Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I assume most these brehs are under 27 or haven’t really been in the field like that. Nothing bad about it but the game is bloodsport these days. The chances of her having a “just in case” roster is wayyy higher than vice versa. Dudes need to start being realistic and put themselves first.

of course we all been there. The thing is when a breh who has been there gives advice dudes need to take need, not try to find ways to defend the chick lmfao.

If you gotta defend or think best case scenario regarding a chick, but you are in this thread, you know in your heart the real deal you just dont want to accept it and hope someone will convince things aren't as bad as you think (usually things end up being worse than you think).
 
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Sound like breh was sending money/buying gifts to make up for the distance lol

she was probably smashing anothwr dude the whole time and finally got to a point where another dude thats local will commit to her.

imo long distance should only be for FWB

of course we all been there. The thing is when a breh who has been there gives advice dudes need to take need, not try to find ways to defend the chick lmfao.

If you gotta defend or think best case scenario regarding a chick, but you are in this thread, you know in your heart the real deal you just dont want to accept it and hope someone will convince things aren't as bad as you think (usually things end up being worse than you think).

You didn’t give any advice. You assumed things. Nowhere did I mention sending gifts or anything.
If that’s how you give advice, I suggest you might change your approach the next time. I do understand that at the end of the day I got too relaxed.And I do understand your long distance and FWB point, it makes sense. At the end of the day, I’m not trying to get her back because I know what it is, they can’t be trusted like that. What I was more worrying about is does this shyt even end up changing at any point with women because I’ve been in my fair share of shyt, sounds like it’s better to be single and fck around at this point

edit: At the beginning of the relationship, I was fkkn chicks locally and she never found out shyt about it . It’s just near the end I got too comfortable because of how she treated me and started living an honest life.:francis:
 
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Your boy been on a dry spell like a dehydrated lyricist.

(Went to portland last weekend and vegas the first weekend of April and no bueno for your guy... just a bunch of phone numbers and tease situations).


But love living vivaciously through y'all.


Damn... still in recovery mode from the trauma of you know who.


Fukk man. Hoping this upcoming mexico in June will change my life for the gooder.



Wish a vigga luck.



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Your boy been on a dry spell like a dehydrated lyricist.

(Went to portland last weekend and vegas the first weekend of April and no bueno for your guy... just a bunch of phone numbers and tease situations).


But love living vivaciously through y'all.


Damn... still in recovery mode from the trauma of you know who.


Fukk man. Hoping this upcoming mexico in June will change my life for the gooder.



Wish a vigga luck.



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Keep your head up breh.
 

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I assume most these brehs are under 27 or haven’t really been in the field like that. Nothing bad about it but the game is bloodsport these days. The chances of her having a “just in case” roster is wayyy higher than vice versa. Dudes need to start being realistic and put themselves first.
I don’t even see how people get into serious relationships these days, with all the game playing
 

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(usually things end up being worse than you think).
:wow: while dude has been properly courting her, sending good morning messages and hanging on the phone for hours wit her, she hits up a couple dudes regularly for that late night itch, because a woman has needs :heh:


The question will always be, do want to be the one she calls for dikk or the dude she calls to simp.
 

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Damn it's been a minute so i figure it's time to update my brehs.

My shorty from Chicago is super in love with me. I can do anything and she will always stick by me. She has no kids, drives a BMW like me (we both got 2019s, no broke boy shyt), own place, great corporate job. Her parents are well known in the political scene in Chicago so she got connections. Both parents still happily married. She loves playing the wifey role.

I also got a few hoes that I fukk from time to time whenever I need something new to stroke. I treat them all nonchalantly and they love that shyt. I barely text or call them, and when I do, it's to setup a time for them to fall through and let me rearrange their guts. It's crazy but the more you dont give a fukk about a chick, the harder they're willing to work for your attention.

Right now I am yawning as I type because my 23 year old chick with BIG OL TITTES came over to get smashed last night, and she's coming back tonight. I got a 27 year old nerdy chick who loves getting slutted out so Im hitting that next week. Then wifey and I are spending time this weekend as well.

Fellas I am sure it's been said but when you're on your purpose and not really giving a fukk what any of these broads think or do, that's when you win. If they ain't moving the way you want them too, then leave. I promise you that there are plenty of women out there who would love to get to know you, you just have to weed through the undesirables first
 

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That’s how it is though. When I don’t give a fukk, I get ton of women. And they die for my attention, when I try to treat them right it’s too boring, predictable and they barely respond.

As I get older, I chuck a lot of it up to women being attracted to the emotional unavailable aspect of the relationship, courtship, or situationship.

The same way we like the chase, they get off on trying nurture an emotionally unavailable dude to sanity.
 
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Damn it's been a minute so i figure it's time to update my brehs.

My shorty from Chicago is super in love with me. I can do anything and she will always stick by me. She has no kids, drives a BMW like me (we both got 2019s, no broke boy shyt), own place, great corporate job. Her parents are well known in the political scene in Chicago so she got connections. Both parents still happily married. She loves playing the wifey role.

I also got a few hoes that I fukk from time to time whenever I need something new to stroke. I treat them all nonchalantly and they love that shyt. I barely text or call them, and when I do, it's to setup a time for them to fall through and let me rearrange their guts. It's crazy but the more you dont give a fukk about a chick, the harder they're willing to work for your attention.

Right now I am yawning as I type because my 23 year old chick with BIG OL TITTES came over to get smashed last night, and she's coming back tonight. I got a 27 year old nerdy chick who loves getting slutted out so Im hitting that next week. Then wifey and I are spending time this weekend as well.

Fellas I am sure it's been said but when you're on your purpose and not really giving a fukk what any of these broads think or do, that's when you win. If they ain't moving the way you want them too, then leave. I promise you that there are plenty of women out there who would love to get to know you, you just have to weed through the undesirables first

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of course we all been there. The thing is when a breh who has been there gives advice dudes need to take need, not try to find ways to defend the chick lmfao.

If you gotta defend or think best case scenario regarding a chick, but you are in this thread, you know in your heart the real deal you just dont want to accept it and hope someone will convince things aren't as bad as you think (usually things end up being worse than you think).

That's why I've said before that whenever you have to start doing mental gymnastics, then you just gotta take the L(esson) and KIM. If you don't, life has a way of hitting you over the head until you face reality which some dudes still refuse to take heed to despite the obvious.
 
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