Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[BaggerofTea]

Guys my ex dumped me a week ago but I haven’t talked to her since. Her bday is in couple weeks. So is it weird and strange that wish her a happy bday out of being kind? I mean I don’t expect us to strike a convo or get back together but I just worried that she would hurt my ego and ignore my happy birthday lol

Dont say shyt to her.

 

[LoMax30]

Theres dis bad lil chick dat work at planet fitness I been wantin to hilla at for a min but I just feel lame and awkward tryna do it while she wit her co workers n shyt. I be tryna catch her alone but it aint been happenin. Advice?

If you can't catch her alone then walk up to her when she's with her coworkers and tell her the treadmill/elliptical/etc. you're using is acting up and ask if she could come over and take a look at it for you. When she comes over be like "damn, of course now it's working when you come over. Thanks though. By the way, what's your name?" Just introduce yourself and leave it there. Don't try to get the number, this way you can sorta check her temperature. Then next time you're in the gym she knows your face so you can speak and make more small talk or shoot your shot forreal

 

[TRUEST]

If you can't catch her alone then walk up to her when she's with her coworkers and tell her the treadmill/elliptical/etc. you're using is acting up and ask if she could come over and take a look at it for you. When she comes over be like "damn, of course now it's working when you come over. Thanks though. By the way, what's your name?" Just introduce yourself and leave it there. Don't try to get the number, this way you can sorta check her temperature. Then next time you're in the gym she knows your face so you can speak and make more small talk or shoot your shot forreal

smart man!

 

[KeysT]

I've said this before there are a lot of men are playing a game they think they should be playing with this roster shyt. And it's trickled down to women wanting to be like men and it has resulted in hookup/roster culture. This is breeding unhappy people and toxic relationship habits. People need to go back to one to one dating unless you're the aforementioned sociopath. It's fukking up people's psyche.

Yeah it’s a result of online dating and people having options at their fingertips. Not much people can do to stop it except decide to only date one at a time. Which puts you at a disadvantage because the women you are dating won’t do the same for you.

 

[Neuromancer]

Yeah it’s a result of online dating and people having options at their fingertips. Not much people can do to stop it except decide to only date one at a time. Which puts you at a disadvantage because the women you are dating won’t do the same for you.

Yeah. That last part is an issue.

 

[jesc07]

I've said this before there are a lot of men are playing a game they think they should be playing with this roster shyt. And it's trickled down to women wanting to be like men and it has resulted in hookup/roster culture. This is breeding unhappy people and toxic relationship habits. People need to go back to one to one dating unless you're the aforementioned sociopath. It's fukking up people's psyche.

I'd suggest to the younger dudes out here that it's actually better to wife your highschool sweetheart than to play the game.

 

[The ADD]

I'd suggest to the younger dudes out here that it's actually better to wife your highschool sweetheart than to play the game.

If feel like high school sweethearts aren’t a thing with younger people.

 

[KeysT]

Yeah. That last part is an issue.

I would guess that men would have less problem only dating one woman if she was someone he was interested in. Mostly because we are expected to bear the brunt of the cost of dating.

That’s why some men date more than one woman because it seems they are bearing the brunt of the disadvantage financially from dating and want to pay for options. Women tried to get on the same wave but have the added benefit of mot being expected to pay. Lopsided expectations. Women want their cake and want to eat it too all while complaining about unequal conditions.

Guarantee if all men decided today that we wouldn’t date unless a woman paid for half of the date, (let alone the full amount) the amount of women dating multiple people would drop dramatically.

 

[Neuromancer]

I would guess that men would have less problem only dating one woman if she was someone he was interested in. Mostly because we are expected to bear the brunt of the cost of dating.

That’s why some men date more than one woman because it seems they are bearing the brunt of the disadvantage financially from dating and want to pay for options. Women tried to get on the same wave but have the added benefit of mot being expected to pay. Lopsided expectations. Women want their cake and want to eat it too all while complaining about unequal conditions.

Guarantee if all men decided today that we wouldn’t date unless a woman paid for half of the date, (let alone the full amount) the amount of women dating multiple people would drop dramatically.

Probably but I think too many men are brainwashed to think of something like this.

 

[dizzy4111]

If feel like high school sweethearts aren’t a thing with younger people.

It's not. My brother graduated high school this year and this roster bullshyt has seeped in to the younger generation too. Nobody's happy

 

[Icewatermetallik]

My brehs there are one or two baddies in the gym I go to that I'm tryin to holla at. But its weird, I seem them working out by themselves but then sometimes they come or leave with a dude. Sometimes I catch themselves by themselves though too. It's mad random. Not sure if it's their brothers, boyfriends, or just guy friends they're working out with or what.

Advice on how to approach? Or just leave it alone? I ain't tryin to get into no fights with some dumbass macho boyfriends for talking to their girl.

 

[Astroslik]

My brehs there are one or two baddies in the gym I go to that I'm tryin to holla at. But its weird, I seem them working out by themselves but then sometimes they come or leave with a dude. Sometimes I catch themselves by themselves though too. It's mad random. Not sure if it's their brothers, boyfriends, or just guy friends they're working out with or what.

Advice on how to approach? Or just leave it alone? I ain't tryin to get into no fights with some dumbass macho boyfriends for talking to their girl.

Focus on your workout.

 

[he_is_I]

Yal seen the post me tryna get at shorty that work at planet fitness... I get a fresh cut yesterday so today I go in feelin myself. She check me in and as I look down and look back I see she lookin at me. ( I aint get to holler at her cuz her cockblockin co worker stands next to her and buts in EVERYTIME she checks me in. One day this nikka literally ran to the desk when he seen it was just me n her). As I leave I tell her bye and I get In the whip feelin good. Bruh.. When I looked in my car mirror I had white cream all on the side of my mouth from a dumb ass protein bar . Im at the bar now still beatin myself up bout dis dumb ass shyt.

 

[Killigraphy]

No lie it feels like you always just be trying to one up everyone in this thread

I'm not seriously, its just that when working with pornstars, they end up topping the whores in anyone's life. Put it to you this way, I've met some of the biggest scumbags, both men and women in that industry, so of course I pick up tactics that work endlessly. So like a matter as anal, is so passe and easy to get any bird to do, is seems rudimentary to me. But I always give advice. Same with my pornstar thread....its not me trying to one up anyone....its the whores trying to one up each other on who is the biggest scumbag.

 

[Killigraphy]

Yal seen the post me tryna get at shorty that work at planet fitness... I get a fresh cut yesterday so today I go in feelin myself. She check me in and as I look down and look back I see she lookin at me. ( I aint get to holler at her cuz her cockblockin co worker stands next to her and buts in EVERYTIME she checks me in. One day this nikka literally ran to the desk when he seen it was just me n her). As I leave I tell her bye and I get In the whip feelin good. Bruh.. When I looked in my car mirror I had white cream all on the side of my mouth from a dumb ass protein bar . Im at the bar now still beatin myself up bout dis dumb ass shyt.

It happens to the best of us....now you know....protein shakes/muscle milk, smh legit laughed, fukking Adam Sandler movie with you.