Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[jay83]

A lot of Women are some of the most passive aggressive creatures I’ve witnessed.

you gotta read their minds but not be controlling. But you got to be assertive but not thirsty. No wonder many are never satisfied. They truly don’t know what they want or even where they are going. I would hate to be surrounded by that type of energy all day. Lol.

 

[George Gooney]

I didn’t want to smash I want respect

That’s the thing about bytches. They usually don’t respect you until after you smash. Then you can treat them however you want.

 

[DrBanneker]

But if you wait and then find out the p*ssy trash

Well if she is willing she may improve, otherwise cut your losses.

 

[TRUEST]

That’s the thing about bytches. They usually don’t respect you until after you smash. Then you can treat them however you want.

This is accurate. Women ain’t gone submit to until after the first smash. If she likes it, you’re in command at that point. But the baddest ones will test u every now and then and will take that command away if you’re not on your Nonchalant G.

 

[SATAN]

The way my female friends act when they catch feelings for me has taught me that when a woman is interested in you, she will definitely make it clear through her behavior that she is interested in you. No games or mixed signals. Just pure high interest.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

The way my female friends act when they catch feelings for me has taught me that when a woman is interested in you, she will definitely make it clear through her behavior that she is interested in you. No games or mixed signals. Just pure high interest.

Yeah when a chick feeling you you know lol

 

[Silkk]

Well if she is willing she may improve, otherwise cut your losses.

Ain’t no improvement for trash p*ssy breh

 

[phcitywarrior]

Damn…temptation is a MF. Just thinking back to something that happened not too long ago.

Scenario: This chick (let’s call her Kate – she’s not white btw, just choice of name) I used to work with recently got laid off as part of a corporate restructuring effort, and even though she got severance for some months, she’s at home alone with two young kids.

Late last year her husband (John) just woke up one day and left. No forewarning, no signs, dude just left. He only left a note but offered no explanation. He’s been chipping in with bills and the like but on a day to day, dude isn’t there. What’s worse is that I’ve met him before when Kate invited me for her daughter’s 1st birthday about a year ago. From what I saw, dude seemed like a solid guy. Well educated, hard worker, good job, family man etc.

FF to a few weeks back. Kate invited me (since Nov 2019) for her son’s 1st birthday. I obliged and went. Event was cool. Some of Kate’s sisters came down and a bunch of her friends also attended. For the most part the crowd was full of engaged, just married or just had their first kid type of couples. Few single people but that was fine by me as this was more a family type event.

Anyway, after games and the events of the day I helped to clean up just as a show of good spirit plus that’s how I was raised. I’m helping take out the trash and pack up the food stuff when Kate asks one of her sisters to help run an errand that would take at least 45 mins or so. So now it’s just me and Kate in the house.

Kate calls out to me from upstairs and asked if I was done cleaning up. I responded almost. She then comes down in this silk type night gown or (she changed from what she had on in the party) and everything was out on display. No bra on so the nips were poking through and the silk pants hugged her bottom well and you could tell she had no panties on. shyt also had a wedgie so them cheeks were on display. And mind you, Kate is thick joint. Big boobs, thick thighs the whole 9 yards.

She then asked me to help her move some furniture to her room. While even getting the furniture up the room her movements were just hyper sexualized. I kid you not when I say the lust that overcame me that day is not normal. Once we got to her room she started off with some sensual talk and the like. Talking about how lonely it’s been since John left and how she had to juggle so much herself. I already assessed the situation, but I faked like I got a phone call from my people’s and dipped.

That’s one thing I don’t/won’t do: start getting involved with someone in a marriage that’s not fully divorced. Dudes get crazy out here.

 

[phcitywarrior]

Let me throw something out here for brehs who are looking for relationship material women. In other words, this isn't advice on smashing since you can figure that out from other advice in this thread....

