Ronald McDonald
Even in the darkest nights, I'm a MAC for life
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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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Marriage rates are plummeting.
rapdonttweet
Pro
"It is much easier and much more natural to get to know somebody through e-mail."
The fukk? Is this article satire?
I am not sure if it is, but to even think that someone would suggest that getting to know someone through email is easier and is more "natural" is what is bothering me most about the future generations.
How can that way POSSIBLY be more natural? It's one thing to say its a nice option to have, but natural? I'm telling you man, the more I think about it the happier I am that I grew up just before the internet popped off. You can't possibly tell body language through email, text, or whatever instant messenger you are using.
None of this is really relevant to this thread, but I felt it was necessary to post after my short story I posted a couple of pages back. I hope none of you guys know anyone who feels the same way this guy did right? I mean...REALLY
its crazy how clear sounding his voice was back then. his voice is all messed up now.
CrossBones
Louder than words
what is this? sometimes I think they just get writers to write about any old topic to troll the readership and get hits, or the writers themselves have no clue and maintain a front like theyre saying some new, revolutionary shyt. its much easier to fake, and portray what it isnt through email than anything else. there is no easier way as a matter of fact.
RhymesWell
All Star
CrossBones
Louder than words
if youre head over heels infatuated with a woman, youre in more danger than anybody else in the relationship. chances are, they dont feel the same and youre making yourself more likely to take everything too hard. during, and after the relationship. you cant do that. in effect, its putting yourself subserviant and under the woman.
you have to understand, from what I see in the healthier marriages and older couples - the husband isnt running behind his woman, always worried about her, kissing up to her, or being a moist, luvy wuby type of man. being mr romantic all damn day. that doesnt harvest any kind of good emotions from her, or make somebody fall in love with you. simpness in a relationship doesnt guarantee longevity as much as it paints you as a man who "needs" her too much. its a result of you, putting too much of your concerns in a relationship. in actuality it weakens the relationship.
have that balance to where your needs, and what you want are handled and respected as well. set some parameters. understand, a woman isnt going to do that. you need to set the pace, lay the groundwork, and be able to use it whenever you need.
a real, grounded man, knows that you have to give her space, not be too concerned with it, and in the end be able to put your foot down so that youre respected. youre not wishy washy or bowing to her (whos the leader here?). the more respect that you establish for who you are, the more that love and understanding can come from that situation. you be there for her when its rough, but not at every little annoying thing she has going on. you need your space. so get that space working for you, and you let her know that youre there when she needs, but not whenever she wants. you have yourself to worry about yourself too. in other words, every man needs his peace and quiet at times.
you have to understand, from what I see in the healthier marriages and older couples - the husband isnt running behind his woman, always worried about her, kissing up to her, or being a moist, luvy wuby type of man. being mr romantic all damn day. that doesnt harvest any kind of good emotions from her, or make somebody fall in love with you. simpness in a relationship doesnt guarantee longevity as much as it paints you as a man who "needs" her too much. its a result of you, putting too much of your concerns in a relationship. in actuality it weakens the relationship.
have that balance to where your needs, and what you want are handled and respected as well. set some parameters. understand, a woman isnt going to do that. you need to set the pace, lay the groundwork, and be able to use it whenever you need.
a real, grounded man, knows that you have to give her space, not be too concerned with it, and in the end be able to put your foot down so that youre respected. youre not wishy washy or bowing to her (whos the leader here?). the more respect that you establish for who you are, the more that love and understanding can come from that situation. you be there for her when its rough, but not at every little annoying thing she has going on. you need your space. so get that space working for you, and you let her know that youre there when she needs, but not whenever she wants. you have yourself to worry about yourself too. in other words, every man needs his peace and quiet at times.
ThejohnT
SchoolboyToon
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Fellas anybody ever notice when women take picture the whole hand on the hip thing?Im not sayin thats a red flag but...sometimes notice the details. Also if a woman says she is a diva then cut bait and keep it moving. Those are the worse types imo 
Lil' Kartwheel
The Chicken Box Man
Adding to this, be on the look out for those women that claim they are "Southern belles". They usually have no manners and act in the opposite way that a "lady" should act.Fellas anybody ever notice when women take picture the whole hand on the hip thing?Im not sayin thats a red flag but...sometimes notice the details. Also if a woman says she is a diva then cut bait and keep it moving. Those are the worse types imo
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Im in the south and trust me....northern women are more friendlier. SOME women in the south are flat out rude. A smile is deceiving.
Lil' Kartwheel
The Chicken Box Man
I'm in the South as well, breh. I find that west coast women are friendlier though...never chopped it up with a northern chick before.