Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I get it all the time, especially at night clubs. Women suffer from the two C'; capriciousness and conflation. She might see something in you that she doesn't like, and conflates it with some over analytical nonsense and decides she can find better. Problem for her is; they've usually done this countless times, and confirmation bias sets in, ultimately, if you're punching her throat with your dikk quick enough, she'll vanish.
Capricious is the right word for sure
 

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Wasnt even tryna date this chick but i agree
Just wanted to fukk lol
So she made the right decision at the end of the day
Yall gotta draw mental lines in the sand.

Cant be just trying tk smash then get your feings hurt when you arent trying to commit. Cause if you trying to only smash you probably would pull back after reaching your goal. She just beat you to the punch lol
 

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Yall gotta draw mental lines in the sand.

Cant be just trying tk smash then get your feings hurt when you arent trying to commit. Cause if you trying to only smash you probably would pull back after reaching your goal. She just beat you to the punch lol
nobody's feelings are hurt, but it is always going to be frustrating regardless
after all, its plenty of women who back then i wanted to do a lot more than just fukk....that were on the same bs. so it isnt that simple.

flaky, capricious, whimsical behavior is always going to be frustrating and bullshyt regardless
 

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nobody's feelings are hurt, but it is always going to be frustrating regardless
after all, its plenty of women who back then i wanted to do a lot more than just fukk....that were on the same bs. so it isnt that simple.

flaky, capricious, whimsical behavior is always going to be frustrating and bullshyt regardless
Frustration is an emotion.

The reality is the current landscape is forcing dudes to play roles they aint built for. If I’m only trying to smash i can give a shyt what the chick does/flakes/etc because I’m investing minimal effort.

If you not on some Ivan Drago “if he dies he dies” steeze when it comes to just smashing then you may be better off playing boyfriend.

Im not coming at you, im more so saying i think lotta dudes are capping when they trying to act like they dont care and just running the game.
 

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Frustration is an emotion.

The reality is the current landscape is forcing dudes to play roles they aint built for. If I’m only trying to smash i can give a shyt what the chick does/flakes/etc because I’m investing minimal effort.

If you not on some Ivan Drago “if he dies he dies” steeze when it comes to just smashing then you may be better off playing boyfriend.

Im not coming at you, im more so saying i think lotta dudes are capping when they trying to act like they dont care and just running the game.
meh. i know and i aint taking it personally

afterall thats why i said that at the end of the day she made the right choice so i cant be mad

that being said, i can still be frustrated by the fact i wont get to fukk because It woulda been a good notch under the belt :laugh:

frustration is a result of mismatched expectations vs. results. didnt get the result I expected thats all. its more bytches out there so it aint that srs
 

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meh. i know and i aint taking it personally

afterall thats why i said that at the end of the day she made the right choice so i cant be mad

that being said, i can still be frustrated by the fact i wont get to fukk because It woulda been a good notch under the belt :laugh:

frustration is a result of mismatched expectations vs. results. didnt get the result I expected thats all. its more bytches out there so it aint that srs
I guess. Maybe I just don't value p*ssy to even care if i hit or not, I got better shyt to worry about.
 

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nobody's feelings are hurt, but it is always going to be frustrating regardless
after all, its plenty of women who back then i wanted to do a lot more than just fukk....that were on the same bs. so it isnt that simple.

flaky, capricious, whimsical behavior is always going to be frustrating and bullshyt regardless

the most fickle creatures on earth
 

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anyone in here at the age of 35+ and still dating- do yall still crave for a family, longterm relationship etc?
I'm 35, I just become single at the beginning of the year. I don't crave a relationship/ family because I'm still living an enjoyable life as a single man.

I'm in the process of buying a 2 bedroom condo, going to decorate it to my taste, big screen tvs, PlayStation nice sofa. All summer I'm going music festivals with my brehs. I still go on dates with various women.

I'm always working on projects, working on business ideas, working on my career, & certificates. Once I complete my certificates, I'm back travelling the world #PassportGang

I'm still dating inbetween, if I meet a cool lady, I will settle down. If I don't, I will enjoy the single life & experiences with the various women I will have fun with inbetween.

As a man, you should push yourself to the limit to reach your fullest potential & fulfill your purpose in life. You should also enjoy your life whether you are single or not.

There are so many experiences to enjoy in life, you could go skiing in Europe, smoke finest weed in Amsterdam, tour Safari's in Africa, go watch your fav sports team, learn a trade, start a business, play your fav video games. Etc

This life is short, enjoy it to the fullest
 
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