One thing men need to develop for any area of life is the art or bouncing back and resilience. Women and their bullshyt shouldn't even be your focus now.
Look, if a chick doesn't care to give you an answer.....then THAT'S your answer. If she doesn't care enough to give you "closure", she doesn't care about you and that's all you need to know. Females flip flop and change like the weather. One minute they're cool with you, next minute they're acting funny for no reason at all.
Life is too short and fragile to try figuring it out. Maybe they do it because grass is green or because cayenne pepper goes well with scrambled eggs or because 2 + 2 = 4. It could be anything. So what? It's a harsh reality but the only thing you have is your mind and that's something you need to safeguard.
I don't have the energy nor the desire to deal with bullshyt. My ex wife messaged me a few days ago on some "I hope you don't mind me texting you", using this coronavirus epidemic as an excuse to be in contact and she was one who acted just like that...years ago didn't wanna give me a straight answer and left to go back to her city while I picked up the pieces. Now ever since I initiated the divorce and no longer care to remain in contact, she finds her tongue. Last time she messaged me was two years ago. But the point is it's interesting how they come out the woodworks and try and wiggle their way back in once you're indifferent and have moved on. Five years ago I would have been triggered, now I'm not interested at all in what goes on with her.
This is get-your-shyt-together time. It sucks being indoors most of the day, but apart from all the sickness and death surrounding the world, it's the perfect time to work on yourself and do the the things you need to do to make yourself a better man. I've learned a few things about myself recently and have had to start ironing out some flaws.
If some dumb ass dude wants to let a chick waste his time just so she can get attention, then that's on him. fukk all the nonsense. Once all of this coronavirus shyt dies down, then you'll be better equipped to deal with women and life in general and make better choices (if you've used this time wisely).