Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Dating apps like tinder really are like fast food. I don't see why people (really women) don't treat it as such.

It's like treating McDonald's like some kind of exclusive five star restaurant. If you match with somebody, really be interested and be more spontaneous instead of trying to get all deep and shyt, because 9 times out of 10, one or the other parties attention span is going to give out before long and then you'll just end up ignoring each other anyway. That's just what social media does to people.

Everybody pretty much knows what tinder is about.
 

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Dating apps like tinder really are like fast food. I don't see why people (really women) don't treat it as such.

It's like treating McDonald's like some kind of exclusive five star restaurant. If you match with somebody, really be interested and be more spontaneous instead of trying to get all deep and shyt, because 9 times out of 10, one or the other parties attention span is going to give out before long and then you'll just end up ignoring each other anyway. That's just what social media does to people.

Everybody pretty much knows what tinder is about.

treating it like fast food removes their leverage. There is really 3 types of chicks on there:
1.Sugar Babies/Social Media follower boosters
2.Damaged people (ton of kids/mental or relationship issues/trauma that they never went to therapy for)
3.Socially Awkward people.

Id say over 31 you see some normal people who may be too deep in work and life to really be on the scene to meet new people, but most dudes in their age range are NOT looking for anything deep (thus those women get burned by time wasters and then are on these apps with attitudes).
 

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Re: dating apps. It’s a numbers game as usual.

I don’t waste time trying to be pen pals. Sometimes you gotta build a little rapport with some banter, but asking them out on the initial message or second message can work if your profile communicates enough about yourself.

Hinge has a “what works” section that is pretty accurate. Gives you the formula to eat

Recap of the two weeks I’ve had Bumble and Hinge:

Date 1: Didn’t look like her pictures. Ended with a kiss on the cheek lol
Date 2: Fine Latina but the chemistry wasn’t there
Date 3: Flaked on me last minute
Date 4: Wholesome Latina that’s just my type. Went on back to back dates over the weekend. Stayed the night both times. Seeing her for date number three this weekend.

so 1/4 but the 1 is a home run
 

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Just clapped the cheeks of a chick with easily the best body of any chick ive smashed.:ahh:

Nice perky 36 D t*ts and a fukking WAGON behind her :banderas: Think like a chanel staxx ass, a donk on a girl who is supposed to have a small frame.


funny thing is youd never know she was built like that as she's a former goth girl and dresses like Ashley Spinelli from Recess most of the time.


She was like "I was gonna make you wait another 2 weeks Marcus but I wanted it from you" :win:
 

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These tlr old heads back when I was on here as a teen and old heads I knew irl were right about how I was gonna get Fuxked up with how my mom was raising me, not letting me fw girls and shyt. I was a always cocky kid and bihs were throwin themselves at me and thought the ride wouldn’t end, well college online probably until spring 2022 so I been getting at girls in the wild lately. How you do it @KyokushinKarateMan @KingZimbabwe, you stay on “imma holla at some bytches” mode? Saw this girl at work and a nikka that’s been at it since 12 woulda got at her with no hesitation but I’m still fresh in this cold calling game, put my ass back on a campus and girls will be on ya boi for sure but I won’t be 21 forever and clock is tickin,
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teach me the ways of the wild,breh
@Ezekiel 25:17 @Astroslik @Rozay Oro y'all too ik y’all cold approach vets. Mr. “I don’t approach” I had ya life for the 1.5 semester we had before lockdown what’s ya take @CorporateTrapper
Can you ask what you really want to ask in one sentence?
 

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Are you focused on quality over quantity or do you just holla at every girl to build up that confidence
There’s only one way. Whatever you feel like is the answer, is the answer. Stop running from it.
 

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Always. Had an ex admit she had problems she wasn't taking care of and it wasn't fair to me.
Ex told me I was right about her gaslighting and immaturity. Confirmation is always sweet.
Funny how they always accept it after the fact. If they acknowledged it during the relationship maybe they wouldn’t be exes :sas2:
 

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Funny how they always accept it after the fact. If they acknowledged it during the relationship maybe they wouldn’t be exes :sas2:
If she had acknowledged and worked on it during the relationship (she’s in therapy now) we would be married by now.
 

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Avoid complaining about your everyday life, even if SHE brings it up. It makes you look somewhat weak, like a man who can't handle things. Leave all the complaining to the women.

If she asked you about how your day was at work, don't go babbling about how rough it's been or how much you dislike your boss or whomever. Believe me, she's likely rolling her eyes at you on the other end of that phone.

Even if you indeed had a rough day, your response should be along the lines of "It's been pretty busy, but nothing I can't handle......but enough about me. What's up with you?" :obama::myman:
 
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