Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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The last time i fronted this money on a girl, we eventually became relationship status.
One thing i want to mention about philandering is that you are ultimately free to do as you want. Now, not saying that as men, we should always be attached to the hip or "ball n chained"... having a girlfriend does have its pluses/negatives.
Depending on the woman, how you choose them will determine the quality of your engagement.
Most cats jump into a relationship for the wrong reasons (opportunity, looks, status, etc.).
But think to yourself, did you ever get into one because you genuinely liked her and saw her in your future instead of the aesthetic, impulsive and trivial "wants" of being with a broad?
I know a lot of us are really too young to understand what "true love" really is...
Well, you really don't know unless you put yourself out there right? Trial and error is the best way to narrow down what you're ultimately looking for.
For me, i've never really been in a healthy one with a solid duration (most of my stints were just that, stints and never manifested into to anything legimately fruitful).
Real talk, my ass was like a flower finally sprouting in its petals in August...
...cuz i was a late bloomer.
My question for y'all - how many of you are in meaningful relationships right now? How did you guys meet and what's your standing now? (Just starting, engaged, married, kids? Got a house together? Etc.)
I'm 30 breighs... at the point where i wanna settle down on some Jagged Edge shiit.
"Meet me at our world tour in your white dress...
Let's get MARRIED!"
.
If anything i've learned from my conquest
One thing i want to mention about philandering is that you are ultimately free to do as you want. Now, not saying that as men, we should always be attached to the hip or "ball n chained"... having a girlfriend does have its pluses/negatives.
Depending on the woman, how you choose them will determine the quality of your engagement.
Most cats jump into a relationship for the wrong reasons (opportunity, looks, status, etc.).
But think to yourself, did you ever get into one because you genuinely liked her and saw her in your future instead of the aesthetic, impulsive and trivial "wants" of being with a broad?
I know a lot of us are really too young to understand what "true love" really is...
Well, you really don't know unless you put yourself out there right? Trial and error is the best way to narrow down what you're ultimately looking for.
For me, i've never really been in a healthy one with a solid duration (most of my stints were just that, stints and never manifested into to anything legimately fruitful).
Real talk, my ass was like a flower finally sprouting in its petals in August...
...cuz i was a late bloomer.
My question for y'all - how many of you are in meaningful relationships right now? How did you guys meet and what's your standing now? (Just starting, engaged, married, kids? Got a house together? Etc.)
I'm 30 breighs... at the point where i wanna settle down on some Jagged Edge shiit.
"Meet me at our world tour in your white dress...
Let's get MARRIED!"
.
If anything i've learned from my conquest
I'm single and I've been single for nearly 3 years now, and it's been peace an harmony . Whenever I get near to possibly dating a girl again something she does flashes red flag in my mind. I can read women to a tee nowadays, I know their ways, their lies, their manipulation.
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DaRealness
I think very deeply
Alot of women in today's society are capable of cheating, but as a person who not only can read women very well but people in general(but woman especailly cuz they wear their heart on their sleeves).....am i right in saying that there is "something" about a girl's eyes that give the "hoe vibe" right away.
Some mischeveous gleam....i dont kno how to explain it but u may know wat i mean
SOFIA VERGARA SON BEGS: MOM, DON
This is exactly what kev, Reincar, Sharp,etc have all spoken about brehs. Its almost way too predictable now these females. Now we have no way of knowing if how the son feels is true or not but i guess if he did put a video message with that subliminal then he really does feel that way.
The thing I am talking about is the whole ex mob thing, I have heard that story before and there is even a picture of them online......and even though she is not with him anymore she is still going to parties hosted by him.
While her ex husband i never hear anything about that guy. And yet she is engaged to be married to a guy having cocaine fueled orgies with strippers and prostitutes, but so captivated by him because he is a "alpha" in her eyes and I guarantee if asked privately she would admit he is more "exciting" than her husband.
I read this story over and over and its seriously funny because these females are becoming like a soap opera with how predictable they are. Its like they do not even realize how obvious they are being now.
A 40 year old woman going to a party hosted by an ex mob boyfriend, while getting roughed up by her current fiance aka reformed cocaine stripper prostitute orgy, having fun in the sun the following day, while never praising her ex husband who gave her the only child she has in any interview.
This is exactly what kev, Reincar, Sharp,etc have all spoken about brehs. Its almost way too predictable now these females. Now we have no way of knowing if how the son feels is true or not but i guess if he did put a video message with that subliminal then he really does feel that way.
