Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Balla]

i aint talking down breh its all love but you been crying about not having your shyt together for months now , you want chicks that work at a deli or something? you should be happy seeing these women with professional jobs

just say that youre studying and keep it moving, you're not at your final form yet and thats ok

When I say my shyt together I mean a career in a field, not just a job. I’m currently in college and I have mostly what I need to do what I gotta do, but not a career itself.

And I don’t mean they gotta work a low wage job, I don’t even work a low wage job myself.

What I’m saying these chicks are working jobs that I didn’t even 22 yr olds could get so quickly at such young ages, then that makes me feel like I really fukked up career wise because I’m not even in a entry level career.

 

[Nuke Dukem]

It could be a gay nikka posing as a bytch for nudes. Be careful bruh.

Exactly .. I don’t float pics out there regardless

 

[Soundbwoy]

Eat breh and eat some more

Only L I took so far was with the Nigerian chick but I bounced back

 

[Soundbwoy]

When I say my shyt together I mean a career in a field, not just a job. I’m currently in college and I have mostly what I need to do what I gotta do, but not a career itself.

And I don’t mean they gotta work a low wage job, I don’t even work a low wage job myself.

What I’m saying these chicks are working jobs that I didn’t even 22 yr olds could get so quickly at such young ages, then that makes me feel like I really fukked up career wise because I’m not even in a entry level career.

one thing you gotta understand you shouldn't be comparing yourself to others if those women are interested you should try to link up and soak up game

 

[Balla]

one thing you gotta understand you shouldn't be comparing yourself to others if those women are interested you should try to link up and soak up game

Soak up game as in how they got the job?? Guess I could, but I know it’s mostly a degree, connections, and of course them being ww. Idk I would feel weird asking for work advice from a chick that’s younger than me and not even my race, doesn’t hurt tho.

 

[Tommy Sheppard]

When I say my shyt together I mean a career in a field, not just a job. I’m currently in college and I have mostly what I need to do what I gotta do, but not a career itself.

And I don’t mean they gotta work a low wage job, I don’t even work a low wage job myself.

What I’m saying these chicks are working jobs that I didn’t even 22 yr olds could get so quickly at such young ages, then that makes me feel like I really fukked up career wise because I’m not even in a entry level career.

why are you comparing yourself to privileged cac white women anyway?

 

[Balla]

why are you comparing yourself to privileged cac white women anyway?

Idk know bruh, guess it’s an ego thing or something, like I myself should have a career making decent money, not saying it should be handed to me, but made me realize I need to find a faster path to it.

It’s like damn I’m so far behind, it’s not even funny, it’s more about myself personally than them.

Also that’s all that comes up on the apps I’m on, some have high achieving black women too, but I see a black woman on these apps rarely.

 

[John Reena]

Why do women who reject you get all upset when you tell them that you are not interested in just being friends while they are with someone else . This chic that I was talking to for a while gave me the you’re a nice guy, bad timing speech last night but gets all upset when I told her that I just want to move on and find someone who wants me as a lover, not as a friend. Trying to sham tactic me into being her venting buddy while she chose another nikka to love and fukk. Told her that I know my value as a man and I can’t go that friend route with her. My ex keep doing this shyt too when she broke up with me but keep bugging me to stay in her life because she really care for me . Just venting this morning. Feeling like I really can’t be myself with these women because once I let my guard down, I always wound up disappointed and heart broken at the end .

Always remember: Women are GOOFY.

 

[MollyGalaga]

There’s a lot of fine single moms out here finna reach 30+ soon


Dont let these women lie to you brehs

 

[Chef]

I got dubbed, blamed it on mixed signals. I was tight for like 30 seconds and didn't feel a thing after. Went home, finished my baking menu, went to the gym and didn’t think about it again. She wants to be friends but I want to tell her it ain’t going to work.

Side note. Women(people in general) who get crazy drunk are the most unattractive and annoying thing ever. It’s like caring for a fukking 2 year old.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

I feel kinda bad making up an excuse to push a date with this girl back, but she lives in Jersey and there's another chick that I'm going out with instead. She lives a lot closer and seems more fun.

im a share a L i took tonight so hopefully I can educate brehs (and even Brehettes) on this

If you (a male) are in the early stages of dating a girl who is a stranger (in any capacity whether it be casual or intending to be serious).....And she invites you out to hang with her friends or go to a party of her social circle ...DO NOT fukkING GO. It will be a waste of time. You having a good time becomes contingent on you being a very extroverted person or her actually having the ability to juggle friends of different backgrounds.

This 100%. The entire gang of guys and girls all knew each other. I got to the bar late and they were all sitting around a table. I go to grab a chair and the waitress tells me I can't move it to the other table. And it was all down hill from there...

 

[Astroslik]

That "invite you out to meet her social circle" shyt is all a way to establish pecking order and/or show you off to her friends. wouldn't even entertain this shyt unless I've smashed countless times AND its someone I take seriously.

I feel kinda bad making up an excuse to push a date with this girl back, but she lives in Jersey and there's another chick that I'm going out with instead. She lives a lot closer and seems more fun.

This 100%. The entire gang of guys and girls all knew each other. I got to the bar late and they were all sitting around a table. I go to grab a chair and the waitress tells me I can't move it to the other table. And it was all down hill from there...

what happened after?

 

[360dagod]

Why do women who reject you get all upset when you tell them that you are not interested in just being friends while they are with someone else . This chic that I was talking to for a while gave me the you’re a nice guy, bad timing speech last night but gets all upset when I told her that I just want to move on and find someone who wants me as a lover, not as a friend. Trying to sham tactic me into being her venting buddy while she chose another nikka to love and fukk. Told her that I know my value as a man and I can’t go that friend route with her. My ex keep doing this shyt too when she broke up with me but keep bugging me to stay in her life because she really care for me . Just venting this morning. Feeling like I really can’t be myself with these women because once I let my guard down, I always wound up disappointed and heart broken at the end .

Where do u think your going wrong at?

 

[VertigoKnight]

Lol yeah that’s what I was talking to you before about, hate that shyt because I don’t have one.

Idk how the hell all these chicks be like 22-25 talking about they’re mangers of IT, nursing, marketing, etc.

Anyway, u think I should lie about my occupation?

That app seems to be the app with the most work you have to put in compared to the other ones.

Naw don't do that.

In all seriousness breh, remember people on these apps make their jobs sound more important than they actually are.

So someone who says they're a manager but they're maybe supervising a few people in a team under 4 other managers.

Dating app especially people like to brag about jobs.

 

[Balla]

Naw don't do that.

In all seriousness breh, remember people on these apps make their jobs sound more important than they actually are.

So someone who says they're a manager but they're maybe supervising a few people in a team under 4 other managers.

Dating app especially people like to brag about jobs.

U right bruh, but it seems weird for women to do that, nikkas don’t care we just wanna fukk.

I’m still tryna figure out how to make this work 100% because I don’t have that many pics that I would like to use. Then they want nikkas to pay for shyt.

Must be worth it cuz y’all eating off this shyt.

I literally picked a pic a liked and started swiping, but I need to add more and a bio.

Can’t even think of a bio lol

What kind of pics you got for your profile?

Thanks bruh