Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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wassup coli people
i have this met this chick at the lounge
she was bored and frowning nobody tried to talk to her
so i sat next to her , make a couples jokes then she start smiling
she ws telling me that she had a mood day and all
we exhange number , met 4 days after
now we videocall every single day and we talk all the time
i even give less attention to my other chicks now
she invite me to her place this Saturday
i feel like im about to fall in love
shuld i slow down or what
 

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wassup coli people
i have this met this chick at the lounge
she was bored and frowning nobody tried to talk to her
so i sat next to her , make a couples jokes then she start smiling
she ws telling me that she had a mood day and all
we exhange number , met 4 days after
now we videocall every single day and we talk all the time
i even give less attention to my other chicks now
she invite me to her place this Saturday
i feel like im about to fall in love
shuld i slow down or what

fall in love? Slow down dude, pace yourself! You find her out yet? Test her? She feel the same? Is it lust or love? Don’t play yourself dude! That’s all I’m saying, shyt you throwing in your cards and waving the flag kinda quick don’t cha think?
 
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fall in love? Slow down dude, pace yourself! You find her out yet? Test her? She feel the same? Is it lust or love? Don’t play yourself dude! That’s all I’m saying, shyt you throwing in your cards and waving the flag kinda quick don’t cha think?

i think we both going too fast but it all natural
we just clicked
she definitely like me

wat do u mean by test her ?
gimme an example
 

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i think we both going too fast but it all natural
we just clicked
she definitely like me

wat do u mean by test her ?
gimme an example

I mean how do you know she’s for YOU? You think she’s for you and obviously you’re for her but what have you seen to show you she’s the ONE? Did she crawl before you balled? Man don’t wear your heart on your sleeve. How she loyal? Is she worthy? How? Vibing means we mesh but that don’t mean she will keep other dikks from invading what you think is yours

:ufdup:
 

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wassup coli people
i have this met this chick at the lounge
she was bored and frowning nobody tried to talk to her
so i sat next to her , make a couples jokes then she start smiling
she ws telling me that she had a mood day and all
we exhange number , met 4 days after
now we videocall every single day and we talk all the time
i even give less attention to my other chicks now
she invite me to her place this Saturday
i feel like im about to fall in love
shuld i slow down or what

Women smell blood....

You show your cards and you will be coming back here asking what happened..

Keep the poker face
 

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1. You should’ve kept the nonchalant cordial vibe. That would’ve drove her crazy and she’d want you even more.

2. Never give head to a woman without reciprocation.

2 happened to me like 15 yrs ago :hhh: well she sucked me off but I wanted to hit and didn't happen.. never again


:hhh:
 

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Also, never check a woman, especially one you haven't fukked yet. Just let them be. From when you did that you've handed agency and power to her and she knows you care more than she does, at least for now. As a man your silence, and not giving her any attention is more effective.



Louder for those at the back.
I've always felt checking a woman I'm not serious with as exerting too much energy...I'm just fukking, do whatever the fukk you want, if you disrespect me to some level, its just bushes :yeshrug:
 

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Good video here by Rom Wills.


Basically long and short of it all, stop getting gassed up all the time when a chick shows you attention and get out your ego. You don't know whether it's even genuine or not.

I see some posts in here from time to time talking about how a dude instantly hit it off with a chick they just met. That don't mean nothing. You could have just been something for her to do and pass the time for a few days or maybe she was just simply in a good mood. Remember chicks are hot one minute, cold the next without any explanation. I've been on job interviews where I've so called hit it off with the people interviewing me who liked my profile and job description only to not even hear back from them to tell me I didn't get the job.

Some dudes will get one little compliment or a touch from a female and feel like he's king of the hill...only for a request to immediate follow straight after and have you feeling like :dwillhuh:. Make sure she is genuinely into you first without being all excited so that you don't end up wasting your time and getting hurt and confused needlessly. Some women are literally masters at stroking a man's ego to get what they want, but that's only if you let it happen. That's why you need to be on some whatever, nonchalant shyt.
 

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Aight this one for the Mack’s not u non puzzy getting niccas in here.... so I met this chick hit it off like never before and we vibing ... so pretty much she came over to my hotel one night I tell her I don’t want to fck and rush things , and that I wanna connect with her first so I end up giving her massage and couldn’t help my self and ate her out, next day I text her goodmorning and she didn’t text me all day , I checked her on it and she said sum bs excuse like she busy but she posting sum poetry on ig.. I think 2 things happened, 1) I was got to serious too fast she prolly just wanted to fck 2) she’s trying to run game on me cuz she seen I like her... what y’all think I fumbled and got caught lacking ?

Women don’t like weak or timid men. You invite her to a hotel only to tell her we’re going to take things slow :francis:

you massaged her, gave her head and didn’t beat :mjlol:

70% chance she left the hotel to meet another dude who gladly blew her back out:sas2:
 
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Women don’t like weak or timid men. You invite her to a hotel only to tell her we’re going to take things slow :francis:

you massaged her, gave her head and didn’t beat :mjlol:

70% chance she left the hotel to meet another dude who gladly blew her back out:sas2:
I think ur right B, she just wanted to fck and I was on sum goofy shyt
 

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wassup coli people
i have this met this chick at the lounge
she was bored and frowning nobody tried to talk to her
so i sat next to her , make a couples jokes then she start smiling
she ws telling me that she had a mood day and all
we exhange number , met 4 days after
now we videocall every single day and we talk all the time
i even give less attention to my other chicks now
she invite me to her place this Saturday
i feel like im about to fall in love
shuld i slow down or what

Stop video calling her everyday you going to dry her vagina up.
 

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Aight this one for the Mack’s not u non puzzy getting niccas in here.... so I met this chick hit it off like never before and we vibing ... so pretty much she came over to my hotel one night I tell her I don’t want to fck and rush things , and that I wanna connect with her first so I end up giving her massage and couldn’t help my self and ate her out, next day I text her goodmorning and she didn’t text me all day , I checked her on it and she said sum bs excuse like she busy but she posting sum poetry on ig.. I think 2 things happened, 1) I was got to serious too fast she prolly just wanted to fck 2) she’s trying to run game on me cuz she seen I like her... what y’all think I fumbled and got caught lacking ?

:mjlol::mjlol: look at this shyt here brehs
 
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nikkas gotta stop with this ugly gang shyt. I remember my grandmother telling me when I was young don't let what these women say to you sit on your conscience cause they ugly to somebody to. Never think that MASCULINITY goes hand and hand with materialism . Trust when you get money and try to use it to get women you bring the WRONG type or the wrong type is attracted to you .
 
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