Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

Dudes shouldn't be going raw until they are are engaged/married.

True. But that feeling of going raw is a powerful draw. It's also how many guys end up with women and kids they didn't want.

The downside is if you mess with the wrong woman and she gets pregnant and all you were looking for was casual fun.

But it’s like what you say about men approaching women as a boyfriend, instead of telling her upfront what you’re seeking and where you are at mentally.

It’s why I personally no longer find pleasure in risking that raw life with randoms.

 

[Apollo Creed]

True. But that feeling of going raw is a powerful draw. It's also how many guys end up with women and kids they didn't want.

The downside is if you mess with the wrong woman and she gets pregnant and all you were looking for was casual fun.

But it’s like what you say about men approaching women as a boyfriend, instead of telling her upfront what you’re seeking and where you are at mentally.

It’s why I personally no longer find pleasure in risking that raw life with randoms.

yeah when I was Raw Dog King, my goal wasn't running the streets, but right now I am not relationship minded what so ever, so I'm never going raw again (unless I'm drunk or some moment of passion happens lol) until I'm engaged

 

[Serious]

The fact you went through with it is an L on you

Fam, I was like wtf am i reading.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Fam, I was like wtf am i reading.

God be saving dudes lives and they still moving reckless lol. Women are delusional but lotta the dusty stuff they talk about is real. Dudes not protecting their seed then will cry about child support

 

[MikelArteta]

Wow breh what a day

This chick messaged me in the morning and said she’s bored and said we should meet later. I said sure let’s meet at Dave and busters

but I didn’t hear from her again so thought nothing of it then at 430 she tells me she’s here

I got ready fast and met up her. Chick was banging we chilled and just played video games

Other chick is getting cold so meh

 

[Serious]

Wow breh what a day

This chick messaged me in the morning and said she’s bored and said we should meet later. I said sure let’s meet at Dave and busters

but I didn’t hear from her again so thought nothing of it then at 430 she tells me she’s here

I got ready fast and met up her. Chick was banging we chilled and just played video games

Other chick is getting cold so meh

you smash yet?

 

[Apollo Creed]

Lol

 

[MikelArteta]

you smash yet?

lol nah breh just met her at dave and busters she drove an hour out .

other chick who i went to her spot twice is now al silent and waffling

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I use a site here called getcheckedonline

You can setup an account, go to a lifelab here in Vancouver and get your results in a few days. Any chick I deal with I’ve put onto that site and they’ve thanked me. Best of all we can both show each other. As you can log in and and get your results. I love it as it shows a willingness to respect each others sexual health.

The issue with the old way is you have to take someone on their word that they’re ‘clean’ I’ve had a few close calls with women. Never want to repeat how I felt before I got my all clear.

I straight up ask a woman before we get intimate when was the last time they had a STI check. I seriously don't play with my health. I’m happy when a woman asks me before we get down to it. For me its condoms until we both have our clear tests.

appreciate the advice my man. I will definitely check if there’s any websites similar to that one for my city (I’m in Atlanta).

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

The chick I like was going through a thing so she kept pushing me away and I was sort of fukking up… so I said fukk it went out and either made out/smashed a few girls at the same place I met her… I’m pretty sure she found out and I don’t got tristian Thompson money so she been ignoring me

I know she probably hasn’t been innocent out here either. But I wanna know if I lay low for a while could I possibly get a second chance when things cool off?


I know I ain’t shyt but women not either yo some of these chicks hang out with her once and a while or have worked with her…. They all made a move on me and in the process they trash talked her for no reason when I never brought her up women really be out here shyt talking one another but pretend to be cool


And another thing I learned in these hook ups…. Some women take it wayyyy to personal when you don’t wanna hook up and they’re attracted to you. Kept turning down a couple females once the beer goggles wore off and they both deleted me from everything

 

[Apollo Creed]

The chick I like was going through a thing so she kept pushing me away and I was sort of fukking up… so I said fukk it went out and either made out/smashed a few girls at the same place I met her… I’m pretty sure she found out and I don’t got tristian Thompson money so she been ignoring me

I know she probably hasn’t been innocent out here either. But I wanna know if I lay low for a while could I possibly get a second chance when things cool off?


