brehs do everything but become the best versions of themselves
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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brehs do everything but become the best versions of themselves
Brandsdale
Big Yella
only do this if you legit look like Odell or Idris
women have too much pride and ego now in this social media landscape. The IG model probably got just as much ego and delusion as the girl that works at a gas station with a septum piercing
DaRealness
I think very deeply
I get the impress factor...but what nikkaz like him don’t get is that, you go that hard to impress from day 1...shorty is gonna expect you to maintain that treatment throughout the relationship. Which means on day 30, even though you tryna do some other stuff with your money, she still gonna expect that same treatment she got on day 1.
Then dudes wanna get frustrated and complain
She’d respect and appreciate you more if you were on your grind from day 1 and spent on her on day 30 when she is more vetted and screened. By doing that, you subconsciously establish a time-reward based system with the woman you’re with whereby over time, she recognizes that good behaviour can lead to rewards.
My other issue is this type of dis-functionality and toxicity can easily be misunderstood as being normal in a relationship by the show’s viewers.
That’s where we’re at in 2021.
That's the problem, you immediate lower your own value when you come straight out the gate bestowing gifts, money and validation to a chick you know nothing about. This is why a lot of them are overly gassed up. Too many men don't stop to think about how is she worth YOUR time and resources for you to be doing all that. A pretty face and a nice body doesn't mean shyt. When you start a job they don't just give you a promotion within the first few days when you haven't done shyt yet.
Not that I'd ever fukk with that chick in a million years myself (I'd rather stick my dikk in a blender), but my guy in the video needs to respect himself way more and stop rewarding bad behaviour and being afraid to walk out on a girl he already knows is no good.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
How are u cats getting dimes on dating apps?Not saying I'm ugly short gang 
I'm saying what's the key words or photos that just hook women? Apps I tried I got a fat single mother as match and just scrap the whole thing. I'm talking dimes and attractive women on apps what's the secret
I'm saying what's the key words or photos that just hook women? Apps I tried I got a fat single mother as match and just scrap the whole thing. I'm talking dimes and attractive women on apps what's the secret
Black Haven
We will find another road to glory!!!
Naw I don’t think I’m “ugly gang” because I’ve actually had women approach me and give me compliments. This week one of the chicks I approached was a cute 21 year old who I exchanged numbers with because she liked my vibe,come to find out she tells me she is engaged and her fiancé is currently in army training, so she was looking for me to be her sex partner since he was away while telling me she feels guilty about it smh.
I declined because I’m not with that grimy lifestyle but, yeah I don’t think I’m ugly like that at all it’s just that I don’t like letting people feel uncomfortable when I meet them. Of course I know the give away number strategy might not work but at least it gives them a little more trust into me.
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
Having female friends is important. You get an insight into their relationship and dating problems. You learn so much shyt this way.
you learn a lot of these ladies are no different from us dudes. I know onlyfans and simps exist but a lot of these women are getting played too. And then a lot of the time these girls just have no idea how to progress into a relationship or getting a hook up with someone that they want.
for example, there are girls that be out here liking u but never actually revealing it because they don’t know how to is true af. You could be thinking “damn she’s giving me no interest or really knowing how to socialize with me I must be trash”. Meanwhile girls be like “I looked in his direction I was trying to flirt with him but it went over his head” lol
and also you stop putting them on a pedestal on some they’re all innocent and all men are evil fukks logic that makes u feel bad about yourself.
you learn a lot of these ladies are no different from us dudes. I know onlyfans and simps exist but a lot of these women are getting played too. And then a lot of the time these girls just have no idea how to progress into a relationship or getting a hook up with someone that they want.
for example, there are girls that be out here liking u but never actually revealing it because they don’t know how to is true af. You could be thinking “damn she’s giving me no interest or really knowing how to socialize with me I must be trash”. Meanwhile girls be like “I looked in his direction I was trying to flirt with him but it went over his head” lol
and also you stop putting them on a pedestal on some they’re all innocent and all men are evil fukks logic that makes u feel bad about yourself.
the stories I be hearing from some of my friends. They be doing nikkas bogus out here my guys 
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
One thing about being a Nigerian is that you’ll be getting constant questions from family friends about when you’re getting married 
it’s like they ask me about anything else. shyt be mad annoying 
any dudes come across family members/family friends that will always hound you with questions about marriage? What do you usually say to them to keep them off your back?
it’s like they ask me about anything else. shyt be mad annoying any dudes come across family members/family friends that will always hound you with questions about marriage? What do you usually say to them to keep them off your back?
Brandsdale
Big Yella
One thing about being a Nigerian is that you’ll be getting constant questions from family friends about when you’re getting married
any dudes come across family members/family friends that will always hound you with questions about marriage? What do you usually say to them to keep them off your back?
tell em that it’s not their life and to suck your dikk from the back
One thing about being a Nigerian is that you’ll be getting constant questions from family friends about when you’re getting married
any dudes come across family members/family friends that will always hound you with questions about marriage? What do you usually say to them to keep them off your back?
Do you currently have a girl?
When I get these stupid questions at a family function, I just tell them do you see my partner beside me today?
Fukk you asking stupid questions like when I'm having a kid when I'm here Dolo.
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
Nah i don’t have a girl. Just started back in the dating sceneDo you currently have a girl?
When I get these stupid questions at a family function, I just tell them do you see my partner beside me today?
See this is what I mean. How you asking me about marriage when I haven't even brought any potentials around 
I have a no double text rule, but something you have toHaving female friends is important. You get an insight into their relationship and dating problems. You learn so much shyt this way.
you learn a lot of these ladies are no different from us dudes. I know onlyfans and simps exist but a lot of these women are getting played too. And then a lot of the time these girls just have no idea how to progress into a relationship or getting a hook up with someone that they want.
for example, there are girls that be out here liking u but never actually revealing it because they don’t know how to is true af. You could be thinking “damn she’s giving me no interest or really knowing how to socialize with me I must be trash”. Meanwhile girls be like “I looked in his direction I was trying to flirt with him but it went over his head” lol
and also you stop putting them on a pedestal on some they’re all innocent and all men are evil fukks logic that makes u feel bad about yourself.
the stories I be hearing from some of my friends. They be doing nikkas bogus out here my guys
One joint I was talking to who I got set up by my mans with just randomly stop messaging me one day.
Turn out she told my mans (he was dating he sister) she missed talking to me lol.
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
Like J. Cole said Pride Is the Devil!
if you truly like a chick you gotta be consistent and be willing to take the L. A Lot of the time these chicks actually be liking us. Gotta go all in or nothing
One thing about being a Nigerian is that you’ll be getting constant questions from family friends about when you’re getting married
any dudes come across family members/family friends that will always hound you with questions about marriage? What do you usually say to them to keep them off your back?
a segement of nigerians care more about the big weddings and rocking the geles and agbadas than marriage.
