Yeah bro. We went to lunch couple Fridays ago. Things progressed after that.
Last Friday night she had a football game to watch her friends daughter cheer. I asked her last minute if she wanted to go eat before the game. She couldn't bc she had to drop her kids off b4 game. No worries on that, last min ask on my part. Totally fine.
So the next night (Sat) we were texting, I asked her if she wanted to hang out Sunday, she said she would be busy(grocery shopping, cleaning the house) most of the day and getting her kids ready for school this week, but she said could hang out that morning. She loves ice skating so we/she(happily) agreed to meet that morning at 1130am to skate.
She texts me "good morning" at 830am....then 20 mins later texts again saying she can't make it bc she has a flat tire issue where it loses air, needs to get car inspection as well. I understand that issue and I know it's factual with her tire. Said she "woke up feeling overwhelmed". But basically since then she hasn't been communicating with me much at all this week. Couple days ago she took like 12 hrs to reply to my text. Never even "read" it. And she's ALWAYS on her phone.
Hasn't initiated convo with me at all this entire week. And today she was supposed to get back to me on something several hrs ago and never did. But yet, always on her phone. So, yeah...
(mind you she's been super into me up until this week)
I could send a polite text and ask if everything is cool bc I haven't heard from her much.... but I also don't want to look like a dumbass who can't take a possible clue.
I have recently had this exact same situation with a young lady recently.
Literally the exact taking almost a whole day to respond thing.
Personally the only reason I didn't bush her instantly after that stunt is because I worked with her
I would love for you to come back and tell me I'm wrong, but the interest is gone.
I'm not even going to speculate on the reasons why that is cause it's irrelevant.
I see the other brehs in here trying to shoot her bail saying she maybe genuinely overwhelmed, but once again basing of situations I have personally been through, a women loves to vent to the man she is interested in about what she is going through work, friends, life etc...
And if it's not you it's someone else