Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Silkk]

These bytches CRAZY

 

[HARLEM AL]

Welcome to the club bruh. I'm about to go monk mode "with her" and fukk the side chicks til she figure out who's fukking this up.

Ever had a bytch with good p*ssy but her standoffishness and independent woman with money personality was fukking up your sex drive? Like you can't even fukk her unless it's the way she wants and only on her terms?

I've had wack p*ssy that was better than this.

Yeah it’s never worth it. You better off not wanting it. When chicks do that they are more masculine than feminine. Take your attention away from her until you get what you want. shyt I rather you just walk away and don’t say shyt to her. That’s just me.

I remember hearing Patrice tell a dude don’t want it. nikka said you go through with it, please her(make her orgasm and the jerk your dikk and tell her thanks. shyt was hilarious.

 

[Soundbwoy]

Ok brehs I’m back in the game, just got a profile on BLK but it’s full of cacs. Anybody can share tips on online dating I haven’t done it since black planet

 

[Silkk]

say what you want about ams but he drops gems on a constant daily basis , its not for everyone but can take note

"I'd rather lose some p*ssy than to have a woman that don't respect me. fukk You"



Want to get that shyt tatted on me

 

[Soundbwoy]

Ok brehs I’m back in the game, just got a profile on BLK but it’s full of cacs. Anybody can share tips on online dating I haven’t done it since black planet

 

[Silkk]

Ok brehs I’m back in the game, just got a profile on BLK but it’s full of cacs. Anybody can share tips on online dating I haven’t done it since black planet

is that

 

[Soundbwoy]

is that

It’s supposed to be tinder for black peoples

 

[The Message]

last year they remodeled the whole foods i always go to. it looks really nice, inside and out.

my first time there, i pulled into the parking and i noticed there was a small door at the eastside of the store. i thought about going that way but i assumed it was for employees or just locked, so i decided to walk further towards what was obviously the main entrance.

as i was walking, an older white lady walked behind me and i noticed she was looking at the door behind us--she was thinking the same as me. lol i got towards the entrance and i glanced back and saw people walking into the small door.

"oh i guess you actually can go in that door" i said to her.
she said, "i was thinking that too but i followed you because you were walking so confidently, i assumed you knew where to go"

i thought nothing of her comment but days later that shyt hit me....even when i was uncertain on the inside, my exterior never displayed my hesitation. confidence is damn near 99.9% of all this shyt.

confidence and boldness are infectious. especially with women, they instinctively respond to it in men. their antennas are tuned to submit to men who exhibit that type of behavior.

women have such an innate desire to be led, they would rather be led by a man down a path of misery rather than be a woman leading a man down the avenue to success.

just something to think about...

 

[Snoopy Loops]

Peep this brehs, need some advice,

Im 29, my girl is 30. Relationship is 6 months old. I make about 70K (Energy IT) and my girl probably makes 90~100K (Energy Accounting). I could be termed a 'nice guy', fairly accommodating and all that. My girl is smarter, witty, good head on her shoulders, bold, outgoing, definitely more ambitious, not that I'm a complete slacker tho. I could pull my weight more but I have had some health challenges these past 2 years that have been fairly limiting.

We've been having some recent troubles and one of the main takeaways for me is that she wants her man to be a provider, comforter, and leader and she's saying I haven't been that. Its common knowledge that women want that, its humbling but i'm not tripping.

I have two beefs with her, one is that she doesn't give up the box. Sometimes its 3 weeks without smashing and we stay at each other's place everyday. She recently cited lack of romance as a reason. Her opinion is that we just have a functional relationship.

Second beef with her is that she can be mean, reluctant to apologize for offending, and will be mad if I don't give her feelings the right treatment about issues that happen in her day to day, when she does the same and sometimes even worse to me. Even scolding a nikka at one occasion
She's feels she's not compelled to apologize for something unless I call her out , under the guise her not knowing I was mad about it, even if its evident that I'm not pleased about our prior interaction. She acts all indignant when I do, and it seems I can't get the point across to her no matter how I phrase. In most cases, her continual deflections raise my temper, I become more animated, it becomes spirited discussion and is just generally non-productive or even destructive.

Now, I'm at an impasse, I want to be all those things for my future wife, but I cant put up with her pride. Honestly, the thought of breaking up feels like a sweet release , however she's a good catch and the grass may not greener on the other side.

