Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Killigraphy]

Choppin it up with some cats after the gym and somebody asked do you use a spiel when you meet women out or a new approach each time.

I stay using a new approach but everybody else says they use their same formula "It's like being a salesman, it's a pitch"


Is this some psycho shyt or am I late

Can't get good at striking if you haven't practice a punch a thousand times. The same applies for game, it also helps you deal with her trying to break your frame or looking for holes in your ideology. Unfortunately for all the ho's out there, I play chess, so I'm always levels ahead of any bird. Though I do love how defeated they look when I tell them "Name three Chess pieces". So yes, a developed game plan is better than winging it, that doesn't mean you should ever delete the "no plan" game plan, for every scenario there should be a plan A,B, and C...and then there's the no fukks given portion in between all of those.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

I'm stuck on this myself, some heavy pawgs at gyms I go to and they all be looking but I don't wanna seem thirsty.

If you anywhere but LA I’d say go for it. We went back to masks so naturally the baddies disappeared from the gyms and my fav spot to find em @the malls. I’ll catch a random one every few weeks or so. Have you ever succeeded breh? The one I saw last time seemed like she was just thirst trappin hard asf

 

[LiveFromLondon]

If you anywhere but LA I’d say go for it. We went back to masks so naturally the baddies disappeared from the gyms and my fav spot to find em @the malls. I’ll catch a random one every few weeks or so. Have you ever succeeded breh? The one I saw last time seemed like she was just thirst trappin hard asf

Only ever approached them when Ive seen them at store and I bombed anatomically both times. In the gym its just looks but i try to not gaze as I feel it comes off thirsty but Ima try the nod or smile next time when I'm i ln

 

[Killigraphy]

Some good posts in here.....
I'm trying to kick this situation for good, but she keeps coming back and the mixed signals are driving me crazy.

It's wild because it's not even an ideal situation....it's just we have fun when we go on trips and hang out.

Mix that with not wanting anything serious and I'm being stagnant.

Sounds like you're complaining about a booty call+...Either way, focus on yourself. Develop hobbies, workout, read, and self amuse. You don't have to "kick" the situation, just learn to control it more. Behavioral psychology is the only psychology I believe in, because if it works on children, it'll work on women. Punish bad behavior, reward the good. Mixed signals only work against those who allow it. You set the parameters, you create the standards, and if she refuses, remove yourself from the equation. Iceing birds is always fun, its essentially time-out for "adults". She'll learn and her bad habits will tend to come around less. Either way, you decide the level of your involvement and the entry to your happiness.

 

[Silver Surfer]

Sounds like you're complaining about a booty call+...Either way, focus on yourself. Develop hobbies, workout, read, and self amuse. You don't have to "kick" the situation, just learn to control it more. Behavioral psychology is the only psychology I believe in, because if it works on children, it'll work on women. Punish bad behavior, reward the good. Mixed signals only work against those who allow it. You set the parameters, you create the standards, and if she refuses, remove yourself from the equation. Iceing birds is always fun, its essentially time-out for "adults". She'll learn and her bad habits will tend to come around less. Either way, you decide the level of your involvement and the entry to your happiness.

Facts!

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Don't be fooled by careers and or titles...some of the biggest ho's I've met, have been teachers, nurses, doctors, and psychologists. Women are women, doesn't matter the canvas, they always paint with the same three colors. In fact, the higher position, the more disgusting they turn out to be sexually. A surgeon for example, might have more money than me, but he's not as cool, charming, fashionable, and rogue-like. A doctor is a just a bag, I'm the whole experience.

Thats a fact!!
I work at a pain management clinic now PCA i.e. Patient Care Assistant) which is lower than a CNA and its a chick that be working back with the doctors and anesthesiologists and all she do is be fukking around me.
Them dudes make wayy more than be and she normal with them but wanna bump me, slap my arm, walk in my path down the hall, poke me with her pen, talk slick to me, etc.

I rubbed her on her side Wednesday on some and aint even budge. Just said "ima punch you in the eye "

These chicks be liking when dudes show confidence and that a breh aint intimidated by them

 

[Abraxus]

For the degenerates who still use PoF, be careful, I'm hearing the whole site might have been compromised/hacked, hence the reason it's down

Any woman on that site is a bottom dweller! Get off! It ain’t good! At all!

 

[twan83]

My main shorty is a year away from graduating and becoming a Registered Nurse , stop wasting and investing your time in these do nothing heauxs breh.

eh congrats, but you’d be better off staying humble and just enjoy what you got because you dont know how things are going to go post graduation.

I’m telling u this right now be careful cuz likely she gonna get big headed cuz she got a good job and career and if u don’t put her in her place it’s gonna be a damn headache or problem even if u do it still can be a problem just more manageable if done properly and ahead of time
Do not think she is special or different than any other female until it’s prove otherwise over a longer period of time with this job once she is done graduation
Trust me I know this cuz I already went thru it with my wife finishing nursing school

 

[Lhark]

I got stood up pretty bad by a coworker yesterday, now the shyt is going to be awkward.

 

[Killigraphy]

Thats a fact!!
I work at a pain management clinic now PCA i.e. Patient Care Assistant) which is lower than a CNA and its a chick that be working back with the doctors and anesthesiologists and all she do is be fukking around me.
Them dudes make wayy more than be and she normal with them but wanna bump me, slap my arm, walk in my path down the hall, poke me with her pen, talk slick to me, etc.

I rubbed her on her side Wednesday on some and aint even budge. Just said "ima punch you in the eye "

These chicks be liking when dudes show confidence and that a breh aint intimidated by them

Another dangerous factor; time + proximity, sure she can google how much doctors make, but when she's constantly around you, its you who matters. Women don't know what they want (as shown by birds fumbling the bag for clout, vindication, and revenge), so money is out of the equation. However, they know what they like; and its a man who's cooler than them, who can hold a conversation, who is all about his own excellence. A title + money is just a bag, women only crave attention and a leader, they'll follow some dumpey 5'5 guy into having babies with them, simply off of proximity.

 

[Killigraphy]

So just for those wondering or lurking; The key moves/mentality to get most women;

Time + Proximity, make it your goal to be around her at all times.

Intent; always make sure its sexual/flirty, don't show an ounce of wanting to be her friend and or diary. If so, change or get outta there.

Time is valuable; Don't be a time-ho, if shes there, its to give you something, anything, from a kiss, to a good ol fashioned bj. Nothing is free.

 

[Killigraphy]

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[Killigraphy]

I got stood up pretty bad by a coworker yesterday, now the shyt is going to be awkward.

For her, never for you, now you know how useless she is. And how she can't keep her word. You move on, you're greater than some bird who doesn't know her place. No second chances, if she had an entire day to fukk around, get on social media, text, etc. She had all the time in the day to meet up.

 

[DJSmooth]

Slowly been building up my roster since after corona virus.

I got one that live out of state but text/calls me EVERY single day.

I pulled one at a party last week she was damn near trying to take me home that night. Doing drinks with her later this week.

Then the following week I'm putting one of my freaks on plane, she is coming to spend the weekend.

Got 2-3 chicks in my DMs on IG I just don't have time to meet up with them.

Be patient. Get your paper up, hit the gym, work your social circle, and have some hobbies.

 

[Koli_Kat]

I got stood up pretty bad by a coworker yesterday, now the shyt is going to be awkward.

That's more awkward on her than you.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I got stood up pretty bad by a coworker yesterday, now the shyt is going to be awkward.

shyt aint gone be bad unless you make it awkward. You just gotta act like aint shyt happen.

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What happened tho?