Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

There’s only so many times you can charge it to the game

I’m always charging it. You gotta keep yourself sane. My favorite line -

“When you’re ready to meet me, hit me up”

if you show me cooperation & effort, I’ll work with you. Pretty much majority of men will work with you.

 

[Ahadi]

I was just thinking about that too. I was on Instagram and this couple, a very attractive black women and your average limpwristed, scrawny, short Asian guy would not leave my feed no matter how hard I filtered them out.

It got me thinking how I never see black women that attractive with brehs that shared the Asian guy’s body type and interests, but I do see black women with other races of men built like that.

It also takes me back to Serena Williams and how she got it on with some potbellied forum maker that had less money than her and how all the black men she dated were athletes and rappers.

All Media and programming.

Preppy / BW from the suburbs have universal options. But for some, they may feel a real “black man” or “masculine black man” is an athlete or rapping. Not so much in business, white collar or blue collar work. Which messes our community up when it comes to coupling.

But the bottom line is they don’t respect that particular group of black men. They respect the dysfunctional black men.

Ive heard a woman say “if I have to date a cornball brotha, I might as well date a cac”

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

All Media and programming.

Preppy / BW from the suburbs have universal options. But for some, they may feel a real “black man” or “masculine black man” is an athlete or rapping. Not so much in business, white collar or blue collar work. Which messes our community up when it comes to coupling.

But the bottom line is they don’t respect that particular group of black men. They respect the dysfunctional black men.

Ive heard a woman say “if I have to date a cornball brotha, I might as well date a cac”

I think a lot of them might just hate black men overall or look down on us because they want to be white so bad. It’s pretty telling that I’ve seen more “cornball” brehs with more non-black women than I have with attractive black women.

It’s either:
Lower your standards
Larp as a criminal
Become an athlete
Or date out

 

[CW_1991]

I think a lot of them might just hate black men overall or look down on us because they want to be white so bad. It’s pretty telling that I’ve seen more “cornball” brehs with more non-black women than I have with attractive black women.

It’s either:
Lower your standards
Larp as a criminal
Become an athlete
Or date out

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

I interacted with my first middle eastern chick IRL today when I went to Myrtle Beach. She was kind of mid and had that hijab on, but our conversation was nice. Online some of my best hits are with MENA women, don't know why. MB also had some Indians.

I also saw my first thin Latina too. I'm serious when I say this, up until now I have never seen a not-fat Latina irl. here in Charleston and Ridgeville the only Latinas you see are box-shaped and a lot of them don't speak English. They're also all Mexican, I've never met a non-mexican latino, either.

 

[morris]

 

[NoirDynosaur]

I interacted with my first middle eastern chick IRL today when I went to Myrtle Beach. She was kind of mid and had that hijab on, but our conversation was nice. Online some of my best hits are with MENA women, don't know why. MB also had some Indians.

I also saw my first thin Latina too. I'm serious when I say this, up until now I have never seen a not-fat Latina irl. here in Charleston and Ridgeville the only Latinas you see are box-shaped and a lot of them don't speak English. They're also all Mexican, I've never met a non-mexican latino, either.

The best latinas are in Miami, Washington Heights/Fordham/Corona Queens, Los Angeles/San Diego/Socal, Chicago and Texas.

Middle Eastern chicks they cool but quite conservative. If you travel to Tel Aviv, a lot of them are open to meeting tourists.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

The best latinas are in Miami, Washington Heights/Fordham/Corona Queens, Los Angeles/San Diego/Socal, Chicago and Texas.

Miami is the closest so I'm going there the first chance I get. Not just for the Latinas, I hear it's got a nice nightlife, too.

 

[MikelArteta]

I was just thinking about that too. I was on Instagram and this couple, a very attractive black women and your average limpwristed, scrawny, short Asian guy would not leave my feed no matter how hard I filtered them out.

It got me thinking how I never see black women that attractive with brehs that shared the Asian guy’s body type and interests, but I do see black women with other races of men built like that.

It also takes me back to Serena Williams and how she got it on with some potbellied forum maker that had less money than her and how all the black men she dated were athletes and rappers.

I see it all over my city (toronto)
attractive black women with avg looking cacs or other races
but if they were to date a black man he'd have to be this height, this skin tone, make this amount of money. I've had chicks become :picard; when they realize I'm jamaican but would had no problem dating cacs

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

I see it all over my city (toronto)
attractive black women with avg looking cacs or other races
but if they were to date a black man he'd have to be this height, this skin tone, make this amount of money. I've had chicks become :picard; when they realize I'm jamaican but would had no problem dating cacs

It's pitiful.

 

[Panther]

I'm back in the game after over a year off.

When you really focus on self improvement the women notice and move accordingly.

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm back in the game after over a year off.

When you really focus on self improvement the women notice and move accordingly.

what did you do in the year?

 

[Chris Cool]

Been gone from dating apps for a year. My profile game must've gotten during that time cause I ain't getting no hits.

help me out brehs.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Been gone from dating apps for a year. My profile game must've gotten during that time cause I ain't getting no hits.

help me out brehs.

You take any good photos within that year of inactivity? Your prompts on point & mention recent trends?

Outside of that, not much help to give.

 

[Panther]

what did you do in the year?

lost 60+ lbs, focused on my career (got a cert and new job), took some solo trips, expanded the social circle, and worked on my mental/emotional