Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

That's definitely part of my rule set, never go to her place of work. Ruins the "flow" of conversation/chemistry. She's a bartender, which means she's gonna flirt with guys for tips, it ruins any "realness" you want from her. In general I always take bartenders somewhere completely devoid of work....pizza/coffee shops are my go-to's. Basically, too many variables at her workplace.

Luckily, we hung out last weekend and she sprained her ankle

 

[Killigraphy]

Luckily, we hung out last weekend and she sprained her ankle

"Luckily"

 

[John Reena]

I know it’s gettin cold n shyt, but NEVER simp no iffy/flaking bytches. Don’t eem waste ya time.

 

[Silkk]

Out of sight, Out of mind. Gotta keep my ass off social media and shyt and i'm good.

Bout to blow all my money on the dumb shyt i've always wanted to buy

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

"Luckily"

Yeah. She couldn’t work so I dodged that L

 

[RealAssanova]

While people do have school/work, go outside and see how many of those people, still have enough time to check their phones every 5 minutes in the rain, snow, shyt, even during a hurricane. Unless you're a doctor -on call I expect you to be busy. But if you're a basic bytch with just homework and work on the docket, you have no excuse. The problem being; girls hit you up constantly if there's something to gain. She knows you want to fukk, as do the other 1000 or so dudes on her social media. And while most aren't going to give you undivided attention, those that don't (in your case) should be treated like second class citizens to your bourgeois lifestyle.


You're right, she doesn't owe you anything, but your time is far more valuable than hers, I would still talk to her, but she gets nothing but coffee dates till she acts accordingly.

I deleted the text. Didn’t bother replying. I ain’t gonna reward a broad with my attention and some free coffee after she displayed low quality behavior.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

I just copped Alpha Male's Strategies book. Recommended. Its very simple and practical, no difficult theories to memorize.

On the first few pages, he says seductive charm has to do having a laid-back demeanor. Talking slower, moving slower, etc. Being extra is a turn off.

On humor, there's a difference between being corny and funny. Having a sense of humor is cool but validating shows desperation.

I'm naturally a quiet mysterious dude, so I use this trait as a benefit. I work with chicks but I say less to give them an imagination.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I just copped Alpha Male's Strategies book. Recommended. Its very simple and practical, no difficult theories to memorize.

On the first few pages, he says seductive charm has to do having a laid-back demeanor. Talking slower, moving slower, etc. Being extra is a turn off.

On humor, there's a difference between being corny and funny. Having a sense of humor is cool but validating shows desperation.

I'm naturally a quiet mysterious dude, so I use this trait as a benefit. I work with chicks but I say less to give them an imagination.

Any online links?...

 

[J.E.T.S]

Am I wrong for ghosting on a chick after seeing the type of guys she has fukked?...

Her baby daddy is ugly asf. nikka got dreads and look like a dark skinny version Dave Chappelle.

The last two nikkas she had sex with and sucked up were 40 year old uncle looking dudes with big stomachs and kids damn near her age. She's 23.

I legit felt like something was wrong with me for her even being attracted to me after seeing that.

Can anyone relate?

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I think I might dedicate a year to self improvment. I want to see how things turn out a year for now

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Am I wrong for ghosting on a chick after seeing the type of guys she has fukked?...

Her baby daddy is ugly asf. nikka got dreads and look like a dark skinny version Dave Chappelle.

The last two nikkas she had sex with and sucked up were 40 year old uncle looking dudes with big stomachs and kids damn near her age. She's 23.

I legit felt like something was wrong with me for her even being attracted to me after seeing that.

Can anyone relate?

I wouldn't stop fukking with somebody because the nikkas she use to fukk with is ugly. It's a ego boost for you tho breh.look at it like she's upgrading

 

[Prynce]

Am I wrong for ghosting on a chick after seeing the type of guys she has fukked?...

Her baby daddy is ugly asf. nikka got dreads and look like a dark skinny version Dave Chappelle.

The last two nikkas she had sex with and sucked up were 40 year old uncle looking dudes with big stomachs and kids damn near her age. She's 23.

I legit felt like something was wrong with me for her even being attracted to me after seeing that.

Can anyone relate?

nah, she has low standards and probably low self esteem

 

[Momentum]

Saw a super bad exactly my type girl today as I was ironically sitting in my car reading thecoli.

I get out and go into the place I was at, and of course she somehow teleported off planet earth because she was not in there.

Attractive women know how to hide in public which is annoying but I can also imagine how they're just trying to go about their day and don't want to talk to random people.

Then again you wonder as a guy how do you meet them if this is the case.

 

[NerdNash]

I think I might dedicate a year to self improvment. I want to see how things turn out a year for now

I’m on this wave. 6 months. No dates. No hanging out in bars and shyt. I’ll hit some p*ssy if I need to but that’s it. Monk mode shyt. It has to be done

 

[Balla]

Is it basically his videos, but in book form? Is anything different from the videos ?

I just copped Alpha Male's Strategies book. Recommended. Its very simple and practical, no difficult theories to memorize.

On the first few pages, he says seductive charm has to do having a laid-back demeanor. Talking slower, moving slower, etc. Being extra is a turn off.

On humor, there's a difference between being corny and funny. Having a sense of humor is cool but validating shows desperation.

I'm naturally a quiet mysterious dude, so I use this trait as a benefit. I work with chicks but I say less to give them an imagination.