Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

The ADD

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they want to get chose, and i think they look at me like prime rib.

why complain about someone on his grind, minding his business
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Take this advice. Change whatever allowed to know they said it and also stop caring enough to post it………
 

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Take this advice. Change whatever allowed to know they said it and also stop caring enough to post it………
so i gotta be a superstar player(not built for it) or stop being tall and handsome so they stop worrying about my business. the second point is good advice though
:lolbron:
can’t wait to move forward in my career
 

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I have fukked up… Been in a relationship for a year, we have gone on multiple vacation, and I have been thinking about proposing but I let her move in last week….. Aaaaaand, I don’t feel the same about her anymore. :snoop:

It’s fukked up because she had an apartment that was only $1200/month and you’re not finding rent like that in Atlanta anymore.
 

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I have fukked up… Been in a relationship for a year, we have gone on multiple vacation, and I have been thinking about proposing but I let her move in last week….. Aaaaaand, I don’t feel the same about her anymore. :snoop:

It’s fukked up because she had an apartment that was only $1200/month and you’re not finding rent like that in Atlanta anymore.
$1200

Atlanta? Where?!
 

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I have fukked up… Been in a relationship for a year, we have gone on multiple vacation, and I have been thinking about proposing but I let her move in last week….. Aaaaaand, I don’t feel the same about her anymore. :snoop:

It’s fukked up because she had an apartment that was only $1200/month and you’re not finding rent like that in Atlanta anymore.

Why don't you feel the same about her anymore?

Seems like a very abrupt change. Y'all been on multiple trips and been together for a year, so what did you learn in that one week of living together that's new?
 

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Chick i been talking to for like 3-4 weeks getting flakey on me now the past 3 days. Like WTH. :dahell: I haven't done anything different. It's like she switched overnight. She been acting SUPER into me the whole time. I just always assume it's another dude if something like that happens .



Bout to delete her number :camby:
 

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Chick i been talking to for like 3-4 weeks getting flakey on me now the past 3 days. Like WTH. :dahell: I haven't done anything different. It's like she switched overnight.

Bout to delete her number. :camby:
Did you ask her out in those 3-4 weeks? The lack of escalation could make her lose interest.
 

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Did you ask her out in those 3-4 weeks? The lack of escalation could make her lose interest.
Yeah bro. We went to lunch couple Fridays ago. Things progressed after that.

Last Friday night she had a football game to watch her friends daughter cheer. I asked her last minute if she wanted to go eat before the game. She couldn't bc she had to drop her kids off b4 game. No worries on that, last min ask on my part. Totally fine.

So the next night (Sat) we were texting, I asked her if she wanted to hang out Sunday, she said she would be busy(grocery shopping, cleaning the house) most of the day and getting her kids ready for school this week, but she said could hang out that morning. She loves ice skating so we/she(happily) agreed to meet that morning at 1130am to skate.
She texts me "good morning" at 830am....then 20 mins later texts again saying she can't make it bc she has a flat tire issue where it loses air, needs to get car inspection as well. I understand that issue and I know it's factual with her tire. Said she "woke up feeling overwhelmed". But basically since then she hasn't been communicating with me much at all this week. Couple days ago she took like 12 hrs to reply to my text. Never even "read" it. And she's ALWAYS on her phone.

Hasn't initiated convo with me at all this entire week. And today she was supposed to get back to me on something several hrs ago and never did. But yet, always on her phone. So, yeah...

(mind you she's been super into me up until this week)

I could send a polite text and ask if everything is cool bc I haven't heard from her much.... but I also don't want to look like a dumbass who can't take a possible clue.
 

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Yeah bro. We went to lunch couple Fridays ago. Things progressed after that.

Last Friday night she had a football game to watch her friends daughter cheer. I asked her last minute if she wanted to go eat before the game. She couldn't bc she had to drop her kids off b4 game. No worries on that, last min ask on my part. Totally fine.

So the next night (Sat) we were texting, I asked her if she wanted to hang out Sunday, she said she would be busy(grocery shopping, cleaning the house) most of the day and getting her kids ready for school this week, but she said could hang out that morning. She loves ice skating so we/she(happily) agreed to meet that morning at 1130am to skate.
She texts me "good morning" at 830am....then 20 mins later texts again saying she can't make it bc she has a flat tire issue where it loses air, needs to get car inspection as well. I understand that issue and I know it's factual with her tire. Said she "woke up feeling overwhelmed". But basically since then she hasn't been communicating with me much at all this week. Couple days ago she took like 12 hrs to reply to my text. Never even "read" it. And she's ALWAYS on her phone.

Hasn't initiated convo with me at all this entire week. And today she was supposed to get back to me on something several hrs ago and never did. But yet, always on her phone. So, yeah...

(mind you she's been super into me up until this week)

I could send a polite text and ask if everything is cool bc I haven't heard from her much.... but I also don't want to look like a dumbass who can't take a possible clue.
Be like that. People lose interest. Just keep it pushing.
 
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