Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Man what is it with younger women and asking hella questions?

Is it just not knowing how to hold a conversation?

Recently met 2 chicks on on the train other at work..and they both get to asking too many damn questions rather than taking the conversation slow.

I keep it calm and try to ask them something or get them to talk about anything else before they start to asking too much shyt.

"You in school?"
"Why you move here?"
"You were navy?"
'How many years you serve?"

:mjgrin:

I had to tell shorty on the train that she asks too many questions.

The jawn at work I played it off and asked
"Are you running a background check?"

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Is this just youth inexperience? shyt be feeling so damn procedural it turns me off.

I'm over here tryna get them to talk about themselves which I thought all women loved..yet they'd rather ask me a bunch of shyt.

In the past I've told women too much shyt and it backfired.

I’m the wrong person to ask. I might as well be called curious George. I ask a ton of questions and like learning about everyone’s lives. So I probably would have asked you the same type of questions. No harm intended. Genuinely just curious about you. It’s a sign of my interest. :yeshrug:
 

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I can't stress this enough. I saw this shyt at a bar and women will take advantage of it. Don't sell yourself. Don't advertise your career, goals, etc... You're only cockblocking yourself and the chick will recognize you as a simp and a moneybag for dating. I have a friend like this. He even buys women drinks to get their attention while, I spark up a regular conversation about general interest we find in common, movies, music etc and go home, free of charge.
 

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Is this a thing, or am I trippin?

So I went out on a date tonight. I noticed that her pupils were extremely dilated. Like it actually scared me for a moment how large her pupils were. Almost like she was on somethin.

But if she talks to someone else, or I leave for a min and come back, her pupils are normal and small when I get back. Eye contact is very important to me so I notice this.

Is it possible that a woman's pupils will dilate when she's turned on or sees someone she likes? They have no control over it so it could be something to look out for when you interact with a woman.
 

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Is this a thing, or am I trippin?

So I went out on a date tonight. I noticed that her pupils were extremely dilated. Like it actually scared me for a moment how large her pupils were. Almost like she was on somethin.

But if she talks to someone else, or I leave for a min and come back, her pupils are normal and small when I get back. Eye contact is very important to me so I notice this.

Is it possible that a woman's pupils will dilate when she's turned on or sees someone she likes? They have no control over it so it could be something to look out for when you interact with a woman.
There's a book called "The Definitive Book of Body Language" by Allen and Barbara Pease. I read it years ago but it explains that when someone is really interested in you, their pupils become dilated. A lot of people ignore the tale tell signs but psychologists deam it's true. On the flipside, if their pupils become beady (i.e., snake eyes), they're lying or hiding something. It's really easy to tell if someone with light colored eyes is lying unless they're on drugs.
 
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Is this a thing, or am I trippin?

So I went out on a date tonight. I noticed that her pupils were extremely dilated. Like it actually scared me for a moment how large her pupils were. Almost like she was on somethin.

But if she talks to someone else, or I leave for a min and come back, her pupils are normal and small when I get back. Eye contact is very important to me so I notice this.

Is it possible that a woman's pupils will dilate when she's turned on or sees someone she likes? They have no control over it so it could be something to look out for when you interact with a woman.
:patrice:
 

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Meeting the woman you actually want, she not feeling you

and you back home fukking medicore p*ssy is one of the worst feelings, damn

Dod you like work together or are you garunteed to see her again, but all you need to do is be witty and have a sound stretegy and you can change thatt
 

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There's a book called "The Definitive Book of Body Language" by Allen and Barbara Pease. I read it years ago but it explains that when someone is really interested in you, their pupils become dilated. A lot of people ignore the tale tell signs but psychologists deam it's true. On the flipside, if their pupils become beady (i.e., snake eyes), they're lying or hiding something. It's really easy to tell if someone with light colored eyes is lying unless they're on drugs.

What's also interesting is that most people find large pupils more attractive. I know I do.

The last woman I really noticed it with was my ex. I was so naive, I just thought that some woman have bigger pupils than others. I know that the amount of light matters too, but we were in a well-lit room and they were still huge.



Do you have doubts? Are you realizing that you let this slip past you?
 

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What's also interesting is that most people find large pupils more attractive. I know I do.

The last woman I really noticed it with was my ex. I was so naive, I just thought that some woman have bigger pupils than others. I know that the amount of light matters too, but we were in a well-lit room and they were still huge.




Do you have doubts? Are you realizing that you let this slip past you?
Never noticed anything like this. I'm wondering who else has.
 

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A couple months ago I seen lil ass pupils for the 1st time

It was weird af. But my eye contact game is too strong so I just kept looking and she did too and looked like she was feeling me like the big pupil ones

So I would like more info about those snake eyes:patrice:
 

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Question:

Your girl uses your whip for a week. She goes to work everyday, but you find out she go pick up a female coworker a couple of times for work.

You ask her why she never communicated that with you, until you had to question this random address in the gps. You never once mentioned it could possibly be another nikka or something.

She gets pissed, proves that it's actually her coworker, and argues that she shouldn't have to tell you minor things like that. Accuses you of micromanaging her.. ???

Who is in the wrong? Also, opinions?
 

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Question:

Your girl uses your whip for a week. She goes to work everyday, but you find out she go pick up a female coworker a couple of times for work.

You ask her why she never communicated that with you, until you had to question this random address in the gps. You never once mentioned it could possibly be another nikka or something.

She gets pissed, proves that it's actually her coworker, and argues that she shouldn't have to tell you minor things like that. Accuses you of micromanaging her.. ???

Who is in the wrong? Also, opinions?
If she ain’t paying the note, insurance, gas, etc. she in the wrong
 
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