Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Silkk
Can't Change My Damn Avi :beli:
Man, I want to start dating again but I do NOT feel like starting over getting to know somebody. Only way I think i’d even put effort in is if I met her in real life and she just was like my prototype 10/10.
Seen a few here in Houston, I just gotta start getting out more before winter comes.
Seen a few here in Houston, I just gotta start getting out more before winter comes.
Silkk
Can't Change My Damn Avi :beli:
Life is good at 28, you should be out playing with these chicks, don't go for anything serious.
I'm 37 and every now and then I get this creeping feeling to settle down, and then these broads do something stupid and I come to my senses.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
shyt i know what you mean.
shyt be seeming pointless now tho. Seem like relationships are played out.
Im on the southside (scott n almeda genoa) and i dont want these ratchet broads.
You should be aiming to move where the high quality women areshyt i know what you mean.
shyt be seeming pointless now tho. Seem like relationships are played out.
Im on the southside (scott n almeda genoa) and i dont want these ratchet broads.
These chicks are a trip. So I told y'all about this 30 year old I was messing with. Well if you don't know, here's the cliff notes:
Met ole girl a few weeks back after a night on town. Met her at a 24 hr diner grabbing food. We chatted and exchanged numbers. Took her for drinks and we got a little personal. Grinding, kissing etc. Try to seal the deal the first night. She rebuffed. No sweat.
Went out again for drinks like a week later. Things got heated. I was straight fingering her in the lounge and had her suck it afterwards (
That Henny). Did this multiple times. Tried to seal again but she was like she was too gone. Cool. Texted me the next day to say she's sorry she dipped on me that the liq hit her so fast. Cool, I'm not owed anything.
Labour Day weekend I texted her because she was going to a wedding and I just wanted to see how she was.
After LDW I haven't hit her up. I felt she was kinda stringing me on because she knows she's 6 years older than me. After everything we've done you'd think we'd know what's up.
So tonight she texts me on that "Heyyy" tip. I call and we talk a bit about the wedding she went to etc.
She says that the bride and the groom had been dating for 8 years and 3 years ago said they'd take a vow of celibacy till they both got married. Like do things by the book. So I ask ole girl if she has a vow like that.
She says no, BUT, she wants a serious relationship and only wants to get sexual with a man she's in a serious relationship with. In my head I chuckle but on the phone I'm like "that's cool". She asked me why I asked, I said because I was involved with a chick (true story) that took sex off the table after reading this one book called "The Wait" by DeVon Franklin and Meagan Good. Long story short, when taking sex off the table both partners can really get to know their partners for them and that delayed gratification has strong benefits. I actually agree with the premise. Side note: the chick I was messing with was a 32-year old Hatian from Brooklyn. I was 22 at the time
Back to convo with ole girl. After all of this I say we should catch up again. She's like sure, what do I have in mind.
Me: I can come over and cook that Nigerian food you've been asking for.
Her: Oh no! After what happened last time in the club where I just said F it and let you finger me in the club I don't trust myself around you.
Me: Ok, cool, what do you have in mind then.
Her: Lemme think about it, you planned our last two meets. What day works best for you. Friday or Saturday
Me: Friday. Lemme know what you decide....and remember, Nigerian food cooking is still on the table.
We drop off.
Ima see where this goes. Don't listen to what women say, watch what they do. She's talking about she wants something serious but from the first time we met up I let her know what time it was (intimate touching etc).
It be like that sometimes
If after this time nothing pops off into the bushes. I really ain't got time to be dating around the clock. If not for the fact that she's treating this time around I'd have pulled back once she rebuffed my in-home cooking offer. A decent night of drinks around my parts is an easy $50-60 bucks.
Met ole girl a few weeks back after a night on town. Met her at a 24 hr diner grabbing food. We chatted and exchanged numbers. Took her for drinks and we got a little personal. Grinding, kissing etc. Try to seal the deal the first night. She rebuffed. No sweat.
