Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Snoopy Loops]

I need some advice from the council of brehs. TL;DR is it corny to take a girl to a hotel room for a night when I live down the street?


My sister around my age recently moved back from NY and we’re in the same house. I bring back shorties with no real qualms. I try and keep it down.

But this shortie who’s just here for holidays requires an empty house. It would be way too loud. Shes with her parents so I can’t go to her. She knows my living situation. She’s already come thru, we smoked, fukked around, oral and foreplay ish.

Is it corny to suggest a hotel room just for privacy sake. We’re both 30. Shes finishing med school and I’m working a corporate gig. Feels I’m forcing shyt. Shes knows what’s up but feel I still gotta be subtle

 

[Goon for hire]

I know most of y’all are into selling dreams but how does a breh get lots of Pusey without spending a dime on these women? I’m always tight with my money and I’d feel like a trick being a free meal to the women

nikka ain’t you in college? Girls aren’t expecting you to be spending money on them like that anyways.

No offense bro but aren’t you that light skin nikka with green eyes and shyt? You should be eating off the strength of that alone

 

[Deafheaven]

I used to be very"don't spend a dime" but as I've gotten old and more stable I've relented a lil bit. A lil 20-50 shouldn't hurt you. fukk i spend that on lyfts when we and my boy mob...

Now outright simping, paying bills, taking her to ruth chris's shyt lol. naw. But fronting a drink or some shyt. IDK, I've relented

 

[bucks3115]

This question or questions I'm about to ask are very important and will reveal even more before a i make a judgement (I already know what's going roughly)

1. Why do you feel or treat her special and NOT like any other dumb bytch... Even though she is indeed acting like your typical cute dumb entitled bytch... Why are you going out of your way to book cabs for, entertain her passive aggressive cock block "you're not gonna introduce me to your new GF" etc all typical shyt..... Yet you're putting her on some type of unearned peadstal in your.... WHY?...


2. Is she the hottest and highest level (both looks and social status) broad that is entertaining your advances

3. Have you fukked this girl multiple times yet?

My theory so far is that you're gunning for a girl that ordinarily is out of your league or growing up you associated her "type" as being unattainable.
Now that you have the money or lil bit of Game to get any play from chicks like her, you still have the mentality of High School virgin version of yourself, putting her on a peadstal, but at the same time you're giddy and excited that you're having relationship power struggles with a super bad bytch.

Her behavior so far based on your own description would've had me block her number and delete everything pertaining to her, and when i saw her publicly I would've not even engaged with her, the look on my face alone wouldn't have even made her comfortable enough to approach me whilst I'm in the presence of a different woman.

You gotta be honest breh or else your Game will never grow with ego and pride.

Girls like her are extremely dangerous coz they entice you with the promise of p*ssy but never wanna submit to you as a man.
It's just a narcissistic fill for her, the fact she "lost her mind" over you not texting her and entertaining another means one thing," you're my little play thing, I got you p*ssy whipped, I control you and make you book Ubers for me bytch ass nikka, how dare you expand your horizons are possibly discover that there are far better women /p*ssy than me"... It's not jeolousy and healthy territoriality, it's a narcissistic rage at her "toy" being taken away.

Peep Game

1.cuz i really like her
2. yes to both question
3. fukked two times after that i stop callin n texting

u totally right, but this is like the first time that im after a young chick cuz i usually date or fukk chick above 24 yrs old , they cause less trouble

plus let me add : when i told her that i had to choose between her n another chick its bcz i want to kill her ego
apparently its worked

 

[Cape Town JHB]

Then i know your games trash You learned from the coli simps and nikkas who spend all day swiping right on tinder. As for the last bit you are well aware most nikkas in here dont live in Africa, i dont know why you put African from Africa in quotations when clearly in the post you quoted i said African who LIVES IN Africa.



This is true

You can't even discern sarcasm breh

 

[bucks3115]

I need some advice from the council of brehs. TL;DR is it corny to take a girl to a hotel room for a night when I live down the street?


My sister around my age recently moved back from NY and we’re in the same house. I bring back shorties with no real qualms. I try and keep it down.

But this shortie who’s just here for holidays requires an empty house. It would be way too loud. Shes with her parents so I can’t go to her. She knows my living situation. She’s already come thru, we smoked, fukked around, oral and foreplay ish.

Is it corny to suggest a hotel room just for privacy sake. We’re both 30. Shes finishing med school and I’m working a corporate gig. Feels I’m forcing shyt. Shes knows what’s up but feel I still gotta be subtle

y all both 30
she is a grownup
plus u already fukked, going to hotel shouldn't be a problem

explain to her the situation so she dnt feel like a prostitute

 

[Cape Town JHB]

1.cuz i really like her
2. yes to both question
3. fukked two times after that i stop callin n texting

u totally right, but this is like the first time that im after a young chick cuz i usually date or fukk chick above 24 yrs old , they cause less trouble

plus let me add : when i told her that i had to choose between her n another chick its bcz i want to kill her ego
apparently its worked

Breh what I'm trying to get YOU to see is WHY ARE YOU p*ssy WHIPPED BY HER IN PARTICULAR... You keep saying "I reallly like her", women talk like that when they get dikked down good by a dude that don't give a fukk about them and they still stay coz "I reallly like him".

