Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Hear me out brehs, don’t really have anywhere else to share

I am making a change in my life. For so long I believe I’ve let lust pull me to the point I suspect on an energy/vibe level women aren’t fukking with me. To solve this I am and have been getting my life together for the longest. Currently sending out resumes for a new job, making sure my health is on point, about to enter the fall with a new wardrobe. I’ve even unfollowed most of. It all the girls I knew on Instagram except the ones I’ve ever actually hung out with. Just want to know I’m on the right path because for some reason a nikka can’t get this part down right

 

[buzzkill]

Hear me out brehs, don’t really have anywhere else to share

I am making a change in my life. For so long I believe I’ve let lust pull me to the point I suspect on an energy/vibe level women aren’t fukking with me. To solve this I am and have been getting my life together for the longest. Currently sending out resumes for a new job, making sure my health is on point, about to enter the fall with a new wardrobe. Just want to know I’m on the right path because for some reason a nikka can’t get this part down right

self improvement is the best thing u can do for yourself forget the women. They are a by product of u getting your mind, body, wardrobe and paper straight. I would just say passively talk to women just so you don't lose your social skills

 

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self improvement is the best thing u can do for yourself forget the women. They are a by product of u getting your mind, body, wardrobe and paper straight. I would just say passively talk to women just so you don't lose your social skills

It is tricky Breh. I went ahead and unfollowed most of the girls I knew from my past on my Instagram. I'm starting over from scratch. You Brehs who can get p*ssy without having to 'self-improve' or 'get your shyt together' need to count every fukking blessing you have.

on the bright side I raised my credit score over 70 points since May.... By December my score should be in the 700s

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Maaaan ima say this sometimes having periods of ignoring and clearing your mind of thoughts of Women and everything involving them such as; sex, phatass, t*ts, texting, approaching, rejection, looking at porn/smut, try on vids, hoes on social media blah blah etc.
Is quite relieving and has a noticeable difference in how you feel mentally where everything seems as you aren't preoccupied with whether you're getting it or not. I usually do 7 day stretches from time to time where i even notice women seem to stare at me harder for some reason and i just ignore them

I will even say taking a break from Coli and some of these depressing threads is good.

 

[buzzkill]

It is tricky Breh. I went ahead and unfollowed most of the girls I knew from my past on my Instagram. I'm starting over from scratch. You Brehs who can get p*ssy without having to 'self-improve' or 'get your shyt together' need to count every fukking blessing you have.

on the bright side I raised my credit score over 70 points since May.... By December my score should be in the 700s

I've had to do it from time to time. I just go into monk mode and get my shyt together. Last time I went into monk mode I doubled my salary... its worth it

 

[Rozay Oro]

See if she really likes u/where u stand... if u smoke invite her back to the crib and smoke with her. If you drink buy a bottle of wine ask if she wants to have a glass of wine with you.

Even if she says no she'll know u are confident and can lead her to the bed. Also escalate this whole date but be smooth and dont overthink. Meditate before u go out and have no expectations. You got this

She don’t smoke nor drink. I’ve already felt her titties and her ass. Seems like she do fukk with me heavy.

 

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I've had to do it from time to time. I just go into monk mode and get my shyt together. Last time I went into monk mode I doubled my salary... its worth it

Talk to me breh. I have only worked a "great" job for about a year before I had to relocate to another city. Does money really change everything?

 

[Balla]

She don’t smoke nor drink. I’ve already felt her titties and her ass. Seems like she do fukk with me heavy.

Tinder?

 

[buzzkill]

Talk to me breh. I have only worked a "great" job for about a year before I had to relocate to another city. Does money really change everything?

It just made it easier. More confidence because you aren't broke. Youll be in a better state of mind because you're not worrying about bills. If you work in a field that is known to be lucrative smart women are going to know you're a catch and they will act accordingly.. Ability to afford to take multiple women out without stressing about how much you're spending (although I don't go out on expensive dates), better crib, better clothes etc. But u still have to put in work and get at them. They aren't going to fall out of the sky because u got money especially if u aren't leading with money...

