if you enjoying dates and have side chicks for sex, why even bring up didnt hit a chick yet?
lmfaoooo who tf dudes be capping for
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if you enjoying dates and have side chicks for sex, why even bring up didnt hit a chick yet?
lmfaoooo who tf dudes be capping for
Idk what you think you’re getting off with these smileys. Nicca said after 1 date you should be going to someone’s house. How many women have let you come to their house after 1 date. Big Cap ass nicca.Then Whats the issue, enjoy your dates tf
i brought up not hitting a chick yet because I was asked that question dummy. My main point was shorty was starting to fall back.
I said 1-2 dates. If you think it takes 5+ dates to meet at a chicks crib thats on you my boy
Dudes single talking bout they got side chicks, thats not how it works. All yall single
Dudes gonna keep catching Ls cause they not honest with themselves about what they even want from a chick
Dudes gonna keep catching Ls cause they not honest with themselves about what they even want from a chick
I said 1-2 dates. If you think it takes 5+ dates to meet at a chicks crib thats on you my boy
Yeah… lol I’m not doing 5+ Just to hit.
Max is 2.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
i said before bros gonna keep losing cause they dont even know why the hell they entertaining chicks, its like they just programmed to simp
They egos so big they gonna remix the situation to sound like they in control when they were just in here saying they messed up.
1.IF you only wanna smash why the hell you going on hella dates
2.IF you looking for a buddy, sex shouldn't matter, nor her job or anything else, if she cool and yall have good convo thats all that matters.
3.If you looking for a wife all them random ass simp dates aint doing nothing to vet if a woman has the qualities to be a wife. And you damn sure aint using no roster talk either.
Before brehs even step out the house they need to outline what they looking for in life, so they can be aware when things deviate from that goal, so they can pull out before they mess themselves up.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
i said before bros gonna keep losing cause they dont even know why the hell they entertaining chicks, its like they just programmed to simp
They egos so big they gonna remix the situation to sound like they in control when they were just in here saying they messed up.
1.IF you only wanna smash why the hell you going on hella dates
2.IF you looking for a buddy, sex shouldn't matter, nor her job or anything else, if she cool and yall have good convo thats all that matters.
3.If you looking for a wife all them random ass simp dates aint doing nothing to vet if a woman has the qualities to be a wife. And you damn sure aint using no roster talk either.
Before brehs even step out the house they need to outline what they looking for in life, so they can be aware when things deviate from that goal, so they can pull out before they mess themselves up.
Dudes be sitting here going out on 4 or 5 dates to hang out with women then look confused after they try to hit after all that claiming women are "toxic" cuz they got "used".
Brehs be setting themselves up for failure
Dudes be sitting here going out on 4 or 5 dates to hang out with women then look confused after they try to hit after all that claiming women are "toxic" cuz they got "used".
Brehs be setting themselves up for failure
exactly lol. How you start is what they expect you to maintain so if you coming in on some BFF lets have fun at six flags stuff they gonna look at you crazy when you go left field. You aint gotta do all that extra crap to get to know folks, and if you just want sex you wasting your damn time putting in all that time and energy. Dudes probably be texting chicks daily, sending good morning text and everything. Dudes still playing the field like its 1999 not realizing things have changed. Dudes getting ran by these chicks and then when dudes tell em take a step back and reassess the situation thats when they want to get offended. But not offended at them going on 5 dates with a chick, and breh she smashing aint taking her no where.
Yup.
That’s why I just drop my number and see their energy. If no message back within 2-3 hours. I’m out.
Texting is extremely light convo, phone calls are for dates. In person, is where all your energy should be.
I’m straight up, let’s link, grab a drink, share playlist, etc.
With the advent of video chat imoIf she don’t come to the crib after the first date I cut her offI strategically take them on dates that are a block or two from my place though.
1.FT to make sure she aint catfish
2.First date energy/chemistry check
3.Chilling at someones spot (assuming 2 didnt = smashing if all you want is sex, chilling at the spot even if sex aint what you want enables deeper convo).
After chemistry is there yall should be having deeper convo, and its tough to do that when you are balancing activities (eating/being active). If chick is really feeling you she doesn't care what yall do when the chemistry is established because she just wants to be in your presence.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
Smh i dont see how dudes is still lost nowadays.
shyt, if anything get her to meet you at a place you like going to and thats the "first date". All that going bowling and playing Putt-Putt aint gone get her to wanna fukk.
When in a time where thotting is at an alltime high and brehs think they gone "friend" their way into some ass
You gone be picking her up for date #6 right after the other dude fukked and left 3 hours ago
Smh i dont see how dudes is still lost nowadays.
shyt, if anything get her to meet you at a place you like going to and thats the "first date". All that going bowling and playing Putt-Putt aint gone get her to wanna fukk.
When in a time where thotting is at an alltime high and brehs think they gone "friend" their way into some ass
You gone be picking her up for date #6 right after the other dude fukked and left 3 hours ago
lmfao exactly breh. 1st date in 2021 = lets meet in person to make sure you not crazy. Fun stuff is reserved for women you sleeping with especially in a world of equality lol. And with a woman I'm sleeping with we doing stuff I already planned on doing, I'm just extending the offer to her to tag along if she free (this assumes she cool people), but I'm not changing my schedule based on her or anything like that. She grown if she wanna go somewhere with me that I didnt think of she can set it up, but I'm not doing all that planning dates and crap like that lol. If you wanna be round me and we aint got plans then just pull up to the crib and we call it a day.
Brehs really dont understand that we are the commodity, a woman should feel blessed to be in the presence of a productive man, so all that stuff dudes doing is showing women he is a mark. Ol Im so blessed I met shawty, she a boss chick head ass boys
Straw Hat Luffy
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Guys are too NICE when they shouldn't be.
If nothing is official, as discussed and agreed from both sides, everything should be fair game.
Dudes going on a date or two or hooking up with a girl a few times does not mean you're supposed to stop the hunt. If anything continuing to do both only sharpens the skills.
shyt is no different from an NBA player shooting around before the game, playing in the game, taking time after the game to shootaround, practice, and even pick up games every day in the off-season. It's why they're in the pros.
This is why I
when I see coli brehs in here talking about they took a break from the game for a few months. Brehs be super rusty with no mojo now.
I say guys are too nice because dudes will drop everything for one girl either not to hurt her feelings or from fear he will mess a potential relationship up.
Men shouldn't let society shame them for this either. Women got dudes all in their inbox, text messages, and snapchat. She could drop you for another guy in the blink of an eye if she loses interest.
And what do you have left? You dropped everyone else, and you're rusty.
Learn!
If nothing is official, as discussed and agreed from both sides, everything should be fair game.
Dudes going on a date or two or hooking up with a girl a few times does not mean you're supposed to stop the hunt. If anything continuing to do both only sharpens the skills.
shyt is no different from an NBA player shooting around before the game, playing in the game, taking time after the game to shootaround, practice, and even pick up games every day in the off-season. It's why they're in the pros.
This is why I
when I see coli brehs in here talking about they took a break from the game for a few months. Brehs be super rusty with no mojo now. I say guys are too nice because dudes will drop everything for one girl either not to hurt her feelings or from fear he will mess a potential relationship up.
Men shouldn't let society shame them for this either. Women got dudes all in their inbox, text messages, and snapchat. She could drop you for another guy in the blink of an eye if she loses interest.
And what do you have left? You dropped everyone else, and you're rusty.
Learn!