Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Mufasa Ahadi said:
Be careful when women want to meet you in “party areas” of your city / town.

Low-risk investment for the woman and she can peel off and go to another spot with a free drink.
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Right. It's kind of why I'm leaning towards a Park Slope, Brooklyn Heights. If it goes South in Williamsburg, I'm leaving by myself and someone will scoop her up.
 
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Rell Lauren said:
Right. It's kind of why I'm leaning towards a Park Slope, Brooklyn Heights. If it goes South in Williamsburg, I'm leaving by myself and someone will scoop her up.
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I would try to be in proximity to her crib so I can finesse back to her place easily.

You should remove / hide religion & politics unless you’re dating for serious reasons.
 
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Killigraphy said:
Start using toys on her and see if her tune changes. Can't tell you how many women I've put on with the magic wand alone. Have them blow you while they use it, make videos, etc. Women love to conflate (sometimes for the worse) so she'll see you as part of her "fun". You also need to be assertive, don't ask, tell her what you want, show her, etc. From my own very detailed experience, even the pornstars I've worked with, were never freaks starting out, they met actors and fukkboys who turned them out. Birds are far more agreeable than anything on this planet, be a leader to your own sexual escapades, and she'll do everything to please you.
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We already using the magic wand lol

We do the exact scenario you just mentioned and she cums in less then 5 mins

Ok cool, i'll try the last part.
 
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Snoopy Loops said:
Im in a quandary. I've been dating my current girl for 6 months or so and I've started to see a trend that has me questioning the long term viability. She has this habit of assuming the worst in a situation and then accusing of me stuff before getting the full story. I cant stand being wrongly accused so sometimes I go from being apologetic to being angry when it seems she's not acknowledging that there was no ill-intent, which can make the conflict worse.

I know i have a responsibility to ensure things dont escalate, but I only have 2 strategies: 1) apologizing once and letting her trip if she's not satisfied; 2) appeasement approach which entails accepting responsibility even if i know i didnt do all what shes accusing me of. The annoying part is that its generally about silly shyt, like her thinking im ignoring her cuz my phone is on focus mode, even when its on that setting by mistake.

The issue with strategy 1 is that she'll follow up by saying i dont take her feelings seriously. The issue with strategy 2 is that it suggests i have to be content with assuming the role as a villain, which is something i'm accustomed to. Im not sure how embedded in her character this trait is. I want to empathize that this could be due to living hostile environments in her youth, but on the flip, whenever she does it, it dampens my attraction to her.
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You need to tell her that she needs therapy, those trust issues are far too glaring, you also need to not enable her any further. Tell her to stop, if she doesn't remove yourself from the equation, ice her for as long as necessary. Women respond to pavlovian techniques easily, you just need to be assertive about it, don't empathize with a child, teach her to be better, and every time she fukks up, she is no longer graced with your presence, texts, calls, touch, etc.
 
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Can anyone explain this to me…

I’m getting back into the casual dating thing after a while off. But I don’t really vibe with women like that. Idk, maybe I’m autistic or some shyt but…

I don’t have that natural man/woman vibe, sexual tension isn’t there. Shyt feels platonic even when I’m speaking to them online.

Maybe it’s just weird times right now but damn if it ain’t a pattern. It’s like the more I talk the more they get turned off.
 
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KingZimbabwe said:
Can anyone explain this to me…

I’m getting back into the casual dating thing after a while off. But I don’t really vibe with women like that. Idk, maybe I’m autistic or some shyt but…

I don’t have that natural man/woman vibe, sexual tension isn’t there. Shyt feels platonic even when I’m speaking to them online.

Maybe it’s just weird times right now but damn if it ain’t a pattern. It’s like the more I talk the more they get turned off.
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honestly breh, best thing i can suggest is going out to more places where they may be a wider variety of women than you're used to. sounds like you're a nontraditional dude, just gotta find you a nontraditional girl. i would recommend going to conventions and festivals, farmer's markets / book signings and even alternative music concerts. you might even find a old thot that's looking for something different herself. its not you though, don't question yourself
 
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KingZimbabwe said:
Can anyone explain this to me…

I’m getting back into the casual dating thing after a while off. But I don’t really vibe with women like that. Idk, maybe I’m autistic or some shyt but…

I don’t have that natural man/woman vibe, sexual tension isn’t there. Shyt feels platonic even when I’m speaking to them online.

Maybe it’s just weird times right now but damn if it ain’t a pattern. It’s like the more I talk the more they get turned off.
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Right now would you fukk yourself if you wasn’t you?
 
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