Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
The Rona got these women looking chunky af 
DrBanneker
Space is the Place
Crazy. A couple months ago I stepped to this one chick I'd been on and off with. Told ole girl that we should make things official that I wasn't really tryna do the friend things.
She said she didn't know (not a yes, not a no) said she wanted to figure herself out a bit. She said 2019 was a whirlwind for her as it concerns dating.
I said cool and fell back like way back. No proactive reaching out on my part. Anyway, I messed with other chicks in the meantime but nothing crazy. Used the quarantine period to trim my spending and kept on my grind.
Anyway, she's now reaching out tryna to talk and what not. I don't really care for us to do any empty talks. I've "drawn my line in the sand" so to speak. Honestly, I'm kinda losing interest in ole girl. I think I liked the "idea" of her more than her so to speak. That and I may have looked into our past interactions too favourably
Honestly, this could be a couple things. My main concern is make sure you aren't the backup dude and now her main prospect has bailed, she thinks she can summon you. If not, well, you liked her enough to be serious so maybe you can entertain her again but I would cut the cord at additional indecision.
DrBanneker
Space is the Place
This. You want the p*ssy to be good but cats need to remember you will spend less than 5% of your time fukking a chick unless she is a pure jump off.
We discuss women often in here as it relates to those we have type of sexual relationships with
what about female relatives though
Do any of you have toxic mothers or aunts that won’t ever change? Are y’all firm believers like myself that people cannot change after a certain age such as 50...
some people are straight up toxic for life but those who disagree that people can’t change after a certain age how do u think they can be reformed
I need something more than the cliche leave toxic relatives behind and move on
is there any type of brain therapy or something. That can be done
what about female relatives though
Do any of you have toxic mothers or aunts that won’t ever change? Are y’all firm believers like myself that people cannot change after a certain age such as 50...
some people are straight up toxic for life but those who disagree that people can’t change after a certain age how do u think they can be reformed
I need something more than the cliche leave toxic relatives behind and move on
is there any type of brain therapy or something. That can be done
George Gooney
AA GANG AA GANG AA GANG
Unfortunately the only therapy is you remove them from your life and hope they get the hint and try to change.
Question for brehs with doormen in their buildings (if you live in a apartment / high rise complex)
Do you ever feel like your doorman may hate and snitch or become nosy on you for bringing different women?or do you just tell your doorman to ring them up?
Do you ever feel like your doorman may hate and snitch or become nosy on you for bringing different women?or do you just tell your doorman to ring them up?
To the bolded: Yea, that's what I need to find out right now. What I'm debating is the approach. Being direct with women is always good but there are some things you gotta approach with a light touch/finesse.
To the underlined: This would deff be new territory for me. Lowkey, me stepping to her was kind of for me. Getting a yes or no.
EDIT: And as time as gone, I've kind of lost some interest. This other chick I also used to mess with just came back from ATL...
Mickey Kane
All Star
Man, I hate it when I try to do shyt the right, 'virtuous' way but then realise I gotta employ 'game' at 33 years of age.
I have the ability to utilise those tools but finding myself conflicted between the following:
A. Act from a place of principle. If she's not positively responsive to the 'right' approach, dead it & focus on a woman that is.
B. Act from a place of strategy and/or cynicism, understanding your average woman responds to certain traits/qualities because of the way they're hard-wired.
Hmmm.
Thoughts Coli brehs?
I have the ability to utilise those tools but finding myself conflicted between the following:
A. Act from a place of principle. If she's not positively responsive to the 'right' approach, dead it & focus on a woman that is.
B. Act from a place of strategy and/or cynicism, understanding your average woman responds to certain traits/qualities because of the way they're hard-wired.
Hmmm.
Thoughts Coli brehs?
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Luckily for me, I can just buzz up the chick from my phone. They don't have to interact with the concierge at all.
Spades Of Aces
The Infinity Watcher
Its a hard situation. You want to do right by not playing the “game” but you end up playing involuntarily. There is no separation from it when dealing with women in today’s age. You really have to not only know but to understand what type of women you’re dealing with in order to have a chance.
Spades Of Aces
The Infinity Watcher
You have to be firm with her and let her know that you’re on a date with her, not her friends. If she’s not comfortable with that, then walk away.
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