Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Hoodoo Child]

 

[Rell Lauren]

Women are just disrespectful. What makes them think they can text you days later after you shot them a message as if I'm desperate? I mean, we're not in a relationship but have some respect.

 

[CW_1991]

These "package deal" chicks on these apps are insane.

So much wrong with the sentiment when you really get down to it.

Ain't no man worth his salt trying to build bonds with another man's kids pretending to be step daddy and having to divide your resources among them.

And these females know this shyt deep down. Is it delusion or desperation?

 

[Redwood]

These "package deal" chicks on these apps are insane.

So much wrong with the sentiment when you really get down to it.

Ain't no man worth his salt trying to build bonds with another man's kids pretending to be step daddy and having to divide your resources among them.

And these females know this shyt deep down. Is it delusion or desperation?

I'd say it's half breh. They're just tossing out cheap bait

 

[CW_1991]

I'd say it's half breh. They're just tossing out cheap bait

Fam, there's a pandemic of single mothers in this country. And when it comes to the dating scene, the experience is just overall diminished. How is it a deal if the man got to take care of another Man's children and be a father figure? That's a shytty deal.

And of course a lot of females withhold the coochie unless you get in line and conform to that dynamic. And then once you get the drawls and bail, they're bitter and even more of a problem for the next guy. And most of the time you're the next guy.

It's a mess.

That's not even getting into dealing with the baby daddy and the fact that most of the time he's going to be somewhere in the picture. In the proximity

 

[Redwood]

Fam, there's a pandemic of single mothers in this country. And when it comes to the dating scene, the experience is just overall diminished. How is it a deal if the man got to take care of another Man's children and be a father figure? That's a shytty deal.

And of course a lot of females withhold the coochie unless you get in line and conform to that dynamic. And then once you get the drawls and bail, they're bitter and even more of a problem for the next guy. And most of the time you're the next guy.

It's a mess.

That's not even getting into dealing with the baby daddy and the fact that most of the time he's going to be somewhere in the picture. In the proximity

True, but it's been a mess even before the pandemic

 

[CW_1991]

Sometimes i be thinking about writing up a sarcastic bio describing myself as a single male with no children but only looking for women with children because I want to be a father figure and help raise them.

Or something along those lines. Just so they can see how ridiculous it really is.

 

[J.E.T.S]

Yeah, she's waiting to leave when she's ready. You need to cut it off now and let her feel it.

She's been using you breh. She'll find a simp, I'm sure.

yep!!!

She’s waiting to get herself straight, involving your contributions, then she’s gonna be out!!

leave now! Leave her in a hole.

don’t even tell her just break the lease and dip while she’s at work.

You HAVE TO make her feel it.

 

[J.E.T.S]

Posting this here to vent cause I don’t know where else to..basically 8 year relationship all but over with someone I wanted to be with forever ignored the signs for 6 months and now we got 6 more months on this lease together and she already gone emotionally, cold winter incoming.

1. Biggest red flag that I let slide: following everything opening up after the pandemic - she starts hanging out with new friends who are all single, previously her friends were all in relationships, started off they were just going to get coffee and shyt but then..

2. Starts wanting to go out with them every Friday night, acting like it’s a girls only night but now it’s going to clubs with just them.
3. I find out other guys from their jobs are out at these outings, especially on nights where I’m busy at work or don’t have an option to go..oh forgot all these girls bi too

4. Girlfriend discovers after 8 years that she bi too, when I’m with her and her friends they all talking about how hot both girls and guys they are are now.
5. She starts saying she’s either too broke or too busy to to do stuff with me but got money for drinks and ubers when out with her new girlfriends, and went on two vacations this year with her cousins.
6. Her gay friend from work always talking to her about how hot their coworkers are.
7. When we hang out with my friends or alone she goes out of her way to act like a different person emotionally detached .
8. Spending 2+ hours in bathroom every night when that’s talking/intimate time in the past. Then when I try to initiate she says I only do when she’s half asleep, cold ass plan by her not gonna lie

Just the tip of iceberg. This a girl where we just got a dog together this year, been living together for years, and were having serious plans with buying a house/marriage in the very near future and it’s about to be thrown all away.

Swear I’m a goddamn idiot not seeing the early signs with the new friends and letting shyt spiral, I thought we had an understanding with each other but she just confiding in her friends now and I’m cut out emotionally, she still come home acting like it’s all alright I’m sure to ride it out til the lease is over.

If anyone reads this novel and are dumb like me, don’t be and fix shyt as soon as there’s a potential problem. Once she’s gone she’s gone

dirty bytch.


Breh I know exactly what you’re going through. You don’t even understand.

then she KNOWS you care.

you have to find a way and the STRENGTH to leave.

 

[Neuromancer]

Posting this here to vent cause I don’t know where else to..basically 8 year relationship all but over with someone I wanted to be with forever ignored the signs for 6 months and now we got 6 more months on this lease together and she already gone emotionally, cold winter incoming.

1. Biggest red flag that I let slide: following everything opening up after the pandemic - she starts hanging out with new friends who are all single, previously her friends were all in relationships, started off they were just going to get coffee and shyt but then..

2. Starts wanting to go out with them every Friday night, acting like it’s a girls only night but now it’s going to clubs with just them.
3. I find out other guys from their jobs are out at these outings, especially on nights where I’m busy at work or don’t have an option to go..oh forgot all these girls bi too

4. Girlfriend discovers after 8 years that she bi too, when I’m with her and her friends they all talking about how hot both girls and guys they are are now.
5. She starts saying she’s either too broke or too busy to to do stuff with me but got money for drinks and ubers when out with her new girlfriends, and went on two vacations this year with her cousins.
6. Her gay friend from work always talking to her about how hot their coworkers are.
7. When we hang out with my friends or alone she goes out of her way to act like a different person emotionally detached .
8. Spending 2+ hours in bathroom every night when that’s talking/intimate time in the past. Then when I try to initiate she says I only do when she’s half asleep, cold ass plan by her not gonna lie

Just the tip of iceberg. This a girl where we just got a dog together this year, been living together for years, and were having serious plans with buying a house/marriage in the very near future and it’s about to be thrown all away.

Swear I’m a goddamn idiot not seeing the early signs with the new friends and letting shyt spiral, I thought we had an understanding with each other but she just confiding in her friends now and I’m cut out emotionally, she still come home acting like it’s all alright I’m sure to ride it out til the lease is over.

If anyone reads this novel and are dumb like me, don’t be and fix shyt as soon as there’s a potential problem. Once she’s gone she’s gone

Leave if you love yourself bro.

 

[Babymama Magnet]

Any of you reading Brehs can recommend me material to read or listen to on Leadership?

I'm not talking about that weak passive leadership that's promoted today but the leadership thats required in a relationship,

Leadership that will have your spouse willingly submit and follow

 

[Pool_Shark]

Just texted my chick “yes bbw” instead of “yes babe” smh. Autocorrect doesn’t even work anymore cause I type bbw so much lol

 

[George Gooney]

Just texted my chick “yes bbw” instead of “yes babe” smh. Autocorrect doesn’t even work anymore cause I type bbw so much lol

Chubby chaser

 

[DJSmooth]

Any of you reading Brehs can recommend me material to read or listen to on Leadership?

I'm not talking about that weak passive leadership that's promoted today but the leadership thats required in a relationship,

Leadership that will have your spouse willingly submit and follow

Idk if a book is really necessary, make more money than her, have an attitude that gives off she's expendable, and have something to teach her.

 

[Pool_Shark]

Chubby chaser

Love thick women. Fat bytches need love too Craig