Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaRealness]

Yeah, she was telling me that she hadn't been with her fiancée in a month and a half.

She wasn't actually. Just looked like your typical Caribbean girl.

It was actually the black girl that told me this

In her defense, she told me that she was upfront with ol boy about her freakiness, but he loved her anyways. That's why it's so important to make sure that your partner is a personality match.

There's no defending her. She's a piece of garbage. The mere fact she's still willing to marry him and openly boasting about her exploits to a stranger shows her lack of character. If she had any decency she would just let him go. She probably said she was a freak but not that she'd be fukking other people while they're in a relationship.

Dude is clearly a fool and a simp that will need to learn the hard way. Some people were just born to get played and clearly dude has no type of self respect or any kind of awareness. Your woman hasn't fukked you for a month and a half despite telling you she was a freak, and you don't see anything wrong with that picture?

I can feel the self loathing all the way from here.

 

[Killigraphy]

Can you give some examples of the tricks stp?

And what does "icing them" means please?

Icing means to ignore completely, no text, calls, visits, etc. Till they learn and respond...which they always will. They resent how much they love you. Because you took away the power women have over men. Now she's fawning over you, which shes not used to.

 

[CW_1991]

It's imperative for cats to understand the sociological aspects of dealing with women. We're in modern america, meaning they're not conditioned to be wives anymore. You have to utilize great scruples over a span of years to fully grasp if a woman is worth marrying and procreating with.

Because once you do either those things she is automatically empowered over you in this society. And you don't want to be legally obligated to a woman who is disloyal, dishonest, disrespectful, disregarding, etc.

It just can't be about the phat asses, big titties, and tight p*ssy. Those things are nice but, they're tangible. It's the intangibles that really matter in the grand scheme of things.

Take your time and watch closely for red flags.

 

[Uno Venova]

I have never wanted a girl I been dating to be my girlfriend this bad since H.S



I literally can't find any flaws, body insane, always available to see me witout bullshyt, into fitness, nuturing

 

[Uno Venova]

Think i may need to start strapping up.

Right after sex the girl im seeing asks me what i would do if she got pregnant, would i still stay and be there for the child.

this took me off guard especially as when we starting having raw sex we both established that we don't want children as were focusing on our careers, she's on birth control and if she did get pregnant then she was cool with having an abortion.

Now she backtracking and telling me that she wouldn't want to get an abortion and if she happened to get pregnant theres an 20% chance she would consider keeping the child (she might as well of said 50/50)

Never really had sympathy for men who complained about women trapping them but starting to see how it is.

We didn't have this conversation i would've just believed that we were on the same page

Thanks for this post breh. All dudes should read this and start regularly checking in with their girl. I will too

 

[VertigoKnight]

So a black woman who is cheating on her black fiancee with a white dude hooked me up with her pawg friend tonight

I'd warn the brotha if I knew him, smh. Ain't too many black folk in Vancouver so I'll just ask every brotha I see if he's engaged to _____

I've mentioned the black women in Van plenty of times before, how many of them are.

Where in Van did you meet her? Downtown?

 

[The Radiant One]

You bought her a taser?

Breh I bought her so much stuff because I was gassed about being with a “pretty” girl she seemed to care about me.

She went postal because I cheated by tricking in a thankless sexless relationship.

I thought simping and “treating” her was the thing to do and wanted a wife.

She kept asking for more and said I treated her like crap.

 

[Neuromancer]

Think i may need to start strapping up.

Right after sex the girl im seeing asks me what i would do if she got pregnant, would i still stay and be there for the child.

this took me off guard especially as when we starting having raw sex we both established that we don't want children as were focusing on our careers, she's on birth control and if she did get pregnant then she was cool with having an abortion.

Now she backtracking and telling me that she wouldn't want to get an abortion and if she happened to get pregnant theres an 20% chance she would consider keeping the child (she might as well of said 50/50)

Never really had sympathy for men who complained about women trapping them but starting to see how it is.

We didn't have this conversation i would've just believed that we were on the same page

Women don't make agreements. They make arrangements. You can't expect them to keep to their word.

 

[RealAssanova]

It's imperative for cats to understand the sociological aspects of dealing with women. We're in modern america, meaning they're not conditioned to be wives anymore. You have to utilize great scruples over a span of years to fully grasp if a woman is worth marrying and procreating with.

Because once you do either those things she is automatically empowered over you in this society. And you don't want to be legally obligated to a woman who is disloyal, dishonest, disrespectful, disregarding, etc.

It just can't be about the phat asses, big titties, and tight p*ssy. Those things are nice but, they're tangible. It's the intangibles that really matter in the grand scheme of things.

Take your time and watch closely for red flags.

Pure gospel right here.

Sad reality is that A LOT of women out there were never raised or taught to be wives or mothers.

Which makes my next point extremely vital...

A job would never higher you just because you submitted a resumè. They gotta do a thorough background check, an interview and sometimes even a questionnaire/assessment before they hire you (however long that may take). Not to mention pitting you up against competition to see who is better/would bring more value.

It should be the same thing for these women. Screen them thoroughly individually and against their competition to determine the best person suited to get the ring (if u wanna get married) and the seed.

 

[Sinnerman]

I've mentioned the black women in Van plenty of times before, how many of them are.

Where in Van did you meet her? Downtown?

Yeah, DT near my hotel

 

[Krisrunner2049]

“Women will always be there, I’m not focused on them” says this 20 year old chubby boi. Kid is funny asf just for that.

The old heads in that one thread about handsome nikka shelf life taught me I can’t be slacking in these streets. Needa get back out there, LA seem like a big city but I feel like I’m just in the same mix of ppl at the spots I go to, 20 chubby bytches, 2 baddies, 3 ight women. Gotta be more to this life than just this, I’m not gonna be 21 and fine forever

 

[Noriega]

how do a breh who doesn’t smoke(career, we get dropped 1-2x a month) and don’t drink often(haven’t drank since July my birthday ) navigate these shortys

Every shorty tryin to “match” or smoke & ride Not throwing away a 6 figure career for no blunt

 

[Killigraphy]

how do a breh who doesn’t smoke(career, we get dropped 1-2x a month) and don’t drink often(haven’t drank since July my birthday ) navigate these shortys

Every shorty tryin to “match” or smoke & ride Not throwing away a 6 figure career for no blunt

Easily. People love to drink, and I'm pretty sure there are more alcoholics than there are sober people in America (to varying degrees of course). Simply speak your righteous truth; "Where I work they test for x". Or simply let them drink. A drunk will get sloshed whether you join them or not. Their addiction trumps logic and or giving a fukk. Lets them numb themselves and you go ahead and swoop on in for the head.

 

[The ADD]

how do a breh who doesn’t smoke(career, we get dropped 1-2x a month) and don’t drink often(haven’t drank since July my birthday ) navigate these shortys

Every shorty tryin to “match” or smoke & ride Not throwing away a 6 figure career for no blunt

Research purposes

How old are you and the chicks you are after

 

[Rell Lauren]

Bagged an older woman last night off of Bumble. She didn't hesitate to message me. Kept the conversation brief, got her number then we took it to the texts. She's in town until Labor Day, so we'll see what happens.

Just solidified a date for Friday. Grabbing lunch. Hoping to snack on her p*ssy after.