I know I ain’t shyt but women not either yo some of these chicks hang out with her once and a while or have worked with her…. They all made a move on me and in the process they trash talked her for no reason when I never brought her up women really be out here shyt talking one another but pretend to be cool


And another thing I learned in these hook ups…. Some women take it wayyyy to personal when you don’t wanna hook up and they’re attracted to you. Kept turning down a couple females once the beer goggles wore off and they both deleted me from everything

bro said second chance. Go wash ya face

 

[RaspberryFitted]

The chick I like was going through a thing so she kept pushing me away and I was sort of fukking up… so I said fukk it went out and either made out/smashed a few girls at the same place I met her… I’m pretty sure she found out and I don’t got tristian Thompson money so she been ignoring me

I know she probably hasn’t been innocent out here either. But I wanna know if I lay low for a while could I possibly get a second chance when things cool off?


I know I ain’t shyt but women not either yo some of these chicks hang out with her once and a while or have worked with her…. They all made a move on me and in the process they trash talked her for no reason when I never brought her up women really be out here shyt talking one another but pretend to be cool

you said the girl was going through “a thing”, went and fukked around with other girls, assumed she was sleeping around to make your situation better, and now want a second chance?

you made your bed, now sleep in it

edit: playboy faithful boyfriend

 

[MikelArteta]

The chick I like was going through a thing so she kept pushing me away and I was sort of fukking up… so I said fukk it went out and either made out/smashed a few girls at the same place I met her… I’m pretty sure she found out and I don’t got tristian Thompson money so she been ignoring me

I know she probably hasn’t been innocent out here either. But I wanna know if I lay low for a while could I possibly get a second chance when things cool off?


I know I ain’t shyt but women not either yo some of these chicks hang out with her once and a while or have worked with her…. They all made a move on me and in the process they trash talked her for no reason when I never brought her up women really be out here shyt talking one another but pretend to be cool


And another thing I learned in these hook ups…. Some women take it wayyyy to personal when you don’t wanna hook up and they’re attracted to you. Kept turning down a couple females once the beer goggles wore off and they both deleted me from everything

like i said women change like the wind, chick invited me to her spot twice last week now zip zero. I only messaged because we were spose to meet in the morning but now she said "she didn't go to work tonight" . Just deleted her number, these chicks think I'm born big and ish yeah right. The moment a chick gets flaky, wishy washy I'm out.

thankfully I didn't throw all my eggs in one basket had a great evening with dave and busters chick and still have two other chicks im working on another nurse and this Bahamian chick

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

bro said second chance. Go wash ya face

you said the girl was going through “a thing”, went and fukked around with other girls, assumed she was sleeping around to make your situation better, and now want a second chance?

you made your bed, now sleep in it

edit: playboy faithful boyfriend

What happened to the good ol days where playboys get second chances because he turned it around


In my defense I tried helping her and being supportive and also just tried hanging out with her but she kept pushing me away

but I wish I didn’t do all those hookups

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

like i said women change like the wind, chick invited me to her spot twice last week now zip zero. I only messaged because we were spose to meet in the morning but now she said "she didn't go to work tonight" . Just deleted her number, these chicks think i'm born big and ish yeah right

thankfully I didn't throw all my eggs in one basket had a great evening with dave and busters chick and still have two other chicks im working on another nurse and this Bahamian chick

Basically the same situation except I’ve been talking to her for months but over the past three weeks she went distant and cold


And I want to add I kept wanting to progress the relationship but she said we’re just talking


Half my friends say I’m insensitive because she’s going through shyt and that I need to stop being a player out here if I want something serious and use this as a lesson


Others are saying fukk her because i kept trying