Need some perspective brehs on how to run this

 

[HARLEM AL]

last year they remodeled the whole foods i always go to. it looks really nice, inside and out.

my first time there, i pulled into the parking and i noticed there was a small door at the eastside of the store. i thought about going that way but i assumed it was for employees or just locked, so i decided to walk further towards what was obviously the main entrance.

as i was walking, an older white lady walked behind me and i noticed she was looking at the door behind us--she was thinking the same as me. lol i got towards the entrance and i glanced back and saw people walking into the small door.

"oh i guess you actually can go in that door" i said to the her.
she said, "i was thinking that too but i followed you because you were walking so confidently, i assumed you knew where to go"

i thought nothing of her comment but days later that shyt hit me....even when i was uncertain on the inside, my exterior never displayed my hesitation. confidence is damn near 99.9% of all this shyt.

confidence and boldness are infectious. especially with women, they instinctively respond to it in men. their antennas are tuned to submit to men who exhibit that type of behavior.

women have such an innate desire to be led, they would rather be led by a man down a path of misery rather than be a woman leading a man down the avenue to success.

just something to think about...

Yup, confidence and boldness with women will go a long way. I didn’t understand this until I got older. When I was younger I use hang out with my friends with a group of chicks all the time. I use to say the craziest shyt and did not give a fukk. I swear I couldn’t help myself. My mother and my grandma use to speak their mind. Some would consider them to be a$$holes. I thought it was funny lol. Some of my friends use to try to cover it up and some would be dying. When they try to try to smooth shyt out I doubled down. Chicks use to love it. And the ones that hated it but somehow stuck around. shyt they would ask where I was at the next time everyone got together and I didn’t show up. shyt was weird but now I understand

 

[DaRealness]

Peep this brehs, need some advice,

Im 29, my girl is 30. Relationship is 6 months old. I make about 70K (Energy IT) and my girl probably makes 90~100K (Energy Accounting). I could be termed a 'nice guy', fairly accommodating and all that. My girl is smarter, witty, good head on her shoulders, bold, outgoing, definitely more ambitious, not that I'm a complete slacker tho. I could pull my weight more but I have had some health challenges these past 2 years that have been fairly limiting.

We've been having some recent troubles and one of the main takeaways for me is that she wants her man to be a provider, comforter, and leader and she's saying I haven't been that. Its common knowledge that women want that, its humbling but i'm not tripping.

I have two beefs with her, one is that she doesn't give up the box. Sometimes its 3 weeks without smashing and we stay at each other's place everyday. She recently cited lack of romance as a reason. Her opinion is that we just have a functional relationship.

Second beef with her is that she can be mean, reluctant to apologize for offending, and will be mad if I don't give her feelings the right treatment about issues that happen in her day to day, when she does the same and sometimes even worse to me. Even scolding a nikka at one occasion
She's feels she's not compelled to apologize for something unless I call her out , under the guise her not knowing I was mad about it, even if its evident that I'm not pleased about our prior interaction. She acts all indignant when I do, and it seems I can't get the point across to her no matter how I phrase. In most cases, her continual deflections raise my temper, I become more animated, it becomes spirited discussion and is just generally non-productive or even destructive.

Now, I'm at an impasse, I want to be all those things for my future wife, but I cant put up with her pride. Honestly, the thought of breaking up feels like a sweet release , however she's a good catch and the grass may not greener on the other side.

Need some perspective brehs on how to run this

The relationship is only six months old and she's doing all that, but you think she's a good catch?

You barely even smash, she puts you down for your salary (surely she knew this before?), she's disrespectful and aggressive all the time and isn't humble in any way....so what makes her a "good catch" in exactly? Looks?

The fact you say breaking up with her would feel like a sweet release says it all. She's a bully and she's manipulative and that shyt will only get worse. If she's like this now what do you think she's gonna be like a year or two down the line? She don't even know you for 5 minutes and she's got you doubting yourself already.

Dude, bush that broad yesterday. If you stay with her that's on you because you know what your gut is telling you.

 

[Snoopy Loops]

The relationship is only six months old and she's doing all that, but you think she's a good catch?

You barely even smash, she puts you down for your salary (surely she knew this before?), she's disrespectful and aggressive all the time and isn't humble in any way....so what makes her a "good catch" in exactly? Looks?

The fact you say breaking up with her would feel like a sweet release says it all. She's a bully and she's manipulative and that shyt will only get worse. If she's like this now what do you think she's gonna be like a year or two down the line? She don't even know you for 5 minutes and she's got you doubting yourself already.