Get real and snap out of it, this chick has ZERO respect for you and pretty much knows that she holds the power in this pathetic arrangement. She'll use you for whatever she wants, be it dinner dates or to fill up her narcissistic personna.

How in the fukk do you "really like" a woman that shows zero respect or regard for you as a man and a person... Like wtf!!!

I'm not gonna say leave her, but what i want you to do is agrresively pursue girls that look like her and are in the same age group or younger, approach EVERYTHING cute you bump into for a week... I don't know how old you are or how experienced your Game is, but this is sad and pathetic, getting played by a young bytch is no way to go out breh.

Peace

 

[Silkk]

ask yourself what would AMS do

@bucks3115

 

[Bless't]

But isn't it fascinating how in beginning the average looking bytch is sooooooo submissive and proving that she's "not like those superficial Instagram thots" or what have you......... or the young pretty bytch pretends to not be anything like her young dumb peers and will even mimick liking your "advanced" nuanced tastes in music, books etc......... or the older 30 plus year old pretends to know exactly what she wants, how mature and advanced in her thinking she PRETENDS to be.....

Have you noticed that if you deal with a "hometown" black girl, the fact you're both black, grew up in the same culture and environment (in my case Cape Town) etc they get comfortable very quickly and they hit you with their bullshyt much quicker.

but if i deal with an American black woman or from outside of South Africa or even a colored (mixed breed) or exchange student etc they are much more guarded about the perception and impression they make for a loooooooooobg time, but eventually the same shyt tests the local comfortable chick was doing, the foreign will do too.. Even worse certain foreign women from non English speaking countries will do their shyt tests with no cultural nuance.

Ever had a chick who can barely speak English try to hate on how well you groom yourself or dress or gym (anything making you a viable option for other women) "U R gym like Arnold Schwarzenegger mad man all da time" or "You are washing face every night like girl.. Real man not worry about girly thing like wash face" or "why you always plan outifit like supermodel boy".. It's so insufferable

 

[Krisrunner2049]

nikka ain’t you in college? Girls aren’t expecting you to be spending money on them like that anyways.
No offense bro but aren’t you that light skin nikka with green eyes and shyt? You should be eating off the strength of that alone

It’s different out here in community college, I understand university is way different. I have never been on date and had to ditch a girl Saturday night when she was talking about how and I quote “when you go out with girls you have to spend $$ on them, I’m a pretty girl” bih you got at me and asked me out, I was just there for the experience . Yes lightskin green eyes I been letting the women come to me cuz I don’t wanna go through the bs of more girls that are relationship oriented.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

have you ever had a fwb and whats your ideal fuk buddy playa?

A girl that’s my age or a little older. I’m tryna wean off of milfs and fukk young women. a Latina probably

 

[mortuus est]

Agreed, the homie who asked the initial question, the answer is NO... If you had the Game to pull it off you wouldn't be asking.


Can you expand on her knowing she's "not good enough"

My experience with dealing with low self esteem career chicks or broken average looking rich girls is that they will do everything for you EXCEPT things that actually empower you for real, coz that would render them useless.

They don't mind giving up petty money they can afford to lose, have you use THEIR car, live in THEIR place, go to nice places where she pays for everything etc but they'll never finance anything in your name, or give you a set big sum to go start your busineess or anything that would render you better than her in the long term.
They give you just enough incentive to not leave but not enough for you to function independently.

I remember when I was broke, but still had Game, girls who were madly infatuated with me, knowing I was broke would not give me the money I needed for something, instead they would say let's go buy "ABC" that you wanted, I'd pick it out and they'd pay..... I was too young and naiive to see that she played a power move on me, and rendered me her "baby boy".

The joys of being young, broke, with decent looks, in shape body, game and sexual performance...

Ever had a chick take the car keys the day you were planning on going to see another chick who thought the car was yours, when your provider bytch was at work

Memories

.

 

[mortuus est]

I need some advice from the council of brehs. TL;DR is it corny to take a girl to a hotel room for a night when I live down the street?


My sister around my age recently moved back from NY and we’re in the same house. I bring back shorties with no real qualms. I try and keep it down.

But this shortie who’s just here for holidays requires an empty house. It would be way too loud. Shes with her parents so I can’t go to her. She knows my living situation. She’s already come thru, we smoked, fukked around, oral and foreplay ish.

Is it corny to suggest a hotel room just for privacy sake. We’re both 30. Shes finishing med school and I’m working a corporate gig. Feels I’m forcing shyt. Shes knows what’s up but feel I still gotta be subtle

.

 

[mortuus est]

I used to be very"don't spend a dime" but as I've gotten old and more stable I've relented a lil bit. A lil 20-50 shouldn't hurt you. fukk i spend that on lyfts when we and my boy mob...

Now outright simping, paying bills, taking her to ruth chris's shyt lol. naw. But fronting a drink or some shyt. IDK, I've relented

you have to spend a lil bit of cash to provide the "vibes", its that simple

 

[phcitywarrior]

I legit might have found the one brehs. We men know when we've found gold that's why its called a Gold rush. Ain't no copper or silver rush.

I'll play it cool for now, but she might be the one.