The thing I am talking about is the whole ex mob thing, I have heard that story before and there is even a picture of them online......and even though she is not with him anymore she is still going to parties hosted by him.
While her ex husband i never hear anything about that guy. And yet she is engaged to be married to a guy having cocaine fueled orgies with strippers and prostitutes, but so captivated by him because he is a "alpha" in her eyes and I guarantee if asked privately she would admit he is more "exciting" than her husband.
I read this story over and over and its seriously funny because these females are becoming like a soap opera with how predictable they are. Its like they do not even realize how obvious they are being now.
A 40 year old woman going to a party hosted by an ex mob boyfriend, while getting roughed up by her current fiance aka reformed cocaine stripper prostitute orgy, having fun in the sun the following day, while never praising her ex husband who gave her the only child she has in any interview.
to that music executive though and his respose though. Good job he didn't play the simp role of "okay baby ill take it down i hope you and ur husband are doing okay".Nice to see that the TWO guys in the middle of this situation despite how annoying the first one is, are holding their ground and not having remorse with her.
I see like alot of natural whores, Coco is already starting the whole victim role nonsense with the "Its not a good look..Thank you" trick.
lol man negrose was seriously believing that Ice was 'sending his wife' to get that guap. Let's be 5 hundred. What kind of sense does that make? You're making millions of dollars legally, but you're going to send your WIFE to get some chump change from hood rappers? Yeah, ok. Pimps don't send their wives. They send HOES. Pimps might get married when they get out of the game, but you don't get married when you're in the game... and to send your wife sounds like a desperation move... and if he did send his wife, it wouldn't be to no local rapper from the bay. It would have to be one of those huge hollywood execs or someone who could upgrade his career.
The bottom line is, anyone looking at coco and what she does could tell how she got down... but cats loved Ice-T so much they didn't want his legend diminished. They fell into the hype of believing the whole "Ice T was a pimp" thing. If he was a pimp, he would have understood hoes come and go all the time... so that should have been no huge surprise to him.
There is zero incentive for a woman that is a booty model/porn star or whatever to magically have morals when she gets into marriage. To them, marriage is just a fun activity, aka princess day. Once they get married, their ho nature is still there, but they know they have security locked in via the government and divorce court, so it will only come out more intense than before since she didn't get her income payments locked in.
What cats really have to understand is that hoes are some of the best seductresses and conversationalists on the planet. They know how to work a man's ego and his perception. Why do you think men keep dealing with all of these hoes despite knowing their reputation? Because these hoes know how to tell a story for a sucker negro to believe. "I'm not like that." "You might have heard things about me, but don't believe them. I have a lot of enemies." Fellas got to understand that hoes aren't always running around talking about, "Boy let me gobble that sausage up." That's why you got to do your research and see what's the word on mami before you let her into your life.
The bottom line is, anyone looking at coco and what she does could tell how she got down... but cats loved Ice-T so much they didn't want his legend diminished. They fell into the hype of believing the whole "Ice T was a pimp" thing. If he was a pimp, he would have understood hoes come and go all the time... so that should have been no huge surprise to him.
There is zero incentive for a woman that is a booty model/porn star or whatever to magically have morals when she gets into marriage. To them, marriage is just a fun activity, aka princess day. Once they get married, their ho nature is still there, but they know they have security locked in via the government and divorce court, so it will only come out more intense than before since she didn't get her income payments locked in.
What cats really have to understand is that hoes are some of the best seductresses and conversationalists on the planet. They know how to work a man's ego and his perception. Why do you think men keep dealing with all of these hoes despite knowing their reputation? Because these hoes know how to tell a story for a sucker negro to believe. "I'm not like that." "You might have heard things about me, but don't believe them. I have a lot of enemies." Fellas got to understand that hoes aren't always running around talking about, "Boy let me gobble that sausage up." That's why you got to do your research and see what's the word on mami before you let her into your life.
Man cats really need to start having standards out here and standing by it. If you're in a relationship and your woman is still going to the club, you better turn that Teddy Pendergrass on and listen to them words, "I think I better let it go... It looks like another loveeeee TKO."
Cats really got to stop making exceptions for these women. There IS NOTHING in a club for a woman in a relationship but trouble. If you dealing with a woman and she keeps making excuses and stories up to do the wrong thing, let her butt go. You need a woman who is constantly rationalizing about doing the right thing and acting on that instead of engaging in out of pocket behavior and trying to justify it to the inner sucker in a man.
