Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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i can already see this is an ego thing for you. you're better than the simps and beyond that you're putting all simps in the same boat.

Basically. If someone else's behavior is working in my favor, why would I get mad about it or try to change them?

a nikka with more paper than you can step to your chick and trick on her and fukk your bytch like its nothing. its some shyt you never see or know about because you ain't around her 24/7 and any time she's not with you you don't know what the hell she's doing.

lmao paper? I don't date gold diggers so no. I'm not saying a female couldn't possibly cheat on me, but it wouldn't have anything to do with someone having more money money than me.

these chicks are juggling all these men on their cell phones, facebook, and twitter. deception has reached new heights and its easy for a chick to fukk around on you and not get caught. unless you have access to all those things whenever you want to see them you can't really say or know if you've been cheated on or not. the men these women fukk with they exist in the facebook, in the twitter, on the cell but outside of that there's no trace in her day to day life.

Thinking about it too much is fukking with your head. She's not your property. Its not on you to keep tabs on her 247, and it goes both ways. Have you ever had a chick who is checking up on you 247, going through your phone and email and acting jealous? It sucks and it will make you lose respect for her.

Being possessive and paranoid serves no purpose in a healthy relationship and will actually push the other person away. Its a self-defeating behavior because no one wants to be with someone like that.

you think a woman cheating on you always boils down to respect? sometimes it does but many times she cheats because of her and it has nothing to do with you. you could be the perfect man and do everything right and still get cheated on. the fact that the next man will simp and trick on your chick means she can have you as her main dude and a simp or a trick or several of them on the side to fill other roles and none of yall have to know about each other.

There will always be cheaters. We can't stop this. We CAN however take steps to prevent this from happening. First by only dating females with decent character who have pursued a career and are doing something with their life. Second by not letting yourself be overly possessive and paranoid. This type of behavior will actually drive her away. Thirdly, pay attention to your relationship. Some people are great at starting relationships, but don't know how to keep them going. Take care of her needs, and when I say needs I don't mean being a provider. I mean knowing your chick and the things that specifically make her happy.

Taking these steps will reduce the chance of her cheating by a huge margin. For me so far, its reduced it completely. Its like wearing a condom. Not guaranteed to prevent it completely, but pretty damn safe.
 

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Of course females do not respect simps. But, my question for you is that is there any justification for woman to cheat on a man who is not a simp but has treated her well? Because I personally know guys who were not simps but treated the women with whom they had serious relationships with decency and found out later that these women were cheating behind their backs and basically threw away their relationships for some truly no-good dudes who did not a fukk about them at all.

No, there's no justification. Some women are just scandalous in nature and I don't respect these women. Why do guys keep getting with these women though? The problem is a lot of dudes are blinded by lust/love and go into a relationship without taking the steps of figuring out a female's personality and whether she's relationship quality.

And sometimes too the guy thinks he's treating her well but really isn't. Most of the time its not about being a provider or giving her gifts. You can't just throw money at a problem to make it go away. There's emotional fulfillment as well. Females are emotional creatures so it makes sense that keeping her would involve appealing to these emotions.
 

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No, there's no justification. Some women are just scandalous in nature and I don't respect these women. Why do guys keep getting with these women though? The problem is a lot of dudes are blinded by lust/love and go into a relationship without taking the steps of figuring out a female's personality and whether she's relationship quality.

And sometimes too the guy thinks he's treating her well but really isn't. Most of the time its not about being a provider or giving her gifts. You can't just throw money at a problem to make it go away. There's emotional fulfillment as well. Females are emotional creatures so it makes sense that keeping her would involve appealing to these emotions.

I cosign the part about determining a woman's character before getting into a relationship with her. By treating a woman well or with decency, I meant treating her like a human being,not being disrespectful or treating her like garbage just for the sake of doing so. None of this involves giving her money.
 

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To add to my last post: It is mindblowing how females will be quick to get rid of dudes who treat them with any kind of decency and respect and DO NOT engage in simping for ones who treat them with zero respect/decency. Yet women will still swear up and down that they want guys who will treat them well whenever a guy calls out the stark difference between what they say and what they do. It is what it is but it is still mindblowing and funny nonetheless.
 

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This may sound very "Mean Girls" but I have started to keep a list of the names of girls who ar unwifeable for various reasons mainly related to hoeing they have done. Because we all know 9 times out of 10, these broads will just get with a guy without any care in the world and not tell them they were hoeing around like crazy. I have repeated this many times already.

As Kev said its only a corny/lame thing if you are doing it for "revenge" or to "get someone back". I would just do it to save our fellow men out here. You never know, its a small world, everyone is connected in some way especially after the rise of facebook and that one girl who i have listed could very well be someone that one of your boy knows.

Whenever I hear about something i would make sure to get the word out there in some way to the guy or either the guy's friends. I dont really think it is possible to be a wifeable reformed hoe.
 

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If you one of them negroes that listen to women on what to do with women, or one of them dudes that mold yourself into what women say they want, which is different every other day, you're going to end up looking like you took a bath in sucker marinade.


I want a man that takes me out to expensive dinners
Sucker: oh yeah ma? What restaurant do you like best? Where would you like for me to take you tonight?
Real dude: Oh word? I like a woman that takes ME out to expensive dinners.

When it comes down to it, stop shifting yourself around to what women like. Stop trying to figure out what women find hot and all that corny nonsense. You got to like YOURSELF. You got all these trend following negroes that end up dazed and confused and always worried because they stay trying to figure out 'what women think is hot'. If women said they liked men dressed in potato suits, you'd have a lot of negroes out here looking like Mr. Potato Head.

The onion article hit the truth, even those it's satire. These women will tell you I like a man that does this, that does that, and you change yourself into that and all of a sudden she ain't liking you anymore. If you turn yourself into the man ladies say they love, you will end up being a victim.
 

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If you one of them negroes that listen to women on what to do with women, or one of them dudes that mold yourself into what women say they want, which is different every other day, you're going to end up looking like you took a bath in sucker marinade.


I want a man that takes me out to expensive dinners
Sucker: oh yeah ma? What restaurant do you like best? Where would you like for me to take you tonight?
Real dude: Oh word? I like a woman that takes ME out to expensive dinners.

When it comes down to it, stop shifting yourself around to what women like. Stop trying to figure out what women find hot and all that corny nonsense. You got to like YOURSELF. You got all these trend following negroes that end up dazed and confused and always worried because they stay trying to figure out 'what women think is hot'. If women said they liked men dressed in potato suits, you'd have a lot of negroes out here looking like Mr. Potato Head.

The onion article hit the truth, even those it's satire. These women will tell you I like a man that does this, that does that, and you change yourself into that and all of a sudden she ain't liking you anymore. If you turn yourself into the man ladies say they love, you will end up being a victim.

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I cosign the part about determining a woman's character before getting into a relationship with her. By treating a woman well or with decency, I meant treating her like a human being,not being disrespectful or treating her like garbage just for the sake of doing so. None of this involves giving her money.

Yeah I'm just pointing out that a successful relationship takes more than just being respectful. You also have to be engaging and keep things from getting boring. I think that's what happens in some of these situations.
 

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There is a torrent file I have saved on my computer of a documentary of women around the world. I wanted to show various parts so you guys can see but I don't know how to link torrent files on here?

Does anyone know how to do it?

Lets just say even in the poorest of poor countries, you still have young females getting disrespectful and grabbing guys and disrespecting them. I really want you guys to see these parts
 
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