the morning. I was still up so we got texting again and she told me I'm the kinda guy she is looking for etc, if we had met two years ago we would've done something together yada yada
Anyway talk turns to her ass again. two minutes later she sends me a topless pic of herself in a thong, juicy ass sticking out. I was like
But thinking to myself what happened to all that serious relationship talk? I've been replying sporadically over the weekend to her messages and she's chasing and making it very clear she wants to 'chill'. Will probably smash this weekend when she's back in the city.
I had three impromptu drink dates this weekend one ended up sexual and the other kissing and groping. groping chick I'll be seeing again.
The only holdout was this sexy ass Iranian Persian chick we met for drinks on Friday night and chatted she wanted something serious after being divorced for three years (i.e I've done my playing around and now I want to get a long term man). tbh she's a catch. Has her own house and business. Her family are all entrepreneurs.
I told her straight up. I'm not in the space for anything serious. It was a fun evening but decided we would be good as 'friends' so we parted on that note. I sent her a cheeky "thanks for the nice evening" message. And that I peeped what she was working with when she got up to go to the washroom.
She messaged back thanks. Two hours later she must have re-read the message and finally got what I was referring to and messaged me at 2.30 in the morning. I was still up so we got texting again and she told me I'm the kinda guy she is looking for etc, if we had met two years ago we would've done something together yada yada
Anyway talk turns to her ass again. two minutes later she sends me a topless pic of herself in a thong, juicy ass sticking out. I was like
But thinking to myself what happened to all that serious relationship talk? I've been replying sporadically over the weekend to her messages and she's chasing and making it very clear she wants to 'chill'. Will probably smash this weekend when she's back in the city.