Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Reality]

Your boy is single for the first time in a minute...a lot of matches on the apps, but honestly feelin uninspired. I can't invite craziness in my space and it takes too long to suss it out on these apps. In my early 30s and feeling like I have a lot more to lose. Not looking for anything serious soon, so fukking with these 29, 30, and 31 year old chicks has me off. These 24, 25 yo chicks are just complete birds though.

 

[MikelArteta]

Have two dates tomorrow both at the same time

I’ve never met any of these chicks before can’t even decide which one to cancel

 

[Ahadi]

Your boy is single for the first time in a minute...a lot of matches on the apps, but honestly feelin uninspired. I can't invite craziness in my space and it takes too long to suss it out on these apps. In my early 30s and feeling like I have a lot more to lose. Not looking for anything serious soon, so fukking with these 29, 30, and 31 year old chicks has me off. These 24, 25 yo chicks are just complete birds though.

I get that completely. Haven’t been single in a min. Just take the time to learn about yourself, try new things, enjoy having quiet time & space. Even going to a bar alone to chill, mingle with no expectations. It takes a lot of time to let someone in, once you ended something. You almost have to reset yourself for the next person.

Im not trying at all either. Im just chillin and vetting better, cause now you understand you have a lot to lose. Especially when you are a man / or building to become a man of value.

 

[Capitol]

Just wanted to say I appreciate and learn a lot from yall. I was about to settle for some measly side nikka role but I think I can do a lot better than that

 

[Ohene]

When it comes to phone/text etiquette, the only woman you should always answer her call or respond immediately when she texts you is a woman you are in a relationship with. Anybody else, you get back to them when you get back to them.

These hoes be out here playing games, taking forever to respond to texts and calls. They be testing us. Had a chic recently who I texted, and she was texting me back 8 hrs later or so. So I doubled it and waited even longer before I responded back to her. Every time she took a while to respond to me, I took even longer to respond to her.

After doing that for a couple of exchanges, now she messaging me back within 10 min.

Always remember this brehs. Its stupid, it's juvenile, but this is how you gotta do with these heffas in 2022. I learned the hard way.

I thought me and a chic was cool enough for me to respond back to her within 15 min initially and to answer when she called me.

Second I started doing that, she started pulling back. I had to get back on my pimpin and spread it out. Once I started making her wait till I got finished doing what I was doing, then she came back around.

bytches are so wack

 

[Be Strong Blackman]

Which do y’all have more success with Apps or in-person approaches?

I have no problem landing dates on apps but I keep fukkin up somehow on dates- not sure why/how. I’ve never really had trouble getting ladies until I moved to Chicago/USA a year ago after living abroad. Im like should I FaceTime/video chat before or what?
What’s the game? I used you average like 1 in 3…. NOw I’m like 1 in 10

 

[Ahadi]

Which do y’all have more success with Apps or in-person approaches?

I have no problem landing dates on apps but I keep fukkin up somehow on dates- not sure why/how. I’ve never really had trouble getting ladies until I moved to Chicago/USA a year ago after living abroad. Im like should I FaceTime/video chat before or what?
What’s the game? I used you average like 1 in 3…. NOw I’m like 1 in 10

Im actually starting to like apps better. I listen to The Lead Attorney and he was saying how it’s easier to vet, but also background check, figure out what you’re getting into, if you have a lot going for yourself. Especially if you can see if they “like you” first. The spontaneous meet up in real life is cool too, but there’s still a lot of mystery (kids, drama, type of woman, etc). But I don’t mind it, even if I’m in a overseas location.

If you go on a quality app, Hinge / Maybe Bumble or other higher level ones (The League or a blackpeoplemeet.com) you may have a a better experience.

As far as dates / meet ups, times are changing, you gotta move quick. As soon as you match, you should be trying to meet the same day or get the number and transition off the app. (Link on weekdays, never on weekends unless it’s guaranteed box)

Don’t FaceTime, you become pen pal status.