Cats really got to stop making exceptions for these women. There IS NOTHING in a club for a woman in a relationship but trouble. If you dealing with a woman and she keeps making excuses and stories up to do the wrong thing, let her butt go. You need a woman who is constantly rationalizing about doing the right thing and acting on that instead of engaging in out of pocket behavior and trying to justify it to the inner sucker in a man.
PREACH
i was 22 and my bird was the same age, i never went on myspace like that but the day i decide to go on theres a pic of her on her friends page like this
i was like oh word
i was pissed/sad but i had finals so i put that on ice til the semester was over so i could get a couple more bangs in then i dropped her like a morning turd.
girls aint goin to clubs to "have a good time" they're slutting it up to draw attention to themselves. my boys ex would tell him "i dont dance with guys i dance either by myself or with my girlfriends"
PREACH
i was 22 and my bird was the same age, i never went on myspace like that but the day i decide to go on theres a pic of her on her friends page like this
i was like oh word
i was pissed/sad but i had finals so i put that on ice til the semester was over so i could get a couple more bangs in then i dropped her like a morning turd.
girls aint goin to clubs to "have a good time" they're slutting it up to draw attention to themselves. my boys ex would tell him "i dont dance with guys i dance either by myself or with my girlfriends"
Exactly. Cats that don't know better and end up believing ho stories and end up with a sob story.
if these women were really about 'hanging with the girls and dancing,' they'd be at one of the homegirls' houses and playing some music. Ain't no way they'd be wearing skimpy dresses, drinking liquor, just 'dancing with the homegirls.' They are going out for attention. If they don't see a guy that they are digging that will approach them, they will have 'just danced with the girls', but if they do, they will take that dude's number or get it popping somewhere in the club and after, and she'll have another ho story to tell when she gets exposed... "I'm SO sorry, I was drunk and didn't know what I was doing."
And on another point, it validates what a lot of cats here are saying. If you want to know about what your girl is doing, look at her social media, especially the ones she doesn't think you know about. You will often times get a whole new picture of what she was really doing compared to what she told you.
Although Coco's actions are completely disrespectful, I solely blame Ice for the overall situation being what it is because 1) he obviously fukked up by wifing up a female who uses her titties and ass to make money and 2) even after the photos of Coco hugged up with AP.9 surfaced on the internet, he did not kick her trifling ass to the curb. And the worse part about it is that Ice and Coco renewed their wedding vows recently, which has made Ice look like a total simp and it is sad. His credibility within the pimp community is completely shot due to his inaction in terms of handling this situation. It is safe to say that the many pimps who would often give Ice props for really spitting and being about that izm have zero respect for him for now and think this shyt is hilariously pathetic.
CrossBones
Louder than words
SOFIA VERGARA SON BEGS: MOM, DON
This is exactly what kev, Reincar, Sharp,etc have all spoken about brehs. Its almost way too predictable now these females. Now we have no way of knowing if how the son feels is true or not but i guess if he did put a video message with that subliminal then he really does feel that way.
The thing I am talking about is the whole ex mob thing, I have heard that story before and there is even a picture of them online......and even though she is not with him anymore she is still going to parties hosted by him.
While her ex husband i never hear anything about that guy. And yet she is engaged to be married to a guy having cocaine fueled orgies with strippers and prostitutes, but so captivated by him because he is a "alpha" in her eyes and I guarantee if asked privately she would admit he is more "exciting" than her husband.
I read this story over and over and its seriously funny because these females are becoming like a soap opera with how predictable they are. Its like they do not even realize how obvious they are being now.
A 40 year old woman going to a party hosted by an ex mob boyfriend, while getting roughed up by her current fiance aka reformed cocaine stripper prostitute orgy, having fun in the sun the following day, while never praising her ex husband who gave her the only child she has in any interview.
it almost gets to a point where its comedy, and you understand how women like to live off of a man and his energy, his life. shes obviously a woman who feeds off of the scandalousness that her man brings in. somehow a beautiful woman who can have her pick of the liter and easily find a better, more healthy relationship, chooses to be with someone who is toxic.
lesson about a majority of women you will meet : they want the forbidden fruit. they want to try to have their cake and to eat it too.
that chase for someone who is poison is a rush and a drive for them. if you make it too easy, they wont want it anymore. a man who could provide and be there for her is just boring and predictable. God offered them paradise and they forfeit it for a taste what they were told not to. with the kind of women who wants a challenge, they want something that will match their inner disorder. she will be, as you learn more about such a woman, all about the drama, and the fight. a womans past and the games shes playing today are very good indicator as to where shes going in life. many times, it almost writes itself.