Also don't be one of those dikkheads that brag about how much money u making. Money is just one piece to the puzzle, getting your mind and body right with the money and having hobbies outside of work and dating will get you where u need to be.

I'd say body and dressing nice will get u the right type of choosing signals. While showing off your money with stupid chains and designer clothes might get u some gold diggers and thots

 

[Rozay Oro]

Tinder?

Yeah lol but her pics ain’t thottie. I just greeted her and comment on the song in her profile (ATCQ). We hit off well and shyt. FaceTime Thursday night for hours. Friday went on a date and back my place, didn’t get too far cause pops blowing her shyt up. Felt them thangs before she left and gave her my hoodie. Talked through the weekend. Now I’m see her today.

 

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It just made it easier. More confidence because you aren't broke. Youll be in a better state of mind because you're not worrying about bills. If you work in a field that is known to be lucrative smart women are going to know you're a catch and they will act accordingly.. Ability to afford to take multiple women out without stressing about how much you're spending (although I don't go out on expensive dates), better crib, better clothes etc. But u still have to put in work and get at them. They aren't going to fall out of the sky because u got money especially if u aren't leading with money...

Also don't be one of those dikkheads that brag about how much money u making. Money is just one piece to the puzzle, getting your mind and body right with the money and having hobbies outside of work and dating will get you where u need to be.

I'd say body and dressing nice will get u the right type of choosing signals. While showing off your money with stupid chains and designer clothes might get u some gold diggers and thots

the funny thing is, hobbies, getting my mind right, all these things I’ve been lining up for a long time, money or more specific a constant stream of high income is the one thing I’ve been aiming for so I can be as independent as I want to be. So to me it feels like the “final puzzle piece” because I have been “doing everything else.”

 

[buzzkill]

the funny thing is, hobbies, getting my mind right, all these things I’ve been lining up for a long time, money or more specific a constant stream of high income is the one thing I’ve been aiming for so I can be as independent as I want to be. So to me it feels like the “final puzzle piece” because I have been “doing everything else.”

Well yeah if u got everything else lined up money is going to make dating a lot easier for u. Get your bag and get yourself a nice clean crib and some well fitted clothes (nice car is cool but it doesn't really matter imo) and you will be the man. . Im currently working on the crib part myself its gonna be demon time when I buy a house/condo

 

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Well yeah if u got everything else lined up money is going to make dating a lot easier for u. Get your bag and get yourself a nice clean crib and some well fitted clothes (nice car is cool but it doesn't really matter imo) and you will be the man. . Im currently working on the crib part myself its gonna be demon time when I buy a house/condo

Breh this is the hardest part. Knowing that you are working towards something in a world that does not want to give you a chance because you don’t have “it” yet

At the same time I try to not focus too much on putting an “end goal” on these things, but still I swear by next year breh I’ll finally have my own

 

[MikelArteta]

Maaaan ima say this sometimes having periods of ignoring and clearing your mind of thoughts of Women and everything involving them such as; sex, phatass, t*ts, texting, approaching, rejection, looking at porn/smut, try on vids, hoes on social media blah blah etc.
Is quite relieving and has a noticeable difference in how you feel mentally where everything seems as you aren't preoccupied with whether you're getting it or not. I usually do 7 day stretches from time to time where i even notice women seem to stare at me harder for some reason and i just ignore them

I will even say taking a break from Coli and some of these depressing threads is good.

Yup , just like anything you can get addicted to women and even the chase. It's good to take breaks not like single women will ever run out.

 

[MikelArteta]

the funny thing is, hobbies, getting my mind right, all these things I’ve been lining up for a long time, money or more specific a constant stream of high income is the one thing I’ve been aiming for so I can be as independent as I want to be. So to me it feels like the “final puzzle piece” because I have been “doing everything else.”

single women will always be there until the day you die no worries breh.
Enjoy life find a hobby or passion.

My hobbies is travel and photography. Covid nicked my travel but I've probably shot like 10 weddings past two months and I love it even just the editing afterwards.