Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

LeVraiPapi

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This nikka stay posting stories when he’s drunk :skip:

Lol. Yeah man. I was out. So this chick I play simp mode with called me angrily and cursed me out cuz I stood her up and I told her I was home. Loud music in the background too.

You know what's funny? I just tected her and she replied within 5 seconds. Thats a chick that typically takes 15 mn to 2 hrs to reply. She sounds open again but I justbwanted to troll her for having said Black men aint shyt.
 

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How do you older brehs with careers get women??:why:


Im 19 with No IG, not at College and don’t work retail and I may aswell be in the Desert with this drought:gucci:

I’m starting to workout and I’m not against approaching in public so help a breh out

Ahhhh, you not on your purpose so your tier is going to be bottom barrel and ones who are into you. 19? Good age to go exploring. You need to set traps on all the apps, Tinder, POF, Hinge, Bumble, Ol Cupid and keep it unlimited. Lots of old bytches wanna fukk young dudes too. Drag the trap, rinse. Repeat.

Don’t try to lock nobody down or even get a girlfriend. Your young ass needs to explore!
 

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I asked this girl to let me fukk at the job... lol, she said "when?"... I was surprised than a mug.

However, I think she think I'm joking... which I was, but i was serious at the same time
 

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Ahhhh, you not on your purpose so your tier is going to be bottom barrel and ones who are into you. 19? Good age to go exploring. You need to set traps on all the apps, Tinder, POF, Hinge, Bumble, Ol Cupid and keep it unlimited. Lots of old bytches wanna fukk young dudes too. Drag the trap, rinse. Repeat.

Don’t try to lock nobody down or even get a girlfriend. Your young ass needs to explore!

Who said I’m not on my purpose? :mjpls:

We sleezeball gang over here :ufdup:

Nah I’m playing but I’m trying go get on my purpose breh, my career is on track for now and I’m getting in shape.

That being said at 19 it’s difficult if you arent in the usual college/retail environment. All my friends are doing well cause they’re around that.
 
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All of these women play from the same play book.

"I'm focusing on figuring out my life, where I'm going, I hope we can still be good friends bc I don't wanna lose you, you're a great guy. It's not you, it really is me"

That's all code for "I got someone else now I'm chillin with and being tied to you is an annoyance/not necessary anymore"

They'll never admit to why they are really doing it, nor will they admit to knowing they f'd up when that new situation plays itself out.
 
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All of these women play from the same play book.

"I'm focusing on figuring out my life, where I'm going, I hope we can still be good friends bc I don't wanna lose you, you're a great guy. It's not you, it really is me"

That's all code for "I got someone else now I'm chillin with and being tied to you is an annoyance/not necessary anymore"

They'll never admit to why they are really doing it, nor will they admit to knowing they f'd up when that new situation plays itself out.

Yea we we were so good together that I was making excuses in my head that maybe she does need to work on herself and stuff. She was telling me she’s still hurt from her previous relationship. I guess i couldn’t admit to myself that there’s surely another dude in the picture now and I’m not needed anymore. Needed to hear that. Thanks man.
 

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Yea we we were so good together that I was making excuses in my head that maybe she does need to work on herself and stuff. She was telling me she’s still hurt from her previous relationship. I guess i couldn’t admit to myself that there’s surely another dude in the picture now and I’m not needed anymore. Needed to hear that. Thanks man.

There are always elements of people needing to work on themselves and that's admirable, but that doesn't mean you can't be with someone. We're always a work in progress.

Another guy has most probably gotten her attention. But she wants to not feel guilty for dropping you. And wants you in a holding pattern, for when it inevitably goes wrong with him. Keep it moving. That doesn't mean be nasty to her. Just she's made her position clear and you can't give her your energy.
 

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I know a bytch like that right now. Play too much fukking games and I’m quite sure she said this shyt after hanging out, bullshytting sending the wrong signals. I’ve made up my mind about the girl who did the same thing to me. I’m going to go let ol girl who did the same shyt take my ass out to eat and get a drink, on her.

Also, stop being nice. I had to let my current girl know When she first came over to my place I’m going to try and fukk. No “friendship zones shyt” and believe you me, give this bytch about two months of taking nutt shots and being a cum rag for somebody else she’ll start to rethink her stance. I know she will be back with the ol “hey I was thinking about you bullshyt, or hey, you crossed my mind bs”

:comeon:when she do be ready lol
 

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Yea we we were so good together that I was making excuses in my head that maybe she does need to work on herself and stuff. She was telling me she’s still hurt from her previous relationship. I guess i couldn’t admit to myself that there’s surely another dude in the picture now and I’m not needed anymore. Needed to hear that. Thanks man.

I mean there's a small chance she's being honest. Very small chance.

But it's a bigger chance she met someone more "exciting" than you. Mind you women operate off emotion so "exciting" is not a diss to you. And she likely knows deep down it's a stupid decision but she can't help herself, so she wants to keep you around for "someday". And also for the logic of her ego thinking you still want her.

I'd tell you to block her from fb or whatever social media and move on.

I told my last chick smooth the f off after I found out she wanted to break up with me for her "friend" she'd been hanging with and I later found out they had become fwb. She swore they never did anything while we were still together but I have no reason to believe that. And we'd been together almost a year. But I wish I hadn't told her off. It felt good, but it would've felt better to just block her from everything and her have to wonder if I hated her for what she did.

At some point, she'll try to hit you up again probably for nothing more than her own ego to see if you reply back.
 

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Hope you didn't text her back no soft ass hoe shyt. Hit her with the "I don't really give a fukk tbh:manny:"

She'll be back

Lol. That's tempting breh and probably the right thing she deserves, but honestly if he does that, then she'll know his feelings are hurt, and oddly enough, that'll boost her ego and make her feel good about herself .

Furthermore, @Deathstroke ,she ain't even give you the decency of a PHONE CALL or face to face to tell you she's quit you. That's really low. :francis:Block her and keep it moving.
 
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