 

[Tr0yTV]

How do you brehs handle women that are used to guys blowing money on them? I don’t do that and I’ve never had this issue before but she keeps making slick remarks. I’ll admit I’m only putting up with it cause she is a 9 with a crazy body. She also talking about she want a relationship but I like her a lot so it might happen

 

[RaspberryFitted]

How do you brehs handle women that are used to guys blowing money on them? I don’t do that and I’ve never had this issue before but she keeps making slick remarks. I’ll admit I’m only putting up with it cause she is a 9 with a crazy body. She also talking about she want a relationship but I like her a lot so it might happen

I personally haven’t been in a situation like that in terms of finances, but anytime I’ve date a woman who’s from a different lifestyle than mine.. it never works out.

a chick who’s used to tricks sounds like the worst type, since there’s an unlimited supply of em.

 

[Ahadi]

How do you brehs handle women that are used to guys blowing money on them? I don’t do that and I’ve never had this issue before but she keeps making slick remarks. I’ll admit I’m only putting up with it cause she is a 9 with a crazy body. She also talking about she want a relationship but I like her a lot so it might happen

Ah.. so shes sees you as relationship material guy.

Well, enjoy the ride, it’s just your turn. Unless you got it like that. 9s & 10s with that mindset are for rich / wealthy.

I was in a similar situation with an IG model / single mother & she had a kid by some dude in Dubai. The guy is loaded, shopping sprees everyday, car service, roses, I chalked it up to the game.

 

[Serious]

Which do y’all have more success with Apps or in-person approaches?

I have no problem landing dates on apps but I keep fukkin up somehow on dates- not sure why/how. I’ve never really had trouble getting ladies until I moved to Chicago/USA a year ago after living abroad. Im like should I FaceTime/video chat before or what?
What’s the game? I used you average like 1 in 3…. NOw I’m like 1 in 10

In person, I used to kill at bars, clubs and social events, online is different beast. I just don’t like the leverage. Like I can attract women and get matches but it’s not organic, plus I’m always a little skeptic until we meet up.

 

[Serious]

How do you brehs handle women that are used to guys blowing money on them? I don’t do that and I’ve never had this issue before but she keeps making slick remarks. I’ll admit I’m only putting up with it cause she is a 9 with a crazy body. She also talking about she want a relationship but I like her a lot so it might happen

See if it’s an expectation or just dudes in the past. You never know, just because a woman dealt with tricks doesn’t mean she respects them. They was in a symbiotic relationship, a dude tricked on her and she gave them her “attention”, but that doesn’t mean she was really entertained.

 

[Wargames]

I’m moving to southern italy next week for remote work for 3 months got my own Airbnb. Got my hinge and tinder already set up no matches as of yet but going to make it clear I’m only there temporarily should be an interesting winter

Looks like there is an American navy base in Naples already seen a few navy chicks on hinge

Ironically enough staying near a Navy Base is always a good idea. Between the barrack bunnies and the locals who are down to fukk you should have some options. Just keep everything casual and have fun and be safe cause they can spread.

 

[DapMeUp!]

When it comes to phone/text etiquette, the only woman you should always answer her call or respond immediately when she texts you is a woman you are in a relationship with. Anybody else, you get back to them when you get back to them.

These hoes be out here playing games, taking forever to respond to texts and calls. They be testing us. Had a chic recently who I texted, and she was texting me back 8 hrs later or so. So I doubled it and waited even longer before I responded back to her. Every time she took a while to respond to me, I took even longer to respond to her.

After doing that for a couple of exchanges, now she messaging me back within 10 min.

Always remember this brehs. Its stupid, it's juvenile, but this is how you gotta do with these heffas in 2022. I learned the hard way.

I thought me and a chic was cool enough for me to respond back to her within 15 min initially and to answer when she called me.

Second I started doing that, she started pulling back. I had to get back on my pimpin and spread it out. Once I started making her wait till I got finished doing what I was doing, then she came back around.

Not gonna lie, when chicks start doing that long reply thing, I just stop responding unless they double text

Thsse bytches know what the fukk they are doing, the reason I get so many double texting after I do this is an acknowledgement of that They wouldn't text again if they didn't think they fukked up.

 

[Ohene]

How do you brehs handle women that are used to guys blowing money on them? I don’t do that and I’ve never had this issue before but she keeps making slick remarks. I’ll admit I’m only putting up with it cause she is a 9 with a crazy body. She also talking about she want a relationship but I like her a lot so it might happen

Have you already fcked?