Now this I can agree with... but there are always exceptions to the rule.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Now this I can agree with... but there are always exceptions to the rule.
CrossBones
Louder than words
that female is a prime candidate to be on one of those washed up, athlete housewife/vixen/side chick shows down the line.
CrossBones
Louder than words
mayne, these women are broke in more ways then one
gameover82
Pro
pretty much...women want superman..not clark kent
CrossBones
Louder than words
clark kent is one of the worst suckers I ever seen in comics anyways. that guy can fly all by himself, dodge bullets, eat bullets, push trains over, and shoot lasers out of his eyes, but when he comes around lois as clark kent he lets her treat him like dog shyt and act like a bumbling fool. despite knowing that women like him when he's superman, he wants to depower himself, act weak and get punked, and just simp around that one girl. smh.
gameover82
Pro
reading about what brett musburger complimenting on that dude girlfriend and he had apologized..like really cant give a woman a compliment anymore 
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In this day and age, you pretty much have to have a hard to get in, but easy to get out policy... sort of like a hotel at night. You can't get in without a keycard, but you just have to push the doors to get out. It should be tougher for a woman to get in a relationship with you than it should be for her to leave.
NEVER hold a woman hostage.
If she wants to go, you have to graciously accept that and keep it pushing. The key behind all of this is to never get too attached and to come with the expectation that the woman can leave at any time. This is something you have to accept and believe and build your life around. This is why you never make a woman priority number 1. Just look at the situation with the rapper Freddie P, who killed himself after suffering heartbreak. It was a truly tragic situation. This is why knowledge like this is important, especially for you younger cats. With the way morals are in this day and age, you're likely to see and experience a lot with 'your girl' that you really don't want to. If you are prepared for it in advance, you can largely limit the extent that it affects you.
Focus on building yourself up, not trying to win some woman
You've heard the saying among those dating advice circles that 'you are the prize.' A lot of cats have no idea what in the world that means. They think it means falsely adapting some cocky attitude. What it really means is that you build yourself up to the extent that women want to win your attention. You are out there so fly that a woman would love to be yours. You have to put yourself in a position to where women want to win you, and that starts by sharpening yourself up in all aspects of your life and simply making sure that your time and affection are valued.
This is in stark contrast to the longly-promoted simp notions of 'winning a woman'. When you attempt to win a woman, it means you are attempting to impress her in order to garner her attention. A woman should want YOUR attention as opposed to you pining for hers. When you attempt to 'win a woman', it means you come into your dealings with her assuming that she is better than you and that you need to compensate by offering her dinner, jewels or whatever else goodies you want to stuff in her pocket. Men who fall in this latter category are NOT respected and get taken advantage more times than not. When dealing with a woman, you have to understand that women prefer to deal with a man that she looks UP to, not one that she is looking down on and that attempts to bring himself 'up to her level' by agreeing with her all the time, defending her nonsense, and giving her money and other physical compensation.
NEVER hold a woman hostage.
If she wants to go, you have to graciously accept that and keep it pushing. The key behind all of this is to never get too attached and to come with the expectation that the woman can leave at any time. This is something you have to accept and believe and build your life around. This is why you never make a woman priority number 1. Just look at the situation with the rapper Freddie P, who killed himself after suffering heartbreak. It was a truly tragic situation. This is why knowledge like this is important, especially for you younger cats. With the way morals are in this day and age, you're likely to see and experience a lot with 'your girl' that you really don't want to. If you are prepared for it in advance, you can largely limit the extent that it affects you.
Focus on building yourself up, not trying to win some woman
You've heard the saying among those dating advice circles that 'you are the prize.' A lot of cats have no idea what in the world that means. They think it means falsely adapting some cocky attitude. What it really means is that you build yourself up to the extent that women want to win your attention. You are out there so fly that a woman would love to be yours. You have to put yourself in a position to where women want to win you, and that starts by sharpening yourself up in all aspects of your life and simply making sure that your time and affection are valued.
