Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Silkk

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Brehs help me out here.

Is there ANY plausible reason for a chick to respond to your text message 36 hours or so after you’ve messaged her or is it a lack of interest on her part?

So I reached out to this chick and set up a date with her. She came 1 hour late but still turned up. Date was cool and I feel we hit it off... didn’t kiss at end of date... didn’t try to because she had a cold.

So next day I let her know I had a good time and when she’s free. She didn’t respond to this text until 30 hours plus later but was still texting other people during that time.

She’s just responded back telling me when she’s free.

Let me know because I’m about to bush this chick but also feeling to give her reasonable doubt.
She got you acting like the female :smh:
 

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Yea I feel you now big dawg. shyt I tell em from the jump I'm not no relationship ass nikka but, like with my attitude, they think that shyt cute cuz they think it aint goin no where or they will change me...or ill change "fOr tHeM". bytch nah bytch thats tha whole point in bein single: i aint got to do a muthafukkin god damn thing.

You put that shyt into perspective tho. They mad they can't control me wit they p*ssy and that i dont be sweatin them like other nikkas. You right they dont know how to deal wit it. So ill have to remember that and act accordingly.

It's always been that way for me so I:camby: them quicker than Usain bolt :russ:

When women have no control they fear it
When women cant use their number 1 effectively they get desperate
When women cant use both you realize your in control
 

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Brehs help me out here.

Is there ANY plausible reason for a chick to respond to your text message 36 hours or so after you’ve messaged her or is it a lack of interest on her part?

So I reached out to this chick and set up a date with her. She came 1 hour late but still turned up. Date was cool and I feel we hit it off... didn’t kiss at end of date... didn’t try to because she had a cold.

So next day I let her know I had a good time and when she’s free. She didn’t respond to this text until 30 hours plus later but was still texting other people during that time.

She’s just responded back telling me when she’s free.

Let me know because I’m about to bush this chick but also feeling to give her reasonable doubt.

She’s not interested women will rarely flat out tell you, they speak in the grey.

Always treat yourself like a job if you were offering a great job to a candidate and they never got back to you..... you wouldn’t contact them again and go elsewhere


There are way way way to many women out there to wait around and ponder or wonder

This is why you continue to have options, that used to me breh but when I’m out with Sarah on Friday I’m already working and scheduling a meet up with Janice on Monday

I’m not messaging Sarah to say I had a good time and even if I did I wouldn’t be sitting by waiting for her reply

Again like a job just becaus the interview was good doesn’t mean you have the job so until you do keep looking
 

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I’m gonna step up and actually try and get this chick to be my main chick. Gotta start small though, the little calls and what not.

My issue is I’ve been iffy with her, we get a hot spark then I go cold for a while. She’s always been around though.....

Maybe it’s because I saw her this past weekend and my memorry was jogged. We’ll see.
 

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I’m gonna step up and actually try and get this chick to be my main chick. Gotta start small though, the little calls and what not.

My issue is I’ve been iffy with her, we get a hot spark then I go cold for a while. She’s always been around though.....

Maybe it’s because I saw her this past weekend and my memorry was jogged. We’ll see.

Naija?
 

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She’s not interested women will rarely flat out tell you, they speak in the grey.

Always treat yourself like a job if you were offering a great job to a candidate and they never got back to you..... you wouldn’t contact them again and go elsewhere


There are way way way to many women out there to wait around and ponder or wonder

This is why you continue to have options, that used to me breh but when I’m out with Sarah on Friday I’m already working and scheduling a meet up with Janice on Monday

I’m not messaging Sarah to say I had a good time and even if I did I wouldn’t be sitting by waiting for her reply

Again like a job just becaus the interview was good doesn’t mean you have the job so until you do keep looking

There's other chicks in the cut but you're right. Any girl that has interest in a guy won't leave him hanging for a day just to respond.

I actually saw potential in this chick hence why i'm moving like this. :snoop:

My mind is telling me this chick is gonna waste my time but my heart is still holding out on that percieved opportunity.
 

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There's other chicks in the cut but you're right. Any girl that has interest in a guy won't leave him hanging for a day just to respond.

I actually saw potential in this chick hence why i'm moving like this. :snoop:

My mind is telling me this chick is gonna waste my time but my heart is still holding out on that percieved opportunity.


We’ve all been there breh more times than not. But hope dies last and I know it sucks. I remember months ago I was talking to this chick we met up numerous times she was fine and all that. One Friday I message her we should go out tonight two days later she replies oh I saw your message sorry for just getting back to you.

I said no worries and deleted her number I never heard from her ever again

Even this chick I was sort of dating for like 3 months who broke up with me through text I never said anything been nearly a month now and she hasn’t tried to contact me once

This is women in 2019, transient and talking to a Harem of men and viewing you as a replaceable commodity and once the emotions die for you you’re nothing to them just a annoying pest that they think they have
 

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Yea, American Nigerian more so. We'd been on and off through college I'd say in terms of interest. Feelings have definitely been there by both of us, perhaps just at different times. I always felt like she wanted me to step up to the plate for her, but I've been kinda BSing. I think this summer I’ll actually go for it properly. No half assin it either.
 
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Say brehs, what prompts we using on hinge?

Prompt: "I'm looking for someone who is..."
My answer? Somebody willing to bring their own snacks to the movies, adding that it shows you're capable of being smart with your money.

That has gotten me more than a handful of matches.
 
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