Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

Realistically, just be upfront and don’t make a big deal out of it. Come clean, let her know what it was, and she’ll make the decision based on how much she fukks with you.

From then on you gotta make it firm that you will continue fukking other women and it really has nothing to do with her. She’ll either take it or leave it - at the end of the day you chose her to be your girl. But above all you gotta be willing to lose her. The worst thing you can do is placate and apologize. Stay firm.

A lot of dudes will tell you to lie, but all that’s gonna do is not solve the root issue and is only gonna get you trapped in a toxic relationship. If she’s not for you, she’s not for you. Leave it at that.

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Yeah lying gets exhausting after a while.

I have three women in my solid rotation atm plus a few part time players.

My main women all know about each other. I'm not explicit about it but they're not idiots. I got sick of the white lies and reasons why I couldn't be somewhere. Told them and let them make their decision as to whether they wanted to still see me. And they did.

The number one rule we have when I'm spending time with them, I'm fully there. So that means no going onto the apps or messaging other women. we have quality time together.
and enjoy each other.

 

[King]

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Yeah lying gets exhausting after a while.

I have three women in my solid rotation atm plus a few part time players.

My main women all know about each other. I'm not explicit about it but they're not idiots. I got sick of the white lies and reasons why I couldn't be somewhere. Told them and let them make their decision as to whether they wanted to still see me. And they did.

The number one rule we have when I'm spending time with them, I'm fully there. So that means no going onto the apps or messaging other women. we have quality time together.
and enjoy each other.

It’s the only way

 

[VertigoKnight]

To also follow up on that my friend from this

Spoiler: previous story

No matter how much I try to tell my friend what not to do. He can't help himself.

As I said earlier this week his ex FWB told him two weeks ago she didn't want to have sex anymore then this week she posted a pic of her and a guy on her IG.

So what did this goofy do on Friday? Message her on Signal, to ask if that was her BF.


She didn't reply...

I asked him what the hell he thought he was doing.

This is what lack of options has him doing out here. A chick he didn't care for that much and who he told he wanted to keep things casual got him hot under the collar because she shut off access to her p*ssy.

who I've mentioned a few times in this thread he has a terrible time with women. So previously his last FWB told him she didn't want to fukk anymore as she obviously found a man. So he was down to one guaranteed chick he would see. She's another chick he doesn't care that much for but she and him smash. She obviously wants more, but he has kept her at bay in terms of that.

So recently he started on Bumble and has been on dates with a few women. None of them have led to smashing or follow up's just a lot of friend zoning.

So he arranged to meet a chick for a walking date. The evening arrives and she tells him she had just dropped into a supermarket to grab a few things for their picnic date and she'd meet him outside. So his standing there and who happens to walk past going into the same market?

The FWB chick and her friend. My guy got flustered and they have a quick convo. He tells her his waiting for his 'friend' to come out, they do some small talk then she tells him she'll see him around, she and her friend go in. 30 secs later the other chick comes out and they go for there date. Where she tells him she's more looking for climbing and skiing friends, so another shyt date.

Now you would think he would have deniability in terms of the chick. As they are now platonic, but him being him he texts his FWB to say they should probably talk about that evening and running into each other.

She tells him it's late but they can talk about it another time...

2 days later she messages and says they should meet for a coffee. Where she tells him they probably shouldn't sleep together anymore, but she wants to remain platonic.


I asked him why did he even text her and make this an issue. He didn't even smash anyone else he was just out hanging with a chick.

So now this guy is down to zero chicks.

 

[The ADD]

To also follow up on that my friend from this

who I've mentioned a few times in this thread he has a terrible time with women. So previously his last FWB told him she didn't want to fukk anymore as she obviously found a man. So he was down to one guaranteed chick he would see. She's another chick he doesn't care that much for but she and him smash. She obviously wants more, but he has kept her at bay in terms of that.

So recently he started on Bumble and has been on dates with a few women. None of them have led to smashing or follow up's just a lot of friend zoning.

So he arranged to meet a chick for a walking date. The evening arrives and she tells him she had just dropped into a supermarket to grab a few things for their picnic date and she'd meet him outside. So his standing there and who happens to walk past going into the same market?

The FWB chick and her friend. My guy got flustered and they they have a quick convo. He tells her his waiting for his 'friend' to come out, they do some small talk then she tells him she'll see him around, she and her friend go in. 30 secs later the other chick comes out and they go for there date. Where she tells him she's more looking for climbing and skiing friends, so another shyt date.

Now you would think he would have deniability in terms of the chick. As they are now platonic, but him being him he texts his FWB to say they should probably talk about that evening and running into each other.

She tells him it's late but they can talk about it another time...

2 days later she messages and says they should meet for a coffee. Where she tells him they probably shouldn't sleep together anymore, but she wants to remain platonic.


I asked him why did he even text her and make this an issue. He didn't even smash anyone else he was just out hanging with a chick.

So now this guy is down to zero chicks.

Woof

 

[KeysT]

Well brehs finally did what I needed To do and blocked my ex and cut off communication. Feel kinda free.

 

[Neuromancer]

You and I will always get along. Without making us sound like we're in an echo chamber, the main problem is that men are so thirsty, so hopelessly inured, that they'll do anything for some attention or conversation from women. Post nut clarity is the true red pill, I advise all men; jerk off before you meet her, jerk off after talking to her, and so forth. The need to want to have sex, blinds a lot of these boys. Then there's the spineless bunch, who rather pay with money or happiness to shut birds up...they need to practice saying no.

Word. I don't understand accepting less than you want to. Unless you, yourself are boring then that's different. But a lot of cats seem to put the chance to get p*ssy above actually being happy. I don't understand that kind of thirst.

 

[BaggerofTea]

Some of y'all are really fukking up the game with this roster shyt and all this assorted game playing

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

Make sure you get girlfriends and don't recruit interns or feel self entitled because you write better than other artists

If she is down, make sure she don't forget

Mr Uncle Leroy

 

[TRUEST]

Some of y'all are really fukking up the game with this roster shyt and all this assorted game playing

A lot of them young. So they’re in that immature stage.

 

[Silkk]

I’m saying it here and now.

I will NEVER have raw sex without a condom.* Nor will I nut anywhere that ain’t her mouth.

Fukk all that. One wrong move and 18 years of your life and freedom are gone in an instant

Sex is not a game.

*unless I have concrete proof that she is indeed on birth control, she will need to show me her pills and schedule. And even then I’m still not nutting inside.

 

[King]

18 years

 

[Iceson Beckford]

This sounds crazy but I dont even want to be around my family cause I feel weird when they ask me about women and I aint got none

I know my big bro disappointed

 

[Killigraphy]

This sounds crazy but I dont even want to be around my family cause I feel weird when they ask me about women and I aint got none

I know my big bro disappointed

Always respond with "chasing excellence, not p*ssy". I'm great first, before I let anyone in my life who's mediocre.

 

[BaggerofTea]

A lot of them young. So they’re in that immature stage.

They need to realize they are cultivating toxicity in these women that make them harder to deal with for themselves and everyone else

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Always respond with "chasing excellence, not p*ssy". I'm great first, before I let anyone in my life who's mediocre.

Lmao they been hearing all sorts of excuses for a while, I'll just dip for a few months and try and work on myself