To be honest, I don't.You guys sending following up messages if they don’t respond in a few days? I send them and lot of times I been getting unmatched. Is it better to let it go or at least send one follow up message and they might unmatch you? Not responding and unmatching is pretty much same thing?
What I have done is months down the line while unmatching old matches I'd send a message along the lines of 'Hey, I got a degree, above 6ft with a full beard, I'm caviar out here don't miss out, lets talk'
I haven't got replied and even a number from it, but in reality it comes off as thirsty and sets you back on being socially approved so I wouldn't advise to do it, just chalk it to the game.