Dude, bush that broad yesterday. If you stay with her that's on you because you know what your gut is telling you.

I feel you breh , probably in the next two/three weeks tbh

She doesn't put me down for my salary tho. She said in an ideal relationship, she wants her man to be a provider. I havent told her what I make but she's should be aware that she makes more than me. Glassdoor is right there. I could have phrased it better but when I said she's a good catch, its more so I can see how she can beneficial to a man. If a nikka is corporate and money-minded then they would be a good fit, because she knows about alot about business/financial matters, but I'm trying to be but unfortunately I'm not that type of person. I dont want to feel like I'm overly defending her, but she's cool most of the time, but when shyt pops off thats when those traits come to light

 

[DaRealness]

I feel you breh , probably in the next two/three weeks tbh

She doesn't put me down for my salary tho. She said in an ideal relationship, she wants her man to be a provider. I havent told her what I make but she's should be aware that she makes more than me. Glassdoor is right there. I could have phrased it better but when I said she's a good catch, its more so I can see how she can beneficial to a man. If a nikka is corporate and money-minded then they would be a good fit, because she knows about alot about business/financial matters, but I'm trying to be but unfortunately I'm not that type of person. I dont want to feel like I'm overly defending her, but she's cool most of the time, but when shyt pops off thats when those traits come to light

Regardless, the red flags and warning signs are all over the place. Personally I'm not letting any chick put me down for any reason or even let it get to the point they feel they can get disrespectful like that. Been there, done that and learned my lessons. If you don't accept me in totality for who I am, fukking bounce. I'm not directing this at you, but there's way too many men on this board with depression and low self esteem and a lot of it is due to the people they have in their lives.

Thee are "catches" all over the place and this chick you're seeing ain't one of them. You need to take control and show her you got no problem ditching her. You got your health, a job etc so you don't need her.

 

[Snoopy Loops]

Regardless, the red flags and warning signs are all over the place. Personally I'm not letting any chick put me down for any reason or even let it get to the point they feel they can get disrespectful like that. Been there, done that and learned my lessons. If you don't accept me in totality for who I am, fukking bounce. I'm not directing this you, but there's way too many men on this board with depression and low self esteem and a lot of it is due to the people they have in their lives.

Thee are "catches" all over the place and this chick you're seeing ain't one of them. You need to take control and show her you got no problem ditching her. You got your health, a job etc so you don't need her.

I feel you on the red flags. shyt is everywhere

 

[Peter Popoff]

Peep this brehs, need some advice,

Im 29, my girl is 30. Relationship is 6 months old. I make about 70K (Energy IT) and my girl probably makes 90~100K (Energy Accounting). I could be termed a 'nice guy', fairly accommodating and all that. My girl is smarter, witty, good head on her shoulders, bold, outgoing, definitely more ambitious, not that I'm a complete slacker tho. I could pull my weight more but I have had some health challenges these past 2 years that have been fairly limiting.

We've been having some recent troubles and one of the main takeaways for me is that she wants her man to be a provider, comforter, and leader and she's saying I haven't been that. Its common knowledge that women want that, its humbling but i'm not tripping.

I have two beefs with her, one is that she doesn't give up the box. Sometimes its 3 weeks without smashing and we stay at each other's place everyday. She recently cited lack of romance as a reason. Her opinion is that we just have a functional relationship.

Second beef with her is that she can be mean, reluctant to apologize for offending, and will be mad if I don't give her feelings the right treatment about issues that happen in her day to day, when she does the same and sometimes even worse to me. Even scolding a nikka at one occasion
She's feels she's not compelled to apologize for something unless I call her out , under the guise her not knowing I was mad about it, even if its evident that I'm not pleased about our prior interaction. She acts all indignant when I do, and it seems I can't get the point across to her no matter how I phrase. In most cases, her continual deflections raise my temper, I become more animated, it becomes spirited discussion and is just generally non-productive or even destructive.

Now, I'm at an impasse, I want to be all those things for my future wife, but I cant put up with her pride. Honestly, the thought of breaking up feels like a sweet release , however she's a good catch and the grass may not greener on the other side.

Need some perspective brehs on how to run this

Bruh, i'm going through the same exact fukking shyt. The sex is so wack cause I have to wait forever and on her terms because "theirs no romance". My only suggestion is to stop giving a fukk and find some you time to hang with the boys and interact with other females, look for better options and try to upgrade yourself physically for someone else. I'm starting to realize, it's not us, it's them.