Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

nothing wrong with missing your ex breh. but the truth is she was just an ordinary girl that you applied pressure to and it resulted in a certain bond. Take yourself out of it and you'll see that she was just any old geek on the street.

Like another breh said, if she was all that she would still be around and whatever broke y'all up would be a story you talk and laugh about on group trips.

I remember years ago a chick breaking up with me because of "distance". Her very next bf lived in a different country and she ended up moving to his city.

Chicks will break up with you for making 40k a year and then marry a unemployed artist who has "potential"
Chicks will break up with you because she found you liking a girls photo on instagram but be with a man who is married as his side chick
Chicks will break up with you because you guys are having tiny issues, but walk down the aisle with the guy who hit her, has anger management issues

 

[DTXwavey_02]

Yall must like going out or some shyt lmfao

Sort of lol, only one of them was an actual date. The other two were pretty much hook ups

 

[Killigraphy]

wait

Are you saying that not talking to countless women equates to being a simp? Legit asking

Not talking to countless women would be in the square category. A simp is just someone willing to peg himself just for the attention/admiration of women. There's a river and valley difference between say; Antman and Thanos....one is literally killing the galaxy off for the attention of a being that doesn't even want to know he's alive (or in that case, dead) and the other is just a "regular" guy taking what he can get.

 

[Dave24]

Not talking to countless women would be in the square category. A simp is just someone willing to peg himself just for the attention/admiration of women. There's a river and valley difference between say; Antman and Thanos....one is literally killing the galaxy off for the attention of a being that doesn't even want to know he's alive (or in that case, dead) and the other is just a "regular" guy taking what he can get.

Do Simpson work on body and mind? Also if you want to be in a relationship but have women on the side is that possible to do or should you stay single?

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

@FireMikelArteta dropped some gems. Thanks breh. I’m trying to focus on myself and be 100% emotionally clear of her before I attempt to f*ck on another woman

 

[Apollo Creed]

Sort of lol, only one of them was an actual date. The other two were pretty much hook ups

by your post it seemed like your goal was to just take hoes out or something lol.

I rank 'good' by success rate, with success rate = % of meet hitting a defined goal.

Cause I can go out with 100 chicks, but if my goal is to smash and I only hit 1, that is horrible.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I remember years ago a chick breaking up with me because of "distance". Her very next bf lived in a different country and she ended up moving to his city.

Chicks will break up with you for making 40k a year and then marry a unemployed artist who has "potential"
Chicks will break up with you because she found you liking a girls photo on instagram but be with a man who is married as his side chick
Chicks will break up with you because you guys are having tiny issues, but walk down the aisle with the guy who hit her, has anger management issues

Truth. Crazy because my ex left me for a dude that had 3 kids (one was 20, the other two early teenagers) by two different women and is older than me. Lived 3 1/2 hours from our city. So left me because she said I wasn’t “available” for a dude she met online that lived in the next state. She’d rather drive there every weekend than try to work it out with me



Anyway it’s over oh well lol. Next woman will be better

 

[MikelArteta]

@FireMikelArteta dropped some gems. Thanks breh. I’m trying to focus on myself and be 100% emotionally clear of her before I attempt to f*ck on another woman

Always remember breh if she really wanted to be with you she would

Jennifer Lopez went back to ben affleck because that's what she wanted.

 

[Killigraphy]

Do Simpson work on body and mind? Also if you want to be in a relationship but have women on the side is that possible to do or should you stay single?

Anyone can work on the body and mind, however, its what you make the focal point of your existence that defines the camp you're from.

As for the second part, its all possible, plenty of men out there in full blown marriages, lying about being faithful with a mistress or two. I'd say stay single and work on yourself, juggling women requires both skill and tact in a relationship, unless you've put it out there that you want something open or that you simply will be seeing other women.

 

[Volt]

Brehs man I’m struggling to get over my ex



She broke up with me last November. Messed up and spent weeks trying to get her back immediately after. Decided to go no contact in December. Couldn’t get her off my mind, messed up AGAIN and reached out to her this past March which probably set me back worse. We texted one last time in back in May. Haven’t talked since (which is good). I’ve dealt/ been with several women since her and I broke up but can’t seem to shake thinking about her wanting that old thing back.

