Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[buzzkill]

Friday I saw Respect with her the last slot showing too. We get taco bell and back to the crib. Make out. Dad blows up her phone. Monday we go to the mall and then make out in my car in a movie theater parking lot. Look it annoys me and pisses me off but honestly i have already moved on. Bought a lil alcohol so I can cut up with my nikkas on call of duty. Tmrw it’s work out and study for these IT certs. I need to vent but that’s it i moved on.

Yeah I been there breh.
On the next girl try to keep it to seeing each other once a week to start off.

Just take it easy and kick it with your boys bro you'll be fine

 

[Rozay Oro]

Yeah I been there breh.
On the next girl try to keep it to seeing each other once a week to start off.

Just take it easy and kick it with your boys bro you'll be fine

Aite how do I keep the simpiness away?

 

[MikelArteta]

Aite how do I keep the simpiness away?

talk to other women or just shift your mindset, honestly me travelling so much was really for the best. I'd meet women in every country canoodle and cavort but knowing that I always had to go home i just enjoyed it for what it was

And now I have the same mindset if im talking to a chick I just enjoy it and don't worry about all the other stuff

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Good don’t be like me young nikka. I’m a failure. Only thing I got going is I’m still in my 20s and can pursuit IT.

Lol you not a failure. You just learning breh, consider it a work in progress

 

[Killigraphy]

Aite how do I keep the simpiness away?

Developing yourself comes first. I'm sure you can find my posts around here, but to keep it short and simple; become a renaissance man of sorts. Know enough about everything.

As far as women go; never lose a battle or a war, correct and lead by example. Women are basically children who lack foresight. Your goal is to show them that you're not the same guys she runs into online. Drop the thirst, don't like their photos and or posts, don't comment, no smileys,etc. You're not there for her, she's there to entertain you.

Be agendaless, be awesome and be gone. Self amuse. You're the rockstar and these birds are the groupies. But most importantly, don't be a time-ho, your time is valuable, even when you're sleeping. Never chase maybe p*ssy, it's either definite or not worth the trouble and time. p*ssy is everywhere, but we proper men chasing excellence are rare.

 

[Killigraphy]

Yeah lol but her pics ain’t thottie. I just greeted her and comment on the song in her profile (ATCQ). We hit off well and shyt. FaceTime Thursday night for hours. Friday went on a date and back my place, didn’t get too far cause pops blowing her shyt up. Felt them thangs before she left and gave her my hoodie. Talked through the weekend. Now I’m see her today.

So for a makeout session and light fondling, you payed with a hoodie... her father hitting her up to cockblock is an excuse for her to keep you away from the vagina, if she wants to fukk, phone goes off or on ignore. I'm not paying for a cock tease. Tell me something came of this.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Pursuing women can be fun BUT it takes a lot of time, energy and emotions. Sometimes, I just need a break....man.

Honestly, I rather invite a girl to hang out. If she's down cool. If not, I'm still having fun.

Not all of these chicks are worth the pursuit. Vet wisely and avoid getting with spiteful toxic women.

Have a purpose to work on. Without that, chasing after females will leave you empty.

 

[Rozay Oro]

So for a makeout session and light fondling, you payed with a hoodie... her father hitting her up to cockblock is an excuse for her to keep you away from the vagina, if she wants to fukk, phone goes off or on ignore. I'm not paying for a cock tease. Tell me something came of this.

Another dumb date yesterday to be met up today with a bullshyt sob story and wanting to be friends. Yet the night before got mad kiss emojis from her. My hoodie back and a valuable lesson.

 

[buzzkill]

Aite how do I keep the simpiness away?

I would say meditation for 1 helps me a lot with women. It kinda removes the anxiety that you need to be doing more or you might be doing something wrong and puts u in the present moment and frees u from an attachment of outcome with women. 2 having some sort of purpose in life. U say you are studying for IT put that ahead of any woman. IT certs are your main bytch from now on. Treat women like side pieces. Any time u with a woman u cheating on your main bytch

Next u need to start dating multiple women at a time like last Saturday I met up with one girl for the first time things went well and I thought she was great. Then I met another later that night for the first time. We went out I brought her back home and we smashed.