Went out again for drinks like a week later. Things got heated. I was straight fingering her in the lounge and had her suck it afterwards (
That Henny). Did this multiple times. Tried to seal again but she was like she was too gone. Cool. Texted me the next day to say she's sorry she dipped on me that the liq hit her so fast. Cool, I'm not owed anything.Labour Day weekend I texted her because she was going to a wedding and I just wanted to see how she was.
After LDW I haven't hit her up. I felt she was kinda stringing me on because she knows she's 6 years older than me. After everything we've done you'd think we'd know what's up.
So tonight she texts me on that "Heyyy" tip. I call and we talk a bit about the wedding she went to etc.
She says that the bride and the groom had been dating for 8 years and 3 years ago said they'd take a vow of celibacy till they both got married. Like do things by the book. So I ask ole girl if she has a vow like that.
She says no, BUT, she wants a serious relationship and only wants to get sexual with a man she's in a serious relationship with. In my head I chuckle but on the phone I'm like "that's cool". She asked me why I asked, I said because I was involved with a chick (true story) that took sex off the table after reading this one book called "The Wait" by DeVon Franklin and Meagan Good. Long story short, when taking sex off the table both partners can really get to know their partners for them and that delayed gratification has strong benefits. I actually agree with the premise. Side note: the chick I was messing with was a 32-year old Hatian from Brooklyn. I was 22 at the time
Back to convo with ole girl. After all of this I say we should catch up again. She's like sure, what do I have in mind.
Me: I can come over and cook that Nigerian food you've been asking for.
Her: Oh no! After what happened last time in the club where I just said F it and let you finger me in the club I don't trust myself around you.
Me: Ok, cool, what do you have in mind then.
Her: Lemme think about it, you planned our last two meets. What day works best for you. Friday or Saturday
Me: Friday. Lemme know what you decide....and remember, Nigerian food cooking is still on the table.
We drop off.
Ima see where this goes. Don't listen to what women say, watch what they do. She's talking about she wants something serious but from the first time we met up I let her know what time it was (intimate touching etc).
It be like that sometimes
If after this time nothing pops off into the bushes. I really ain't got time to be dating around the clock. If not for the fact that she's treating this time around I'd have pulled back once she rebuffed my in-home cooking offer. A decent night of drinks around my parts is an easy $50-60 bucks.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
I think i gave up after my ex.
Aint no high quality woman gone want me.
I only make $11.5 and #uglygang general, #skinnygang captain
Silkk
Can't Change My Damn Avi :beli:
You show them too much emotion and love and its “Im not looking for nothing serious right now, Lets be friends”
You don’t text they ass back and keep your emotions away and its “Why you act so nonchalant and so distant” “What you mean used to like me?”
Same chick btw, Retarded ass girl. This why I don’t want to date right now
You don’t text they ass back and keep your emotions away and its “Why you act so nonchalant and so distant” “What you mean used to like me?”
Same chick btw, Retarded ass girl. This why I don’t want to date right now
You know your flaws, now go improve. Your self esteem holding you back. What's your education level? Do you have a trade? 11.50 ain't shyt, you should be aiming to improve your finances.I think i gave up after my ex.
Aint no high quality woman gone want me.
I only make $11.5 and #uglygang general, #skinnygang captain
Also forget about your ex, none of these chicks are special. You'll find another woman and you will not even be thinking about your ex
Silkk
Can't Change My Damn Avi :beli:
Bring yo ass to 6 certs. We make solutions, not excusesI think i gave up after my ex.
Aint no high quality woman gone want me.
I only make $11.5 and #uglygang general, #skinnygang captain
cartierhoe
Veteran
Man if this ain't the truthChicks got time to be scrolling IG and Twitter
But not for replying
She's outta here till she comes correct.
Bring yo ass to 6 certs. We make solutions, not excuses
Is it really that simple tho? Get a cert and life will be a little bit easier?
I wish I focused on that before going to college real talk!!