Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Married brehs…

me and my wife have been married for about 8months now and here in the last month she hasn’t been in the mood for sex. I may have smashed a couple times in the last two weeks compared to before we were having sex 5-7 times a week.

Every time I ask what’s going on and why haven’t we been getting intimate lately she just says “I don’t know” or “I’m just not in the mood.” I’ve been trying to be patient and not pressure her into doing anything but it’s starting to get frustrating…

Get married brehs :francis:

You already know the first mistake....the second is asking for sex. Get yourself a fresh bird and plow away. If she's not your whore at all times, she's not the one. You might feel like she is, and simp for her constantly, but look where that's gotten you. Begging for sex, from your own wife. Why not just do that with a stranger? At least you'd have fun with a pretty slimmy. I seriously doubt you're even going to give her an ultimatum, so you might as well go play the field.
 

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Exactly. Can’t believe we got nikkas in here talking about running bath water and shyt for bytches. :mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:
Using sex toys to get your wife in the mood. :hhh::hhh::hhh:

They love ignoring my fortune cookies on here, because many won't even admit that they're simps/squares. If you can't even take the first step...imagine everything else? Also they might not be the dikk for their women....they settled with dopey Daniel, and let me destroy them. Funny how I never heard a woman tell me now, literally all the girls I'm with reach for my dikk or kiss on me, etc....a lot of men, have yet to realize that they aren't the sexual maven they think they are in their own partner's mind.
 

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This is broke nikka mindset. Her money will never be yours and one day she will resent you for making less than her. If shes not your cup of tea physially then her redeeming quality should be her complete and utter submission to you and your mission. Anything else is not worth the trouble

every dude who come in here on that “she got a good job and nice car” is an L waiting to happen
:russ:
 

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Man thinking about breaking up w my girlfriend. I love her a lot however, I feel used, and under-appreciated. I be feeling like im just there for attention and validation, not to mention her childlike behavior.

starting to see I’m not as assertive as I thought. As a BF I have a lot of room for improvement.

not too worried about finding new girls as much as I am with finding one I actually like/ love and enjoy to be around. as i think about it, she and i should’ve broke up several times by now

kinda sucks :/
 

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Man thinking about breaking up w my girlfriend. I love her a lot however, I feel used, and under-appreciated. I be feeling like im just there for attention and validation, not to mention her childlike behavior.

starting to see I’m not as assertive as I thought. As a BF I have a lot of room for improvement.

not too worried about finding new girls as much as I am with finding one I actually like/ love and enjoy to be around. as i think about it, she and i should’ve broke up several times by now

kinda sucks :/

Self awareness is key.

It’s good that you figured it out as young as possible. Time to build yourself up, be the man you want to be and give your next woman, the proper energy she’s looking for. Then you’ll receive the outcomes YOUR looking for.
 

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Man thinking about breaking up w my girlfriend. I love her a lot however, I feel used, and under-appreciated. I be feeling like im just there for attention and validation, not to mention her childlike behavior.

starting to see I’m not as assertive as I thought. As a BF I have a lot of room for improvement.

not too worried about finding new girls as much as I am with finding one I actually like/ love and enjoy to be around. as i think about it, she and i should’ve broke up several times by now

kinda sucks :/

bruh friday night my bytch had a stank ass attitude.,,.sat we didnt even speak went to her apt and packed my shyt….still aint talk to her and dont plan on. Textn her first
 

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bruh friday night my bytch had a stank ass attitude.,,.sat we didnt even speak went to her apt and packed my shyt….still aint talk to her and dont plan on. Textn her first

how long y’all been rockin
 

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Man thinking about breaking up w my girlfriend. I love her a lot however, I feel used, and under-appreciated. I be feeling like im just there for attention and validation, not to mention her childlike behavior.

starting to see I’m not as assertive as I thought. As a BF I have a lot of room for improvement.

not too worried about finding new girls as much as I am with finding one I actually like/ love and enjoy to be around. as i think about it, she and i should’ve broke up several times by now

kinda sucks :/

As I ask several men....do you even think you might be a square? or even a simp? Its not about insulting you, but statistically speaking, someone has to fill those categories. You have to be honest with yourself and come out with a conclusion that you might not enjoy or that's hard to swallow. From what you've mentioned, you definitely simped out for her, if you feel used especially, you also didn't set the parameters or standards for her to keep you happy. Essentially, you were lonely and looking for a partner, which is fine, but you did so in spite of your own self worth.
 

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As I ask several men....do you even think you might be a square? or even a simp? Its not about insulting you, but statistically speaking, someone has to fill those categories. You have to be honest with yourself and come out with a conclusion that you might not enjoy or that's hard to swallow. From what you've mentioned, you definitely simped out for her, if you feel used especially, you also didn't set the parameters or standards for her to keep you happy. Essentially, you were lonely and looking for a partner, which is fine, but you did so in spite of your own self worth.
A square? Not so much, however I’m definitely simping. Big issues looking back were not setting boundaries, or setting them, then allowing them to be breached. Thing is, I wasn’t even looking for anyone fr, she came to me and we REALLY hit it off. It’s been over 2yrs now.

thru that time, i noticed myself devolve/ weaken in a way. idk how to describe it, but it’s like there are so many things i wouldn’t put up w that i do w her. issues that should be talked about i decide against as i feel id be wasting my breath/ repeating myself. been put in a lot of uncomfortable spots due to her too, currently in one now. A lot of my frustration comes from her not listening/ doing what I say and also placing unnecessary burdens on me…it’s like my cup can never be full

as i consider and ultimately decide on breaking up w her, the biggest things on my mind are being lonely and finding someone else. I’m in scarcity right now in honestly
 

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A square? Not so much, however I’m definitely simping. Big issues looking back were not setting boundaries, or setting them, then allowing them to be breached. Thing is, I wasn’t even looking for anyone fr, she came to me and we REALLY hit it off. It’s been over 2yrs now.

thru that time, i noticed myself devolve/ weaken in a way. idk how to describe it, but it’s like there are so many things i wouldn’t put up w that i do w her. issues that should be talked about i decide against as i feel id be wasting my breath/ repeating myself. been put in a lot of uncomfortable spots due to her too, currently in one now. A lot of my frustration comes from her not listening/ doing what I say and also placing unnecessary burdens on me…it’s like my cup can never be full

as i consider and ultimately decide on breaking up w her, the biggest things on my mind are being lonely and finding someone else. I’m in scarcity right now in honestly

if you're a law abiding citizen/civilian you are a square. Nothing wrong with being a square, stop letting rap music poison your brain.

Being a square doesn't = simp.
 

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as i consider and ultimately decide on breaking up w her, the biggest things on my mind are being lonely and finding someone else. I’m in scarcity right now in honestly
Don’t say that. Even if you are, don’t say that. That’s defeatist talk. Ion give a fukk if you get zero matches, zero looks, zero compliments.. if you working on yourself everyday you should know you’re product that’s in scarcity.

It’s fine to be alone. Even if you want companionship, there is options out there for you if you know your worth and are realistic.

If you were married, you would sound like the pathetic husband who’s staying with a woman who cheats on him consistently, and knows it.

you not an drink coaster bruh, start acting like it.
 
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