Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Nokids]

You should have laid some groundwork beforehand nothing explicit just playful stuff. Is this a first or second meetup?

If a chick is coming to my place it's usually a second meet and I would have already have gotten her comfortable with me kissing her and she and I know what's probably going to happen.

I've also found offering a playful offer of a massage helps break the ice, whislt paying attention to her boundaries.

Sup fam and nah it be the first link , and yea massages is def in the Arsenal. 2nd chills def are 100% tho never really thought of it like that. I be talking to them on some shyt and they end up pulling up acting like and I be thinking about how nikkas catch charges so I just fall back. All good tho imma take a l break from the apps.

Getting her to the crib is the move

No girl has ever pulled up to my crib and not smashed.
I'm not saying this vaguely I literally mean zero, it's a wrap once they are in the crib


Going to their crib I have had times where they didn't let me smash first time but still near 100& success rate

See bro I feel that 100% if you the 96 bulls I’m the spurs teams in the 2000s feel me so I be thinking like wtf they came over for. But I just chalk it up to me not being on top of my G with certain ones and they get turned off.

Going to a bytch crib is opposite since they walk around in skimpy shyt and I tell a bytch like I know you don’t have me here to fix no cable

appreciate y’all for real

 

[Javed]

I swear to God Charlotte got the goofiest broads I've ever ran into...

I moving there for work in a few months. What's the overall dating scene like in Charlotte?

 

[valet]

So I get this text from this female friend of mine, who thanked me for being a male friend who can cool and don't secretly like her. And I'm cool, ditto.

A couple of weeks ago, she text me asking me about am I guy who wants to get married. And what am I doing to approach women. In my mind, I'm like why do you care?

She never been into Black men, so we just always been friends. And she always emphasize we're just friends. I don't text nor call her. It's just weird how she always want to emphasize, our friendship. I'm at point where I feel like just not responding all together to her. Because I just don't get this emphasis on pointing out we're just friends. And at same time asking if I'm trying to find somebody. Just weird to me.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

So I get this text from this female friend of mine, who thanked me for being a male friend who can cool and don't secretly like her. And I'm cool, ditto.

A couple of weeks ago, she text me asking me about am I guy who wants to get married. And what am I doing to approach women. In my mind, I'm like why do you care?

She never been into Black men, so we just always been friends. And she always emphasize we're just friends. I don't text nor call her. It's just weird how she always want to emphasize, our friendship. I'm at point where I feel like just not responding all together to her. Because I just don't get this emphasis on pointing out we're just friends. And at same time asking if I'm trying to find somebody. Just weird to me.

Female friend? Don't let this girl use you as a emotional tampon. She's just an associate. It's strange how she's not in brothas but befriended you. If she's not benefitting your life you might just have to let her go.

A lot of women are bored and put guys in different categories. Limit your attention and focus on being the most attractive version of you.

The choice is yours my g

 

[RaspberryFitted]

So I get this text from this female friend of mine, who thanked me for being a male friend who can cool and don't secretly like her. And I'm cool, ditto.

A couple of weeks ago, she text me asking me about am I guy who wants to get married. And what am I doing to approach women. In my mind, I'm like why do you care?

She never been into Black men, so we just always been friends. And she always emphasize we're just friends. I don't text nor call her. It's just weird how she always want to emphasize, our friendship. I'm at point where I feel like just not responding all together to her. Because I just don't get this emphasis on pointing out we're just friends. And at same time asking if I'm trying to find somebody. Just weird to me.

Send her weird ass back to recess where she so desperately wants to be at again. Just off the “thanks for being such a great friend” line alone.

don’t respond to her again.

 

[MikelArteta]

So I get this text from this female friend of mine, who thanked me for being a male friend who can cool and don't secretly like her. And I'm cool, ditto.

A couple of weeks ago, she text me asking me about am I guy who wants to get married. And what am I doing to approach women. In my mind, I'm like why do you care?