This is in stark contrast to the longly-promoted simp notions of 'winning a woman'. When you attempt to win a woman, it means you are attempting to impress her in order to garner her attention. A woman should want YOUR attention as opposed to you pining for hers. When you attempt to 'win a woman', it means you come into your dealings with her assuming that she is better than you and that you need to compensate by offering her dinner, jewels or whatever else goodies you want to stuff in her pocket. Men who fall in this latter category are NOT respected and get taken advantage more times than not. When dealing with a woman, you have to understand that women prefer to deal with a man that she looks UP to, not one that she is looking down on and that attempts to bring himself 'up to her level' by agreeing with her all the time, defending her nonsense, and giving her money and other physical compensation.
The_King_of_Everything
Yeah.
clark kent is one of the worst suckers I ever seen in comics anyways. that guy can fly all by himself, dodge bullets, eat bullets, push trains over, and shoot lasers out of his eyes, but when he comes around lois as clark kent he lets her treat him like dog shyt and act like a bumbling fool. despite knowing that women like him when he's superman, he wants to depower himself, act weak and get punked, and just simp around that one girl. smh.
Funny thing about superman is that he's the opposite of all the superheroes he was born a superhero(alien) while his "mask" is his interpretation of what he thinks an average American male is and would act like .......a simp.
philmonroe
Superstar
Lol all this for a post that is mainly a joke? Stop being emotional fam. I answered your question (fiona part was an exaggeration since I see got break shyt down like we are young kids) put the last part in and added the lol to let your obviously silly ass (in this situation) know I was joking with that part. Would you reply with a regular response, nope went clean the fukk over your head cause you went emotional on me. I guess I gotta start putting you(general) instead of just you where cats assume I'm talking about them directly. Guess that wasn't obvious enough on that insecure line that I would feel that way about anyone myself included not you who the fukk I don't even know.*sigh*I said Id proceed with caution breh...Meaning I'll see if she changes. Thats why I made the point about if she is the same person I met before the fame....
Now why did you go from dude dating miss Alabama to Fiona breh?
My tip for day please don't get emotional over the net we just here chillin thats all.
you know what, it would be silly to go back and forth about this... I see your point breh. clear misunderstanding lets just keep the positive vibes going
Its not even that its that a woman wants to date a man that's better than her. the problem is if he's better than her than he can do better than her.
at the worst a woman will seriously date a man with equal status to her and that guy is in trouble because if his status goes down she's gonna leave him.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Aight brehs I met a woman and we started talking,she gives me the #. I dont call for a few days.I decided to call her cause i was honestly bored 
I called and she didnt pick up. About 15 mins later,she says "Hey C Holla Im sorry I didnt pick up I had company and I left my phone in the other room". At this point im like 
Its almost 11 and usually no woman leaves her phone,women carry phones like babies. So I joking send a text saying "My bad didnt mean to disturb you and your man".She replies on some "nah u ok" keyword she didnt say anything about her having a man, then I proceed to delete her 
women on some other stuff these days 
I called and she didnt pick up. About 15 mins later,she says "Hey C Holla Im sorry I didnt pick up I had company and I left my phone in the other room". At this point im like Its almost 11 and usually no woman leaves her phone,women carry phones like babies. So I joking send a text saying "My bad didnt mean to disturb you and your man".She replies on some "nah u ok" keyword she didnt say anything about her having a man, then I proceed to delete her women on some other stuff these days Rocket Scientist
Superstar
As for status. This is very important to a woman. Your job determines your worth to a woman.This is why they ask what do you do?etc....they stress job. If you are unemployed,watch how long her tone changes from "im gonna support you" to "we need to talk". As for status women want power and you to have more then them. Case in point Jay z and Beyonce. Beyonce wouldnt be with Jay if he was any ol rapper (Joe buddens) etc
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
You thinks that's a reason why most girls don't really date who they work with, especially if its a shyt job?