Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Different things works for others I guess. I do agree one should strengthen that confidence to the highest degree. Breh @DarianaGrande has said he's in shape but unfortunately still got some self esteem issues to work out.

He said he has a good career and money too
 

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Different things works for others I guess. I do agree one should strengthen that confidence to the highest degree. Breh @DarianaGrande has said he's in shape but unfortunately still got some self esteem issues to work out.
I will say this.

I've noticed I get more attention from people in general being in shape.

My problem was I still had/have a poor mentality that didn't go along with my looks.

I took some classes not too long ago and there was a girl in there a few years older than me that was feeling me.

She really let it be known.

But once she got a sense of my lack of confidence, she wasn't interested anymore.


She wasn't that good looking, but it felt good to get noticed and actually be seen as attractive to someone.


Unfortunately, my mentality wasn't as easy to train as my body was, pause.

I'm still growing though.

Went out to my buddies birthday party last weekend and when I left he told me one of his friends asked "yo who was that buff dude you work with? He made me realize I need to step it up in the gym":russ:

I ain't even "buff" I'm just in shape, and your average dude in 2019 really isn't.

I do think looks/muscles can help, but you still need a mouthpiece/confidence to go with it.
 

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I will say this.

I've noticed I get more attention from people in general being in shape.

My problem was I still had/have a poor mentality that didn't go along with my looks.

I took some classes not too long ago and there was a girl in there a few years older than me that was feeling me.

She really let it be known.

But once she got a sense of my lack of confidence, she wasn't interested anymore.


She wasn't that good looking, but it felt good to get noticed and actually be seen as attractive to someone.


Unfortunately, my mentality wasn't as easy to train as my body was, pause.

I'm still growing though.

Went out to my buddies birthday party last weekend and when I left he told me one of his friends asked "yo who was that buff dude you work with? He made me realize I need to step it up in the gym":russ:

I ain't even "buff" I'm just in shape, and your average dude in 2019 really isn't.

I do think looks/muscles can help, but you still need a mouthpiece/confidence to go with it.
whats your stats breh? How long you been lifting?
 

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whats your stats breh? How long you been lifting?
6'1 215.

I want to get under 200 so I'm cutting right now. But I been lifting seriously for about a year now.

Once I reach my goal weight I'll make a before and after thread in The Gym.
I was damn near 400 in HS:flabbynsick: I'm 29 now.
 

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I aint go c00n no more. I officially broke it off with this Colombian girl I been off and on with since 2013. Decided it's only black girls from here on out.
 

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I will say this.

I've noticed I get more attention from people in general being in shape.

My problem was I still had/have a poor mentality that didn't go along with my looks.

I took some classes not too long ago and there was a girl in there a few years older than me that was feeling me.

She really let it be known.

But once she got a sense of my lack of confidence, she wasn't interested anymore.


She wasn't that good looking, but it felt good to get noticed and actually be seen as attractive to someone.


Unfortunately, my mentality wasn't as easy to train as my body was, pause.

I'm still growing though.

Went out to my buddies birthday party last weekend and when I left he told me one of his friends asked "yo who was that buff dude you work with? He made me realize I need to step it up in the gym":russ:

I ain't even "buff" I'm just in shape, and your average dude in 2019 really isn't.

I do think looks/muscles can help, but you still need a mouthpiece/confidence to go with it.
Looks definitely help you get in the door. Let's look at 50 Cent, he's in great shape and I have heard women shyt on his face. 50 still confident, has a sense of humor and been with attractive women.
Remember that video of the fan running up on him during a date?
His date was bad af and she got her own career. Not some bum groupie.

Breh I will say this, don't always wait for choosing signals. You see a girl you like, break the ice. When I flirt I sometimes get a bit insecure but I ignore that voice.
 

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6'1 215.

I want to get under 200 so I'm cutting right now. But I been lifting seriously for about a year now.

Once I reach my goal weight I'll make a before and after thread in The Gym.
I was damn near 400 in HS:flabbynsick: I'm 29 now.
Breh should've been mentioned this in your threads. You got former fat girl mentality syndrome.
 

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Breh got hit with the “You’re such a good guy” shyt :dead:

I think that's the fundamental problem with most men who think they're "woke" when it comes to women. They end up getting friendzoned anyway...then try to make it look like "Nah she's just sis now, I no longer find her desirable"...right, put them on an Island, and in due time they fukking. Now breh could be getting lucky with other women, going to the gym, etc. But then there's no real reason to keep a bird around....

Who likes actually listening to a woman nag about her friends? Not one man on the planet. There's getting perspective and being the "talk guy" or the friendzone diary. Women don't bring anything new to the table, we've known how they behave for decades, dudeis keeping that girl around because he more than likely has no friends, and eventually wants to fukk when in a dry spell.
 
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Brehs, when was the last time a woman tried to shyt test you?

I remember my recent ex and i was at the gas station and i was scratching this scratch off in the car.
This thick ass red female was walking by and she gone say "damnnnn she got ass dont she?" Im like "idk...i wasnt paying no attention". She gon tell me "good answer"
:stopitslime:

I hate when females do that lame ass game shyt.
(My ex was bi too)

All the time, in that scenario, I would've just said "Ye, bit nicer than yours, definitely hit the gym harder or we're fukking done" in a playful tone. Usually gets the "you're such an a$$hole/dikk" response, which means rowjobs later.

In general, I'm always aloof or playful, I don't take women seriously, because they don't take themselves seriously. They're liars by design, and can't make up their minds about wanting to eat, let alone who they fukk. Creatures with such erratic behavior are basically ants to me..but that would be an insult to ants as a whole...so they're like; tiny lizards, not really useful, not exactly useless.
 

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What's some cool first date shyt? All i could think of is restaurants and bowling.

Depends on where you live. I'm in NY, so central park is always a go-to. With coffee. If she can't get me interested by 30 minutes or so, I just tell her I have to go. Remember, birds earn the steak,
 
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