She never been into Black men, so we just always been friends. And she always emphasize we're just friends. I don't text nor call her. It's just weird how she always want to emphasize, our friendship. I'm at point where I feel like just not responding all together to her. Because I just don't get this emphasis on pointing out we're just friends. And at same time asking if I'm trying to find somebody. Just weird to me.

be a crutch brehs

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

if they arent adding value to your life then they need to go. I don't understand why men have women friends. maybe if its a homey from back in the day I guess. women arent that fun to be friends with lol.

 

[International Playa]

Most times women use their male friends when they need a favour lol

 

[Tr0yTV]

I gotta smash before I befriend a bytch

 

[RaspberryFitted]

you guys are such PIGS! As if women aren’t genuine human beings who you can’t create connections with. Ones with shining personalities, great insight on life, glowing energy that can energize your day. They can put you on game as well! You guys are TRULY missing out on amazing women who can offer something that sex cannot replace… who’s the one enjoying friendship dates with gorgeous women?!?! THIS GUY HERE

Spoiler

bytch you better shut the fukk up about ya problems and cha cha slide this shaft down ya throat

 

[Ohene]

if they arent adding value to your life then they need to go. I don't understand why men have women friends. maybe if its a homey from back in the day I guess. women arent that fun to be friends with lol.

It depends

i got girls that will bake me cookies/cake
Cook for me
Take care of me if I’m sick/bring me stuff
Advise me on girl issues
Hook me up with a friend (rare)
Go to parties with(social proofing)(it’s powerful going to a party snd bringing attractive women with you. Your homie throwing the party will appreciate it and women take notice)
And are just actually cool to politic with and talk to sometimes

it’s some cool girls out there worth friending

What I’ll say is never let yourself be friendzoned. My friends are girls i fukked but didn’t wanna wife or girls i wasnt sexually attracted too even if they were decent looking

 

[Reality]

So I get this text from this female friend of mine, who thanked me for being a male friend who can cool and don't secretly like her. And I'm cool, ditto.

A couple of weeks ago, she text me asking me about am I guy who wants to get married. And what am I doing to approach women. In my mind, I'm like why do you care?

She never been into Black men, so we just always been friends. And she always emphasize we're just friends. I don't text nor call her. It's just weird how she always want to emphasize, our friendship. I'm at point where I feel like just not responding all together to her. Because I just don't get this emphasis on pointing out we're just friends. And at same time asking if I'm trying to find somebody. Just weird to me.

I've got a slightly different take. I have female friends who I'd find attractive if it weren't for their absolutely terrible decision making and/or deluded perspective on relationships. It's honestly helpful for understanding how some women think and I genuinely try to help them out. I usually say my peace twice and leave it at that, but they never listen, but it's all good.

Keep the line open w/ ole girl. When you start dating other women, hit her for "advice". See if and how her tone changes. I'm willing to bet it will. At the very least she can be another person to learn from (even if more from a...let me recognize women like you so I can avoid them...perspective), and who knows, she might hook you up w/ some of her friends.

Definitely make sure YOU are comfortable with the pacing and nature of the convo though. No need to be someone's emotional support animal.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Yeah nothing wrong with female friends as long as both of y'all know what's what.

I have a few female friends. Attractive, yes, but they bring more to my life than me wanting to smash.

And it always good to have unfiltered female perspectives. Saved me from doing dumb stuff

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

Do yall play women's games and rules?
Example: constantly pursuing and you gotta initiate all the convos/messages, Can't respond too soon
she got rules about when she's gonna buss it open (based on what her friends told her and other BS)

 

[Rich Spirit]

Do yall play women's games and rules?
Example: constantly pursuing and you gotta initiate all the convos/messages, Can't respond too soon
she got rules about when she's gonna buss it open (based on what her friends told her and other BS)

I was thinking about this a week ago. I was dealing with a chick and I found myself always initiating the conversation. Last time i talked to her was last Friday. I pulled back over the weekend till now and since then I’ve never heard a peep from her. No “hi”, “how’s your day going”, nothing. I deleted the number this morning