Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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My feelings on going out to eat with a chick.

I like to go to nice places, but I'm not taking a chick out just because. I have to want to go and check a place out.

I'm not taking a chick out for dinner on a first or even second date, And when I do we're going to split the bill or quickly come to the understanding that if I pay for something you'll get the next thing. Like I went for brunch with asian tennis chick this weekend. I paid for brunch, as she drove us up there and its at least an hours drive. We hung for the day back at her place and a local park, then in the evening we went out for dinner, at the end she asked for the cheque and paid.

I like that succinct understanding.
 
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VertigoKnight said:
My feelings on going out to eat with a chick.

I like to go to nice places, but I'm not taking a chick out just because. I have to want to go and check a place out.

I'm not taking a chick out for dinner on a first or even second date, And when I do we're going to split the bill or quickly come to the understanding that if I pay for something you'll get the next thing. Like I went for brunch with asian tennis chick this weekend. I paid for brunch, as she drove us up there and its at least an hours drive. We hung for the day back at her place and a local park, then in the evening we went out for dinner, at the end she asked for the cheque and paid.

I like that succinct understanding.
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Wouldn't do it the first couple of dates either way. Lunch, brunch sure...............dinner not until it's looking like a thing. And that's if your are actually interested in dating the person.
 
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VertigoKnight said:
My feelings on going out to eat with a chick.

I like to go to nice places, but I'm not taking a chick out just because. I have to want to go and check a place out.

I'm not taking a chick out for dinner on a first or even second date, And when I do we're going to split the bill or quickly come to the understanding that if I pay for something you'll get the next thing. Like I went for brunch with asian tennis chick this weekend. I paid for brunch, as she drove us up there and its at least an hours drive. We hung for the day back at her place and a local park, then in the evening we went out for dinner, at the end she asked for the cheque and paid.

I like that succinct understanding.
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first dates should be to check energy and make sure person isnr a weirdo. Parks/drinks best way to do it because distractions are minimal. Dinner is a intimate thing
 
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Lumumba said:
How does it feel to be a cuck?

:russ::russ::russ::russ::russ:


We got all this data that the game done changed and brehs still moving like its 2002.

Dead ol girl and go back tonthe drawing board. The simple fact she even had that convo with you is a slap in the face to your ancestors breh
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yea its one thing if thats what she made her criteria based on, i mean its fair
but to tell a nikka that? disrespectful
 
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I hit Nakatos last night with my sister and her homegirl,
My sister doesn't like me messing with her homies...it's messy and she dont like how i do girls
Me and the homegirl had messed around before...
And true to form...i did her dirty


So im not expecting her to be to happy to see me...but i wouldn't be surprised if she was

As We eating, my sis runnin her mouth about whatever
and Shawty hit me via text.......never deleted my number did ya hoe?:steviej:

Her: You lookin good
Me: Always, but have you seen yourself lately?:whoo:
Because i haven't..where tf you been?:birdman:

Her: I aint go nowhere, same house, same job...you got ghost:usure:

Me: You still think about that one time in your office:mjgrin:

Her: lol we had some fun.......trouble
Me: Who? You? Yup i agree 100%, You trouble
Her: i meant you lol, but ill take the blame...it was mutual
Me: So we should be gettin into more trouble then?
Her: I gotta think about that one
Me: So think about it.:sas1:
You should get nothing but good thoughts and tingly feelings from the process.....you remember
Her: LOL you're a mess
Me: Lol we both know im a mess....don't you miss it?

Gambled that entire exchange on her memory of our last fukk and not our falling out....and it worked:myman:



Whole time Im thinking my sis is oblivious, she walks up so smooth to me after we leaving and says

"You know she got a whole boyfriend right?"
"Dont mess up what that girl got goin on, she aint got time for you and your fukkboy shyt":leostare:


Me: that boyfriend shyt wack.:rudy: i mean, she aint mention that nikka not once
As long as he aint some killa out here shooting nikkas i aint worried:hubie:.......... But he Dont be shooting nikkas right?:lupe:


She's one of the most kinky women ive ever met, and that's something i need in my life right now...."vanilla sex" is getting boring....
 
