Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Definitely IG. Things were fine even when FB and Twitter were the two main social outlets. It's like when IG blew in around 2014 things went worse. Funnily someone mention this the other day, he said 2014 and 2015 was when the dating scene went to shyt. That was when IG basically over took Twitter and FB as the go to for young people.

I have a cousin whose on syracuse track team, haven't seen her in a few years did over christmas was stuck up as hell now just checked her instagram 50k followers
 

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? U might wanna elaborate on that to show u know what you’re talking about
I can't explain it right now. Everything makes sense in my mind but as applying into a concept in sentence format I'm lost.

All I can right now is that every girl who has been attracted to me has known the real me because there was no social contract or mental barrier behind it.

:mjcry: sorry breh these lessons take time
 

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Yea that shyt used to irk me..worked at a nordstrom and all the fine hoes would flirt but then when it came time they would give you their IG...but either never follow back or would never like or comment on your shyt at all.

It's like they treat dudes like fans....which is why I ignore most of em unless I intend on approaching...broads be wanting your attention but don't do anything for it...

whats funny most of these chicks are broke or working some corny ass waitress or bartending typ gig
 

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I've been hanging out with Ugandan alot, she's not bad on the eyes but I probably have like 20 women in my phone that are more attractive but yet I enjoy hanging out with her. No nagging, no stress, no instagram, no slutty photos on the net. Had a long day at work yesterday working on a project so she text me to come over, she cooked me dinner , then she was even interested in seeing and hearing about the project I was working on. I took the bus there and it was lik 12am getting late and I was sleepy and she ordered me a uber ride home
 

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I'm reading all these posts about women and what not and as a women myself I have a few concerns. It's seems like guys follow this "code" on dealing with females but how are I supposed to know when a man is really into you? Because clearly u can't go by what he says if its just all apart of the game and he isn't supposed to REALLY tell u how he feels it's all so confusing

Being female you’re more emotionally connected and in tune with your feelings. If you’re a fine female (I’m not judging you) a man is always going to come with his dikk waving first. It’s what we do. I have a very few female friends (who didn’t fukk me) who tell me some of y’all act like us or worse with the “I’ll suck his dikk dry or I’ll fukk the shyt outta him” so with that being said, we always want our end game to be us between your legs fukking you furiously and doing everything we saw in porn flicks like paint your face in my cum. Some of y’all are good girls, if guy really likes you he won’t run away and will be open and available.Period. Besides licking the lining out of you he will always be courteous, gentlemanly (to an extent) and be available.

If you got some joker who claims he into you but never does what you like, doesn’t woo you with words and compliments , only come around to fukk you or put that slab on you in hours of 11-3 then dip for days at a time and only hit you with random text and the most critical, NEVER TAKES YOU OUT IN PUBLIC or SPENDS TIME with no EMOTIONAL attachment then you taking an L. It’s his actions overall.

Lastly, If you fukk first and don’t figure us out fully, like a lot of women do you will lose us. We like p*ssy and the conquest. Don’t be a victim.
 

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Skyscrappercity forum? Nah fam, what's that? :lupe:
The broads from Maianga are still stuck up. I was talking to this 8 from there last year, but eventually either some dude picked it up or something 'cause she just stopped contacting. Good thing I'm a coli resident and some of the gems here are at my disposal whenever I need to remind myself to not be a simp. :yeshrug:

By downtown I mean the city centre (where you can find Alvalade and Maianga), but by up-town I meant like out of town/suburbs like Benfica, Kilamba, Condomínio Jardim-das-Rosas (where the Generals and deputies stay at), Jardim do Éden (lower officials and politicians stay here too), Projecto Nova Vida (not too famous for its women but still somewhat famous) and more residencial neighborhoods around that area.

Compared to the above mentioned, Cazenga, Cassenda, Sambi Zanga, these areas are what the french would call faubourg.

I got nothing against the people from there but homie that said to stay away from broke women wasn't lying. There are types of problems that come with dealing with those women that will drive you up the walls.
Skyscrappercity is a forum that displays various cities in different countries infrastructure check this one: Angola em imagens - SkyscraperCity

Yep that simp shyt a dangerous road to go, no self-respecting man should ever delve in that simp shyt. Props for these specific areas, if ever end up dating a girl from Luanda I'd prefer if she was from uptown or even downtown area. The girls I spoke to in Cazenga didn't have a clue of shyt unless it revolved around music, celebrities or gossip:mjlol: however these things can be overlooked if you are simply seeking to get your third leg wet.
 

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I've been hanging out with Ugandan alot, she's not bad on the eyes but I probably have like 20 women in my phone that are more attractive but yet I enjoy hanging out with her. No nagging, no stress, no instagram, no slutty photos on the net. Had a long day at work yesterday working on a project so she text me to come over, she cooked me dinner , then she was even interested in seeing and hearing about the project I was working on. I took the bus there and it was lik 12am getting late and I was sleepy and she ordered me a uber ride home


As you get older, the looks thing kind of takes a back seat to having a woman's company that you really enjoy... and that's really difficult to do here in the west. I remember reading your story on dealing with women out in Africa when you went out there and really being in demand. These women in the west have most of our minds skewed. When you deal with women in a culture not full of thirsty simps, you really get a taste of what made women so intoxicating in the past. Feminism and thirsty simps have made modern women so toxic that men here are almost avoiding them.
 

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As you get older, the looks thing kind of takes a back seat to having a woman's company that you really enjoy... and that's really difficult to do here in the west. I remember reading your story on dealing with women out in Africa when you went out there and really being in demand. These women in the west have most of our minds skewed. When you deal with women in a culture not full of thirsty simps, you really get a taste of what made women so intoxicating in the past. Feminism and thirsty simps have made modern women so toxic that men here are almost avoiding them.


Yup it was crazy I was there for like two weeks and prob met like 20 women. Didn’t have to beg, didn’t have to fake an image, didn’t have to spend money nothing. It was like having cataracts for years and then having them removed.
 

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This breh stay showing up at work to hang around with this chick, be posted up with her every night she work :mjlol:

no shade, but same chick be on me while im over there in the front asking me "Why you aint come out with us" "Where you going" etc etc



Next time imma ask her if she n dude in a relationship now, if not "im next" :mjlit:



Also I went out last night to downtown, it was cold af but some chicks were out.

I noticed 4-5 chicks were coming my way (i was ducked off in the front) but 30 mins in the DJ was pissing me off so I dipped before they all sat by me.
Imma have to do this again when i'm not freezing
 
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The past few weeks I've been talking to this Nigerian broad that's new at our workplace(im actually her supervisor). She's very down to earth, slim thick(used to run track), and cute as hell. We seem to vibe with each other very well and constantly communicate with each other outside of work. She's clearly made it obvious she's been feeling me.

We've actually knew each other since college but we weren't close back then compared to recently.

Whenever we go on lunch break she's always asking me very personal questions about my background and lowkey making flirts at me. She once said she barely recognized me from college when she saw that I put on some muscle mass and cleared up my acne the past 2 years since I've seen her.

She today asked if we could chill together alone at Botanical Gardens this weekend. I'm pretty mixed on this because I used to have interest in her during school but I chickened out back then since I was a shy skinny dude and she was very outspoken and assertive. I'm a long way from the person I was back then but I'm just a bit scared if this hangout turns into a date.
 
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