Pretty good advice. Long story short, sex can cloud judgment, especially early on in a relationship when you should be doing your DD and vetting your lady's character. Shouldn't pull the cart before the horse

 

[Jimmy from Linkedin]

So two different women I've been with. Ex and current gf, have had recurring dreams of me cheating on them with a similarly described woman who I have never met before. Luckily this one didnt get mad or sad like the last one, but still this is kinda weird.

For those of all who date the earthy types, lemme know if you've ever experienced this and how to go about this.

Of course reps with constructive advice...

 

[Marzupial]

That’s one thing I don’t/won’t do: start getting involved with someone in a marriage that’s not fully divorced. Dudes get crazy out here.

The way I see it I don't think you should worry about dude if he really left like that he clearly doesn't care

She looks like the crazy one so I would avoid her

Btw was she the one who told you the story on how he left?

I am 100% sure she didn't tell you all the details

 

[bucks3115]

long story short


i have met a young chick who doesn't go out much
anytime she go out at nyt she's surrounded by her cousin and brothers

she super quiet but last time i saw her , she was talkin me and laugin with me

so i went to an after party she was ther with the cousin and brothers (4 guys)

i culdnt take her number cuz i knw 2 of her cousin so i sent my hypewoman (good friend of mine) she went ther and took it for me and shawty was okay with it


before i left i noticed that most of ther bros were lookin at me with a bad eyes , she was alone for like 3 min
i talked to her and told her to take my number
she took it and said that she will text me




it been 3 days she ddnt text
i knew she was interested but i know her brothers told her bad things abt me cuz
they used to see me with different girl


i got her number form my hypewoman



shuld i call her and set a date or shuld i give up


@jay83 @VertigoKnight @Koli_Kat @Lord Scarf @360dagod @TheManFromVA
@Marzupial

 

[Ahadi]

long story short


i have met a young chick who doesn't go out much
anytime she go out at nyt she's surrounded by her cousin and brothers

she super quiet but last time i saw her , she was talkin me and laugin with me

so i went to an after party she was ther with the cousin and brothers (4 guys)

i culdnt take her number cuz i knw 2 of her cousin so i sent my hypewoman (good friend of mine) she went ther and took it for me and shawty was okay with it


before i left i noticed that most of ther bros were lookin at me with a bad eyes , she was alone for like 3 min
i talked to her and told her to take my number
she took it and said that she will text me




it been 3 days she ddnt text
i knew she was interested but i know her brothers told her bad things abt me cuz
they used to see me with different girl


i got her number form my hypewoman



shuld i call her and set a date or shuld i give up


@jay83 @VertigoKnight @Koli_Kat @Lord Scarf @360dagod @TheManFromVA
@Marzupial

Let her make that call. If she’s truly interested, she’ll disregard her family and connect with you. If her family influenced her that much, then she just wasn’t meant for you.

I’d prolly pass either way. Sounds like a lot to deal with. Especially if you had to send a wingwoman to get the number. Which is kinda strange from her point of view.

 

[phcitywarrior]

The way I see it I don't think you should worry about dude if he really left like that he clearly doesn't care

She looks like the crazy one so I would avoid her

Btw was she the one who told you the story on how he left?

I am 100% sure she didn't tell you all the details

Yea she told me about him leaving. There may be some details left out but main point is dude isn’t there on the day to day.

Regardless of who’s the crazy one, I respect the union of marriage and can’t be out here messing with a married women. Especially when I know, have met and hung out with her husband.

Breh, when she came out the way she did the first thing that came into my mind was

“Nikka, this is how the devil be getting people hemmed up”. Once I helped move the furniture I was out.

 

[Ahadi]

Funny story.

Introduced myself to this woman at work, during happy hour. Everyone dipped. We were making good convo then all the sudden she pops outta nowhere. “Yeah I do this & i’m married”



Im like....” that’s rough” and in my head I’m thinking .... When did I give that idea I was hitting on you? I didn’t even say anything.

Sidebar: She’s pawg



Edit: Some women say “im married” as a self-defense mechanism. (You look good, but they have to remind themselves they’re married)