Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Snoopy Loops]

Thanks a lot y'all. Got rid of her and had to take the financial L cause she didn't wanna pay me back for my ticket on the trip and the half I paid for the hotel.

Might see if I can get the ticket from her and just take the trip by myself at another hotel.

It was just that day but I tried to resolve it and she wasn't hearing it and said I was always whining or complaining. With her it's always something so I just decided to dead it.

Shidd, youre more decisive than me. That being said, idk tho, conflict is natural, and to throw in the towel that quick seems a bit too decisive, but it sounds youre not really feeling ol girl like that, hence your lack of patience with her.

 

[The ADD]

Lesson here………..don’t take trips with chicks you are in lukewarm situations with

 

[Apollo Creed]

Thanks a lot y'all. Got rid of her and had to take the financial L cause she didn't wanna pay me back for my ticket on the trip and the half I paid for the hotel.

Might see if I can get the ticket from her and just take the trip by myself at another hotel.

It was just that day but I tried to resolve it and she wasn't hearing it and said I was always whining or complaining. With her it's always something so I just decided to dead it.

Bro dont even reach out to her, take the Financial L and move on. God gonna reward you 10 fold. Her not paying you back on GP further shows what you were dealing with

 

[Apollo Creed]

Lesson here………..don’t take trips with chicks you are in lukewarm situations with

more like dont go half, and if you do be prepared for an L lol.

If breh paid for it in all or she paid in full, they could just make up a sob story and get they money back/a travel credit for another trip.

 

[The ADD]

more like dont go half, and if you do be prepared for an L lol.

If breh paid for it in all or she paid in full, they could just make up a sob story and get they money back/a travel credit for another trip.

You smart

 

[Apollo Creed]

You smart

When I was in a relationship and split anything it would be more so I pay for flights & food, she cover room or took care of ubers, than a literal split in half. So if push came to shove we take care of what we paid for on our own.

 

[Guvnor]

Shidd, youre more decisive than me. That being said, idk tho, conflict is natural, and to throw in the towel that quick seems a bit too decisive, but it sounds youre not really feeling ol girl like that, hence your lack of patience with her.

Nah something always felt off to me and we were together 8 month. She's the type that doesn't mind going half on dates or paying for meals, cooking for me, even bought me an Apple Watch for Christmas. Gave me the keys to her crib which I never asked for and seemed like a good catch but like I said the passion wasn't there for me. She claimed it was the long hours she worked and the stress of her job but I was iffy on her and tried to give things a chance but nah.

 

[OmegaK2099]

Has anyone ever suffered from emotional trauma following an emotionally abusive relationship? I already suffer from depression and suicidal thoughts. It got bad last year and I didn't want to be alone. My ex wanted to start up an affair with me while I was going through this but she put me through that shyt. I'm currently back in the hospital because my ulcer is bleeding again. I'll keep you updated. I just feel so alone right now.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Nah something always felt off to me and we were together 8 month. She's the type that doesn't mind going half on dates or paying for meals, cooking for me, even bought me an Apple Watch for Christmas. Gave me the keys to her crib which I never asked for and seemed like a good catch but like I said the passion wasn't there for me. She claimed it was the long hours she worked and the stress of her job but I was iffy on her and tried to give things a chance but nah.

you're dealing with a modern woman but it sounds like you expected a traditional spouse. If a chick is working you can't expect her to get off work and cater to you 100%. The work world is draining, but we (men and women) still tend to hold traditional expectations from the 'love display' stand point when we really moving like non gendered partners lol.

We gotta adjust our expectations, unless you plan on 'retiring' a woman.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Has anyone ever suffered from emotional trauma following an emotionally abusive relationship? I already suffer from depression and suicidal thoughts. It got bad last year and I didn't want to be alone. My ex wanted to start up an affair with me while I was going through this but she put me through that shyt. I'm currently back in the hospital because my ulcer is bleeding again. I'll keep you updated. I just feel so alone right now.

you got any family? Close friends? I feel you should confide in them. A woman won’t be much help with the trauma you’re experiencing.

get well with the ulcer btw. I had a bacteria in my stomach that had the potential to become an ulcer.

 

[RealAssanova]

Lesson here………..don’t take trips with chicks you are in lukewarm situations with

Don’t take trips with a woman you ain’t married to.

Fixed.

 

[The ADD]

Don’t take trips with a woman you ain’t married to.

Fixed.

Wouldn’t go that far. If y’all are truly on the same page about what y’all are it’s fine.

Come on guise

 

[RealAssanova]

Wouldn’t go that far. If y’all are truly on the same page about what y’all are it’s fine.

Come on guise

Relationships are meaningless and tend to have en expiry date unless you marry the woman imo.

And marriage is a big thing that requires extensive vetting and screening.

So i’d much rather hedge my bets on a woman i’m married to than someone i’m not married to.

But that’s just me

 

[The ADD]

Relationships are meaningless and tend to have en expiry date unless you marry the woman imo.

And marriage is a big thing that requires extensive vetting and screening.

So i’d much rather hedge my bets on a woman i’m married to than someone i’m not married to.

But that’s just me

What’s the logic in paying for and engagement, wedding, etc. but you wouldn’t travel with same said person until y’all are married?

 

[Action Mike]

What the logic in I would paying for and engagement, wedding, etc. but you wouldn’t travel with same said person until y’all are married?

I agree, that no trips is extreme

It's even a requirement before getting even more serious - a big eye opener on certain things going on vacation