Fouled up thing is I KNOW I should’ve bushed her immediately after break up after reading this thread but my dumb ass really felt something for her and kept trying. No more reaching out I learned my lesson



I need tips brehs on how to get past this faster. I’m ready to move forward fellas

Ain't no easy road to getting over it. All you can do is focus on something else. Work, gym, style... I dunno if I'd recommend new women right now if you're still feeling it. It kinda messes with the vibe and you might catch feelings for some bird that ain't worth it.

The activities you do before sleeping matter the most.
You don't want to go to bed and not have anything to think about. Just trust me on that one.

Don't forget about one thing. She's the one who broke up with you. That means she gets to hold that L when you level up.
Just work on yourself and that'll give you the gravity to pull in women that will actually value you. She clearly didn't.

Ultimately, the key is to recognize and accept that she didn't want you, so there's no point in thinking about it. If emotions are clouding your judgment, be logical so you can clear it.

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

I'm not gonna sit here and lie, appearance is one thing, but its not the majority, it just helps, and its highly situational. In clubs, a lot of married/milfs and for some reason, Indian chicks are super forward, they can't help themselves. And you'll even hear the disdain they have for the men they have to deal with in their own culture and lives. I've heard everything from "Ugh he's just so short" to "he's a p*ssy". Birds are vile.

The hard approach always works for me, not a neg, but also not entirely a compliment. I just jump off the cuff with something I know will garner a response. And that's the key here, you're not there to sound like every simp/beta that she knows, afraid to even say you don't like her hair color. You stand your ground on a semi-joke and keep going from there. I've made fun of tall, short, fat, skinny, hot, and ugly women. Its a shock to their system, turns them on that someone would even have the balls to talk to them like that, then its fukk time.

Now with that posted, you'll still have chicks who will want to feign sluttiness and act all moral even after you done already seen her uterus, those just require some liquor or drugs then its cock gobbler 5000 time. Your goal is to stand out in all forms, just don't be a jester, no women ever wanted to be seduced by a fool. Be cool, be funny/offensive for a bit, let her know you don't care about her feeling insulted by continuing the conversation.

I can attest to this. I'm reasonably good looking but status.

The amount of thrown at me when I was working at clubs was amazing. Hen parties was the worst. Women married or just a about to get married were the thirstiest.

 

[CP3.]

You not the only one breh, broke up with my ex end of January.

I fukked up last night & looked at he IG. Some breh in her IG stories video called her "babe"

My condolences breh

 

[Rasille]

I’ve been there too when I can’t seem to get someone off my mind. Time heals all wounds, and you’ll look back on this and cringe at the stuff you were doing in an attempt to win her back.

 

[MikelArteta]

Ain't no easy road to getting over it. All you can do is focus on something else. Work, gym, style... I dunno if I'd recommend new women right now if you're still feeling it. It kinda messes with the vibe and you might catch feelings for some bird that ain't worth it.

The activities you do before sleeping matter the most.
You don't want to go to bed and not have anything to think about. Just trust me on that one.

Don't forget about one thing. She's the one who broke up with you. That means she gets to hold that L when you level up.
Just work on yourself and that'll give you the gravity to pull in women that will actually value you. She clearly didn't.

Ultimately, the key is to recognize and accept that she didn't want you, so there's no point in thinking about it. If emotions are clouding your judgment, be logical so you can clear it.

Yup since my ex fiance tossed me in the bushes 5 years ago. I'm making like double what I made back then, have a brand new vehicle, in the best shape of my life, and have been to like 20 countries in that time frame.

 

[MikelArteta]

I’ve been there too when I can’t seem to get someone off my mind. Time heals all wounds, and you’ll look back on this and cringe at the stuff you were doing in an attempt to win her back.

Yup we've all been there and made all the mistakes and never worked. I've never won back a chick, i've had chicks come back after I was dumped and never said a word to em again but by the time they did I was no longer interested.