Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Do any of you guys believe in first love syndrome? When a woman can't get over her first love

It really feels like at any point he can decide he wants her back and she'll go.

I've had it happen to me a few times and I've seen it happen to others.

Is there any way to combat this?

 

[MikelArteta]

Been blessed this summer. Making lots of money at my new job. Moved downtown. Been way to blessed.

Thought I wanted to settle down but after seeing the battlescape...nah Imma wait until August

Parade tomorrow?

 

[Panther]

havent been in this thread in a long time, appreciate the laugh

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

Parade tomorrow?

Can't. Have to get work done for an important client.

 

[MikelArteta]

Can't. Have to get work done for an important client.

hve you been called to the bar yet?

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

hve you been called to the bar yet?

Next year

 

[MikelArteta]

Next year

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Do any of you guys believe in first love syndrome? When a woman can't get over her first love

It really feels like at any point he can decide he wants her back and she'll go.

I've had it happen to me a few times and I've seen it happen to others.

Is there any way to combat this?

Yea, first saw it with my nikka, his ex got married but still got in contact with him thru one of his cousins she was close with, told him she still loved him.

Then i saw it with my ex. There was a point she rang me every month at the start of the month for a year and a half, i never ever picked up but for that year and a half i would still get that call at the beginning of every month, that was after i finally cut her off cause i used to still talk to her sometimes. She would ring me after a date on her way home talking about she kept comparing him to me, she then got a new man but rang me a couple times telling me it wasn't the same with him, she rang me crying the day before he flew her out on holiday. After i stopped answering calls or replying to texts she did that year and a half ritual of hers and then she finally gave up.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

God forbid I shame my parents like that ashawo

 

[kevm3]

"first love syndrome" means to move on. Never do you want to be the guy she 'settled for'. You're spending all this time and money on her while she's thinking about him.

The more you have built up a life in which your satisfaction doesn't rely on women, the better off you will be. The reason being is women are very transient in this day and age and you will never know how long any particular one will be around... if your life revolves around a woman, you will be in big trouble when she leaves.

 

[Brandsdale]

Brehs I need help

Have any of y’all ever had a fwb ask for a relationship, tell them no, and then keep the fwb thing going on?

I got this girl who basically told me she wants to date and be official last night, she told me she loved me I would tell her straight up I’m good on that but I don’t want to hurt her because we are in the same friend group and I’m still gonna be around her, I don’t want any drama

Give a young breh some tips

women to confuse genuine emotions for us because of sex and it can be damaging cause ole' girl probably dont even love you, she probably just super infatuated with you cause yall fukking.

If you wanna pursue, tread lightly but try to also weed out your options cause fwb doesnt always account to a relationship and soemtimes people are actually better off being friends, and last thing you'd want is drama with this bullshyt.

I had one fwb bout a year ago and started growing feelings for shorty and she was adamant on keeping this STRICTLY about sex .

Needless to say I got my nut and we haven't talked since.

"Friends" my ass

 

[VertigoKnight]

none at all. But it rings true the moment a women ends it with you, if you say nothing or just ok and cut her out of your life no msgs, phone calls nothing they always come around always

this chick didn't have the nerve to call me and end things but she can call me two months later

Whoever she got with probably skated on her ass and she wanted attention and validation for a bruised ego.

I'm expecting a few 'I miss you' or 'hello stranger' calls or messages ' from women who ceased contact. Already had one 2 weeks ago. I think most of us in here prescribe to the not chasing a woman who walked away mindset.

I'll be pleasant anything more than that nah

 

[Jhoon]

I recently met this woman. She wanted some information about a job and I hurriedly gave her my phone number instead. She texts a few days later. We went on 2 dates but she then ghosted me.

 

[Balla]

I recently met this woman. She wanted some information about a job and I hurriedly gave her my phone number instead. She texts a few days later. We went on 2 dates but she then ghosted me.

Bro these women are something else. Like some new shyt going on where they reading to do this. It was never like this before, now it’s expected.

 

[Jhoon]

Bro these women are something else. Like some new shyt going on where they reading to do this. It was never like this before, now it’s expected.

I have heard about it, I have read about it, and I even felt it was coming. But I tried to give her like 3 opportunities to be upfront. If I’m corny, ugly, etc let a brother know. Or not. But she kept saying she was awkward socially. I didn’t believe her but I went along with it.

And then she called me from the gay parade. I looked at my phone, laughed, and told her I would talk to her later. I sent one other text which didn’t get a response, called later that night and she never picked up. I called a week later and she didn’t pick up again.