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Tryna Makit said:
I hit Nakatos last night with my sister and her homegirl,
My sister doesn't like me messing with her homies...it's messy and she dont like how i do girls
Me and the homegirl had messed around before...
And true to form...i did her dirty


So im not expecting her to be to happy to see me...but i wouldn't be surprised if she was

As We eating, my sis runnin her mouth about whatever
and Shawty hit me via text.......never deleted my number did ya hoe?:steviej:

Her: You lookin good
Me: Always, but have you seen yourself lately?:whoo:
Because i haven't..where tf you been?:birdman:

Her: I aint go nowhere, same house, same job...you got ghost:usure:

Me: You still think about that one time in your office:mjgrin:

Her: lol we had some fun.......trouble
Me: Who? You? Yup i agree 100%, You trouble
Her: i meant you lol, but ill take the blame...it was mutual
Me: So we should be gettin into more trouble then?
Her: I gotta think about that one
Me: So think about it.:sas1:
You should get nothing but good thoughts and tingly feelings from the process.....you remember
Her: LOL you're a mess
Me: Lol we both know im a mess....don't you miss it?

Gambled that entire exchange on her memory of our last fukk and not our falling out....and it worked:myman:



Whole time Im thinking my sis is oblivious, she walks up so smooth to me after we leaving and says

"You know she got a whole boyfriend right?"
"Dont mess up what that girl got goin on, she aint got time for you and your fukkboy shyt":leostare:


Me: that boyfriend shyt wack.:rudy: i mean, she aint mention that nikka not once
As long as he aint some killa out here shooting nikkas i aint worried:hubie:.......... But he Dont be shooting nikkas right?:lupe:


She's one of the most kinky women ive ever met, and that's something i need in my life right now...."vanilla sex" is getting boring....
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i wouldnt mess with a chick that i have confirmation of her having a man, if you are about life, I’d just be weary as dude could be a “power simp”.
 
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Tryna Makit said:
I hit Nakatos last night with my sister and her homegirl,
My sister doesn't like me messing with her homies...it's messy and she dont like how i do girls
Me and the homegirl had messed around before...
And true to form...i did her dirty


So im not expecting her to be to happy to see me...but i wouldn't be surprised if she was

As We eating, my sis runnin her mouth about whatever
and Shawty hit me via text.......never deleted my number did ya hoe?:steviej:

Her: You lookin good
Me: Always, but have you seen yourself lately?:whoo:
Because i haven't..where tf you been?:birdman:

Her: I aint go nowhere, same house, same job...you got ghost:usure:

Me: You still think about that one time in your office:mjgrin:

Her: lol we had some fun.......trouble
Me: Who? You? Yup i agree 100%, You trouble
Her: i meant you lol, but ill take the blame...it was mutual
Me: So we should be gettin into more trouble then?
Her: I gotta think about that one
Me: So think about it.:sas1:
You should get nothing but good thoughts and tingly feelings from the process.....you remember
Her: LOL you're a mess
Me: Lol we both know im a mess....don't you miss it?

Gambled that entire exchange on her memory of our last fukk and not our falling out....and it worked:myman:



Whole time Im thinking my sis is oblivious, she walks up so smooth to me after we leaving and says

"You know she got a whole boyfriend right?"
"Dont mess up what that girl got goin on, she aint got time for you and your fukkboy shyt":leostare:


Me: that boyfriend shyt wack.:rudy: i mean, she aint mention that nikka not once
As long as he aint some killa out here shooting nikkas i aint worried:hubie:.......... But he Dont be shooting nikkas right?:lupe:


She's one of the most kinky women ive ever met, and that's something i need in my life right now...."vanilla sex" is getting boring....
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Stay strapped........................
 
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TradePascalSiakam said:
Yeah I never do dinner first dates

Back in the day I’d do the dinner get a hug and then the you’re a great guy but and be out money

these chicks will eat out with you on a Friday, Saturday with a next dude etc etc.
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Coffee/dollar pizza, and that's if I'm feeling generous. First dates aren't "a bytch can eat now" scenarios. I always advise that guys eat before they go on a date. And only have a $20 allowance for your needs, not hers. I also make sure she meets me, I don't spend car fair, gas and or a Metro on a bird.
 
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