Actually6Foot3
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let the gym be your distractionBroke up with my gf of 5 and a half years last night. Extremely difficult decision but it had to be done. I know my future self will thank me for it but goddamn it’s rough
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I ended a 6 yr last yr breh lol. Use this time to reflect and become a better you. God don’t make mistakes breh, this was a lesson in life.Broke up with my gf of 5 and a half years last night. Extremely difficult decision but it had to be done. I know my future self will thank me for it but goddamn it’s rough
Dont go running back either unless yall have a kid.
that’s the tough part I played step dad since her kid was 3 and she’s almost 9 now
I’m standing firm on my decision but I just had to break the news to her this morning probably the saddest shyt I’ve dealt with in life since my mom died
that’s the tough part I played step dad since her kid was 3 and she’s almost 9 now
I’m standing firm on my decision but I just had to break the news to her this morning probably the saddest shyt I’ve dealt with in life since my mom died
it be like that breh. But you cant help others if you arent your best self so just take some time to reflect and work on yourself. Dont take anything toxic into
Your next relationship, and dont slip and let loneliness have you making emotional decisions and rushing into something else you dont need to be in.
if you need to cry then cry and get it all out. Same way you think about the good times, think about the bad times and what you can learn from them. Think about how you can be better for the next person but also be aware that next person needs to be better for you.
lotta times brehs be locked down with energy vampires
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
Exactly. Society has deviated from traditional gender norms. Women are becoming masculine and men are becoming feminine..and what is the outcome of this?
Women having 0 respect for us and treating us as disposable and men accepting masculine traits from women thinking its “spicy” or “edgy” because of it being normalized.
Women have more freedoms, rights and independence than they’ve ever had here in the west..yet soo many of them are still miserable, lonely and depressed. Why?
Because at the core of every woman is femininity and that is being taught to be suppressed by society. You can’t be feminine or go against the grain without being labelled a “pick-me” or “oppressed”. The same could be said about men and our masculinity. You a man with principles and don’t agree with what society or women say? You have toxic masculinity.
Heck nowadays people think toxic relationships are more better than healthy relationships because according to them, more emotion is shown.
that’s the tough part I played step dad since her kid was 3 and she’s almost 9 now
I’m standing firm on my decision but I just had to break the news to her this morning probably the saddest shyt I’ve dealt with in life since my mom died
Damn man. That’s deep. Lost my mom too. It’s bad when you grow attached to the child.
MaccabeanRebel
All Star
Broke up with my gf of 5 and a half years last night. Extremely difficult decision but it had to be done. I know my future self will thank me for it but goddamn it’s rough
nikka i just broke up with mine of almost 5 years today. Im low key hurt but I'm in the same boat..its better that we end it now than continue this tragedy
Broke up with my gf of 5 and a half years last night. Extremely difficult decision but it had to be done. I know my future self will thank me for it but goddamn it’s rough
Why did you break up if you don’t mind me asking?
MaccabeanRebel
All Star
Honestly the relationship is broken. Our conversations have dramatically changed within the last few months and there have been way to many arguments. I blame some of that on her job, but it just got to the point where I noticed that I cant handle how she deals with stress in general.
I need someone who has a more positive outlook on life
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
There's too much shame being a guy nowadays. Dudes are out here raping, being violent, and homophobic I get it. But toxic masculinity? Come on, what does being masculine have to do with someone being a piece of shyt?
Since the beginning of time masculine and feminine have always been attracted to one another. This shyt goes beyond gender, it's why you always see a cute feminine chick with a lesbian that's masculine as hell.
But now they're trying to neuter men from being masculine dudes. They're trying to control the way we think, the way we speak, act, and communicate with women.
Like you ever hear a female's version of how she wants a dude to win her over? shyt is always a feminine perspective that we as dudes know would NEVER work if we followed their advice.
As masculine men, we like aggressiveness, competition, and sex ( A LOT).
If a regular dude has as much of a drop of sexual thought, sexualizing a female he's shamed.
It's why when dudes rub one out they feel shame meanwhile girls got whole toy collections living life
It's why dudes out here scared to have confidence.
"I . . . . . I hope I don't make her feel uncomfortable!"
Spit game and it's either a yes or a no it doesn't have to be all that hard.
Dudes out here afraid of what they'll say, how'll they will look after rejection, and paranoid about who they're talking too.
Man up and get your masculine on!
Since the beginning of time masculine and feminine have always been attracted to one another. This shyt goes beyond gender, it's why you always see a cute feminine chick with a lesbian that's masculine as hell.
But now they're trying to neuter men from being masculine dudes. They're trying to control the way we think, the way we speak, act, and communicate with women.
Like you ever hear a female's version of how she wants a dude to win her over? shyt is always a feminine perspective that we as dudes know would NEVER work if we followed their advice.
As masculine men, we like aggressiveness, competition, and sex ( A LOT).
If a regular dude has as much of a drop of sexual thought, sexualizing a female he's shamed.
It's why when dudes rub one out they feel shame meanwhile girls got whole toy collections living life
It's why dudes out here scared to have confidence.
"I . . . . . I hope I don't make her feel uncomfortable!"
Spit game and it's either a yes or a no it doesn't have to be all that hard.
Dudes out here afraid of what they'll say, how'll they will look after rejection, and paranoid about who they're talking too.
Man up and get your masculine on!
Been a while. Shoutout to all the brehs keeping this thread alive.
Might sound weird but what i want to say is, simping is a form of arrogance. Women's whole game is to make you believe that they are or that you and her together is special. What you need to realize is that there are no exceptions to the game. None. Once you start thinking your situation is special and therefore the rules of the game don't apply to it, that's the beginning of the end for you and you will only have yourself to blame. It doesn't matter if it's a friend you are crushing on, a girl you have been fukking for a while, 2 year relationship, married for 20 years,etc. Doesn't matter how close you are because she opened up to you and you have your corny inside jokes with her or whatever. There are no exceptions to the game.
The only reason you would think the rules don't apply to you and that you can start simping is because you are suddenly thinking you two are better than the game. That the love or affinity you share is above the game. It's a form of arrogance and you will learn eventually. Humble yourself and never put your affection for a woman above the game
Might sound weird but what i want to say is, simping is a form of arrogance. Women's whole game is to make you believe that they are or that you and her together is special. What you need to realize is that there are no exceptions to the game. None. Once you start thinking your situation is special and therefore the rules of the game don't apply to it, that's the beginning of the end for you and you will only have yourself to blame. It doesn't matter if it's a friend you are crushing on, a girl you have been fukking for a while, 2 year relationship, married for 20 years,etc. Doesn't matter how close you are because she opened up to you and you have your corny inside jokes with her or whatever. There are no exceptions to the game.
The only reason you would think the rules don't apply to you and that you can start simping is because you are suddenly thinking you two are better than the game. That the love or affinity you share is above the game. It's a form of arrogance and you will learn eventually. Humble yourself and never put your affection for a woman above the game
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For as much as we’d been through we had a lot of Communication issues and in the words of Shannon Sharpe “I want someone to partner with, not sponsor”. I hung in there for the kid as long as I possibly could but I had to do what’s best for me and my life
Exactly. Toughest decision of my life but I had to do it for sure. I wish you the best on this journey breh we gon get through it
