Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

winb83

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I mean I wouldn't call it friend zone we been talking for like 6 months now. We pretty much know everything about each other. We've kissed multiple times and we've talked about hooking up. We've gotten close to being in a relationship twice but one or the other backed out at the last second.

She cut it off the first time and said she wanted to stay friends and I wasnt having it at all. But after like 2 weeks of talking to other guys and stuff she comes right back to me and the talk starts again.

The second time was just recently. I kinda got bored I couldn't stand talking to her anymore I didn't really enjoy hanging out with her or anything and I kinda want to enjoy doing my own thing for a while, so I kinda hinted that I didnt want a relationship anymore and she said she felt the same. But the girl still wants to be friends man!

She is def wifey material girls like this come once in a lifetime I feel like. But do I keep her around and just be friends :comeon: or do I let her go and do her own thing and just hope she still available when I'm ready to wife up.
Don't let a woman set the terms of your dealings with her. If you wanna have sex with her and she's celibate ( more than likely fukking other guys and just not you) then that's incompatibility and you drop her.

It goes like this in relationships one person has the power and sets the terms and rules and the person without the power accepts the terms dictated to them. You never wanna be the person accepting the rules set by her.
 

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Aight brehs I would tag each and everyone that helped but there's a lot of ya'll and I thank you for that.:blessed: So I let the bytch know what was up yesterday and she said she understood and we parted ways.

I gotta say I was feelin like Lebron when he finally won his ring. Dancing and shyt singing these hoes can't hold me back lol. But real talk I wanna thank ya'll for helpin me out man. I really appreciate the love! This thread is honestly the best thing that's ever happened to me.:to: Pure gold brehs pure gold.:ohlawd:
 

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Aight brehs I would tag each and everyone that helped but there's a lot of ya'll and I thank you for that.:blessed: So I let the bytch know what was up yesterday and she said she understood and we parted ways.

I gotta say I was feelin like Lebron when he finally won his ring. Dancing and shyt singing these hoes can't hold me back lol. But real talk I wanna thank ya'll for helpin me out man. I really appreciate the love! This thread is honestly the best thing that's ever happened to me.:to: Pure gold brehs pure gold.:ohlawd:
The hardest part now is to actually follow through and not allow her to sneak back in on the friendship tip. Manage to do that and The World Is Yours cause nothing is stopping you from conquering it...
 

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The hardest part now is to actually follow through and not allow her to sneak back in on the friendship tip. Manage to do that and The World Is Yours cause nothing is stopping you from conquering it...
If you break it off with a woman on your terms she'll be back. It's like that Tariqism dude posted a few days back. They keep your number on file and always come back at least once.
 

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If you break it off with a woman on your terms she'll be back. It's like that Tariqism dude posted a few days back. They keep your number on file and always come back at least once.
and once she comes back it's either my terms or kick rocks.
 

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we be telling negroes to stop shacking up, but they don't believe us. Look at this...

She met him backstage at a concert and made 12 grand a year all while being 2 years older then him :snoop: A simp is born every minute :2much:
 

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She met him backstage at a concert and made 12 grand a year all while being 2 years older then him :snoop: A simp is born every minute :2much:
i don't even consider it simping cause they weren't even married. The law is so fukked up in Canada that if you live with someone for a period of time (EDIT: I hink it's 12 months) the law considers you married. Dude probably didn't even know :damn:
 

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i don't even consider it simping cause they weren't even married. The law is so fukked up in Canada that if you live with someone for a period of time (EDIT: I hink it's 12 months) the law considers you married. Dude probably didn't even know :damn:

You guys better be careful. Common law marriage is applicable in most states. The length of time varies between states. I suggest men look into their state law before moving a woman in.
 

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i don't even consider it simping cause they weren't even married. The law is so fukked up in Canada that if you live with someone for a period of time (EDIT: I hink it's 12 months) the law considers you married. Dude probably didn't even know :damn:

Its simping when you meet a groupie back stage and have a 9 year relationship with her. :damn:
 

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Its simping when you meet a groupie back stage and have a 9 year relationship with her. :damn:
he probably just considered her home p*ssy and put her in an appartment or whatever. it's tricking MAYBE. but not necessarely simping. Dude probably just didn't know the law.
 

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Figure i drop this for all you virgin ass nikkas still on that 3 day phone rule

when ever you get a girl number son

never hesitate to hit her up

i usually hit her up that day

you cant expect to be the only nikka chasing that bytch lol

in 3 days she prolly

1. met another nikka
2. forgot ya fukkin name
3. lost interest

women get approached on the daily son
 

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Figure i drop this for all you virgin ass nikkas still on that 3 day phone rule

when ever you get a girl number son

never hesitate to hit her up

i usually hit her up that day

you cant expect to be the only nikka chasing that bytch lol

in 3 days she prolly

1. met another nikka
2. forgot ya fukkin name
3. lost interest

women get approached on the daily son
The problem with your approach isn't the approach its the attitude behind it. your vantage point is "I better get with her asap or I lose." its impossible to lose something you never had in the first place. if you lose the opportunity to have her then you still lost nothing because the opportunity isn't the same as actually having her.

the better attitude to have is so what if she met another nikka? so what if she forgot your name? so what if she lost interest? there's so many women out here that she has no real value as an individual. if she gets drop she can be replaced the same day. even if you do lose her it doesn't really matter.
 
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