Also keep in mind none of these girls are that special until they get on the team and prove themselves. Shift your mindset. Every morning look in the mirror and tell yourself "I'm that nikka" 10 times. Make these bishes chase u cuz u the breh that's about to be making 6 figs with his IT certs

 

[Rozay Oro]

I would say meditation for 1 helps me a lot with women. It kinda removes the anxiety that you need to be doing more or you might be doing something wrong and puts u in the present moment and frees u from an attachment of outcome with women. 2 having some sort of purpose in life. U say you are studying for IT put that ahead of any woman. IT certs are your main bytch from now on. Treat women like side pieces. Any time u with a woman u cheating on your main bytch

Next u need to start dating multiple women at a time like last Saturday I met up with one girl for the first time things went well and I thought she was great. Then I met another later that night for the first time. We went out I brought her back home and we smashed.

Also keep in mind none of these girls are that special until they get on the team and prove themselves. Shift your mindset. Every morning look in the mirror and tell yourself "I'm that nikka" 10 times. Make these bishes chase u cuz u the breh that's about to be making 6 figs with his IT certs

Thanks breh for taking the time to say all this. I have one question why are women like this? This girl is my literally me in girl form yet she act like every other I dealt with outside of a hook up. Why are women like this?

 

[VertigoKnight]

Thanks breh for taking the time to say all this. I have one question why are women like this? This girl is my literally me in girl form yet she act like every other I dealt with outside of a hook up. Why are women like this?

We've discussed a few times in the thread. Usually there is no rhyme or reason logically why a woman does anything. Its annoying and frustrating. She probably felt you wanted this more than her at this time.

You had 3+ dates with her? I would have made a move on the first date personally, if the energy was there, but definitely on the second. That could have changed things a little.

New one has been solid and went on a date last night.

Hopefully she can be a long term girlfriend and in time my lady.

I don’t want to have to go back to the shyt pool of cute but low life thots and single moms that is tinder and bumble.

Just gonna post this. Is this the chick who has now friend zoned you? Look at what you wrote and then think of the energy you were probably giving out to her. One thing chicks are very good at is knowing the 'vibe' with guys whether it feels good, weird or potentially clingy.

That lock her down ASAP energy is scary and if chicks feel that they bail quicker than you can say what are we.

Again logically you would think a woman would want a guy who wants to be their BF, But you have to let a woman come to you with those questions.

 

[NeilCartwright]

Met this woman through a mutual friend. She so damn cold

-She an engineer
-Family oriented. Religious though
-Got a non profit
-Used to hoop in college
-Doesn't club. Will drink socially but not heavily
-5'9 with a fat ass
-Plays a few instruments and speaks 2 languages

We've only been kicking it a couple weeks but when we do she's asking me hella questions about my family and upbringing. Tryna feel me out. Seeing how i feel about kids etc. I wont lie brehs i wouldn't mind locking it down. With other women i only tolerated them just so i could have regular sex but with this one its different.

I actually want to do every thing with heri hope i can give yall boys an update in a few months with something positive. I literally cant get this woman off my mind

 

[Apollo Creed]

Met this woman through a mutual friend. She so damn cold

-She an engineer
-Family oriented. Religious though
-Got a non profit
-Used to hoop in college
-Doesn't club. Will drink socially but not heavily
-5'9 with a fat ass
-Plays a few instruments and speaks 2 languages

We've only been kicking it a couple weeks but when we do she's asking me hella questions about my family and upbringing. Tryna feel me out. Seeing how i feel about kids etc. I wont lie brehs i wouldn't mind locking it down. With other women i only tolerated them just so i could have regular sex but with this one its different.

I actually want to do every thing with heri hope i can give yall boys an update in a few months with something positive. I literally cant get this woman off my mind

how old is she? Your post seems to be you selling her to us to cosign you wanting to lock her down rather than a true non bias run down of who she is.

 

[The ADD]

Only been seeing her a few weeks. “Lock her down” why do y’all do this

 

[Neuromancer]

@buzzkill @Balla date went really well brehs. Went to the mall, idk if I got lucky or my glow up so well that I’m punching above my weight. Brehettes who were store workers were staring lol, my shorty cute and got a nice body. I’m not hideous now so idk shyts weird. Anyways, afterwards made out in my car in the parking lot of a theater for a good bit.

Good ass Job. it sounds like you're comfortable. When you are comfortable ,she is comfortable.