Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Broke it off with my girl almost 3 weeks now and even though we had multiple break ups and make ups I know it's real this time, my feelings towards her is blank. Since then I've been focusing on my physical and mental. Been working out and running almost every day, it feels great. About to payoff all my debt, get my teeth cleaned and whitened, take a few trips overseas solo, focus on advancing my career and overall work on myself. Haven't felt like this in awhile.

I already downloaded tinder, bumble, hinge and blk to see what's out there but not going to indulge till in any of them or in person till I accomplished most of my plans and mentally fully ready.

it's easy how someone could come in your life and sidetrack on your journey

 

[Noriega]

Why is it so hard to find a homely shorty with no tats, no cake makeup and no goofy ass eyelashes

 

[Barnett114]

Why is it so hard to find a homely shorty with no tats, no cake makeup and no goofy ass eyelashes

They in college

Chicago State might not be for you however

 

[Noriega]

They in college

Chicago State might not be for you however

So many security, cashier, delivery shortys downtown I could eat off but chose not to.

“Aw you work for the state? you getting a bag then”

It’s just crazy how shortys from the hood look at you like you a millionaire or somethin if you got a whip and apartment

 

[Koli_Kat]

So many security, cashier, delivery shortys downtown I could eat off but chose not to.

“Aw you work for the state? you getting a bag then”

It’s just crazy how shortys from the hood look at you like you a millionaire or somethin if you got a whip and apartment

Don't go for low hanging fruit breh.

 

[Killigraphy]

Why is it so hard to find a homely shorty with no tats, no cake makeup and no goofy ass eyelashes

Hit the library, I'm not joking. Go to your local bookstore/liberry and check there. They'll usually be hiding in the anime section (if its a bookstore). I live near a Barnes and Nobles, so I go hunting there. Easy prey too.

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Recent break up. Shorty was a pathological liar. I had a feeling she was full of shyt and i didnt wanna believe it. Finally bushed her and she was acting like she breaking up with me cause i had someone follow her and record her.

She got home and said look i just got in....i was getting my phone fixed. While she was out eating with her female cousin who had just moved into her apartment. I sent her pictures and video.

She said i disappointed her and she can never trust me lol

She realized i was gonna find more shyt. I was angry for like 2 days. Tbh, i am so happy to have done what i did...that bytch was a great sales person.

I am also 1000% sure she had cheated but ibwas going against all my beliefs to trust her.

Never again.

Why did you have her followed?

 

[SATAN]

Don't go for low hanging fruit breh.

It's just as ripe and delicious as the rest of the fruit


When I was a kid in Wisconsin, there was an apple tree in the neighborhood. I would grab a low- hanging apple and use it to throw at the higher ones that were out of reach, to knock them loose.

Both them bytches tasted exactly the same

 

[PaperEnterprise]

Why did you have her followed?

It was my one and only opportunity to know if she was lying. Deep inside i knew she was lying. The thing is she lied about such stupid shyt that my mind would ask if she is lying about small shyt, imagine what else she lies about.

Also because one day she said, you aint got no proof that I am lying...this was back in October. It stayed with me that she only thinks with proof she can get caught.

I havent spoken to her for 2 weeks. I am very happy. But at times i get a bit disappointed with myself for even entertaining this bird brain because i saw the red flags early and thought, naively, that she would appreciate what ibwas doing for her.

Bruh, some people are just trash. However i am accountable for trying to fix broken souls and grown ass adults. At the end, she didnt waste my time, i chose to be in a shytty situation

 

[MikelArteta]

for brehs here who have been married and divorced what made you come to both decisions?

Like how did you know shes the one i want to get married to her, then how did you know this ish ain't working I want out.

@DaRealness @VertigoKnight

 

[MikelArteta]

It was my one and only opportunity to know if she was lying. Deep inside i knew she was lying. The thing is she lied about such stupid shyt that my mind would ask if she is lying about small shyt, imagine what else she lies about.

Also because one day she said, you aint got no proof that I am lying...this was back in October. It stayed with me that she only thinks with proof she can get caught.

I havent spoken to her for 2 weeks. I am very happy. But at times i get a bit disappointed with myself for even entertaining this bird brain because i saw the red flags early and thought, naively, that she would appreciate what ibwas doing for her.

Bruh, some people are just trash. However i am accountable for trying to fix broken souls and grown ass adults. At the end, she didnt waste my time, i chose to be in a shytty situation

honestly as I Get older not to sound selfish but always put yourself and your well being first. If i see red flags adios, if im dating a girl but don't like where it's going adios

 

[MikelArteta]

So many security, cashier, delivery shortys downtown I could eat off but chose not to.

“Aw you work for the state? you getting a bag then”

It’s just crazy how shortys from the hood look at you like you a millionaire or somethin if you got a whip and apartment

lol travel to any african country as soon as they know your foreign its

 

[PaperEnterprise]

honestly as I Get older not to sound selfish but always put yourself and your well being first. If i see red flags adios, if im dating a girl but don't like where it's going adios

It is not selfish. We are taught to always help others but never taught about mindfulness to our mental health.

I will never ignore red flags in any relationship ever again.

 

[MikelArteta]

It is not selfish. We are taught to always help others but never taught about mindfulness to our mental health.

I will never ignore red flags in any relationship ever again.

yeah people rarely change eff em

 

[Ransoming]

Is my friend with benefits asking too much for me to be in contact with her once every 2-3 days even just to check in or is that normally how it goes?
Sometimes I just don’t want to talk nor feel the need to hit up anybody. I told her that feels robotic to me and relationshipy. I’d rather her hit me up when she wants to talk or I’ll hit her up when I want to talk. We are kind of in a stalemate in that.